In reality, emotional intelligence has a great impact on a person's life.
Not only in terms of networking, but also in marriage and family, people with high and low emotional intelligence are treated completely differently.
People with high emotional intelligence tend to get along with others more silkily. People with low emotional intelligence are often prone to conflicts with others. And then for the sake of these contradictions, let yourself be unhappy all day long.
Therefore, it is necessary for adults to improve their emotional intelligence.
Take the matter of visiting the door as an example, it can reflect the difference in people's emotional intelligence.
People with high emotional intelligence don't like to go to the homes of 3 types of people, and only people with low emotional intelligence go.
01 A family whose family is not in good shape
In reality, some good things and bad things will happen in everyone's home.
When you encounter a good thing, you are naturally willing to share it with others, and even show it off, happy and happy. It's human nature.
But when something bad happens, I want to hide it and not be gossiped about.
Of course, there are also some people who catch people every day when they encounter something bad, which is also very troublesome.
People with high emotional intelligence will not go to the homes of people who have been in bad condition recently, this is to protect the dignity of others.
For example, one of my relatives had a time when his wife was seriously ill and was in a state of embarrassment.
At this time, it is actually not suitable to visit the door. When we went, people still had to entertain, it was very inappropriate, right?
Ask people if they need help, and that's enough.
As for people, they must learn to look at their eyes.
When someone else is not going well in school, their children are not going well, or there is an accident in their life, don't run to cause trouble.
Or, when people are in poor health and the economy is unstable, don't run to cause trouble.
This is very bad.
When the situation of the family improves, it is not too late.
02 If you don't know each other well, don't rush there
In reality, with people you are more familiar with, a little casual, it doesn't matter.
But with people we don't know well, we have to be careful.
Some people are always in a hurry to go to other people's homes. Or suggest that everyone go to someone's house.
In fact, the other party was very unhappy.
For example, some unfamiliar relatives and acquaintances may not see each other once a year and may not be able to call them by name.
Do you feel abrupt when you suddenly want to come to your house?
Then you have to take the time to clean up the house and prevent people from looking down on you. Isn't it troublesome?
In reality, people with high emotional intelligence will not disturb other people's lives casually.
They will communicate in advance and then make an appointment to go again.
In the face of people who have little friendship, they will not rush to the door.
That's not intimacy, it's offense.
03 People who are not good at character
In reality, people with high emotional intelligence are more accurate in looking at people.
Basically, they can judge each other as honest and kind. Or is there a serious problem with character.
Then, those who have character problems, they will stay away.
For example, some people like to sow discord and especially toss the gossip of their neighbors.
This kind of person, a person with high emotional intelligence, does not like to socialize.
And people with low emotional intelligence can't see this. They may come and go with everyone and not pick at all.
In reality, emotional intelligence is important to everyone.
People with extremely high emotional intelligence are like tigers with wings when doing things. It's easy to get good resources, and it's easier to calculate people's hearts.
Therefore, even if we don't play tricks, we need to improve our emotional intelligence. Are you right?