Worry that you don't know others, because "knowing yourself and knowing your opponent will not be defeated in a hundred battles." "Those who know themselves are clear, and those who know others are wise." "Instead of putting the cart before the horse, worrying that others don't understand you.
Being able to understand others is more wisdom and wisdom, and it is deeper wisdom and higher skill.
is still this clever Mr. Wolong, and he is obviously also very skilled in "knowing others".
It is precisely because he deeply "knows others" and understands Guan Yunchang's personality endowment that he will send the task of guarding Huarong Dao to Guan Yunchang.
According to the situation at that time, it was more beneficial for Liu Bei's side to not kill Cao Cao, who fled in embarrassment, and the three-legged stand was the best protection for the Shu State, which was still very weak at that time, and would also provide the broadest space for development.
In addition, Cao Cao's own life should not be extinguished at that time. Therefore, Zhuge Liang knew that Guan Yunchang valued righteousness and kindness, and asked Guan Yunchang to guard Huarong Dao, and he would definitely let Cao Cao go, so he deliberately asked Guan Yunchang to guard Huarong Dao.
Sure enough, as Zhuge Liang expected, Guan Yunchang really couldn't do anything to Cao Cao, who had treated him politely and kindly, and let Cao Cao escape.
And when he asked for orders to guard Huarong Dao, he made a military order with the military advisor Zhuge Liang, so he could only go back and ask for death.
So Zhuge Liang kills two birds with one stone.
On the one hand, it dealt a good blow to Guan Yu's invincible arrogance and arrogance in the world. Liberating Guan Yu, Guan Yu owed himself a big favor, and completely conquered Guan Yu psychologically.
On the other hand, let Guan Yu release Cao Cao, and also sent a big favor to Cao Cao for Guan Yu. made Guan Yu's reputation of valuing righteousness and kindness more widely praised, which not only added infinite personality charm to Guan Yu himself, but also won a good reputation and popularity for Shu.
Look at how wonderful this wisdom of "knowing others" is, which can make things round and complete with half the effort, the icing on the cake.
and the later wonderful let Liu Bei go to Dongwu to meet his relatives, and the several clever tricks awarded are all the results of "knowing others" very clearly.
Zhuge Liang can "know others" and understand others very clearly, so he will make accurate predictions and grasp the possible development of things.
Therefore, he repeatedly encountered difficulties and turned danger into relief, so that Liu Bei, a half-old man who was over half a hundred years old, successfully married back the sister of Sun Quan, who was like a flower and jade, and was in her prime of life, and also left an eternal story of "losing his wife and breaking his army".
and the later wonderful "Empty City Plan", "Death Zhuge Scares the Living Zhongda", etc., are all profound grasps and applications of "knowing others".
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Therefore, "knowing others" is more important than "being known". Strive to lay a good foundation of skills, accumulate capital for "being known", and practice more exquisite skills for "knowing others".
When one's own ability is deep enough, it will naturally have the opportunity to "be known".
Knowing that others are capable and skillful, on the basis of their own ability and strong skill, they have a better chance of being known, and they are more capable of undertaking opportunities, that is, when the wealth of the sky comes, they must have profound skills to be able to bear it.
Virtue carries things, thick can carry reputation, and only when their own ability and character are deep enough, can they bear all kinds of glory and aura after being "known".
Otherwise, "if virtue is not matched, there will be aftermath", and once the glory and aura of "being known" are obtained, if the ability and moral character are not enough, it will become a disaster that harms oneself.
#萌娃成长记#
