It is said that in the face of the soaring bride price, recently, the country is finally going to take action!
Many families get married and the whole family is in debt, and a wedding in the countryside makes more families "sigh and sigh". "Sky-high bride price" has become an obstacle to the marriage of men and women in rural areas.
What is a sky-high bride price
The sky-high bride price refers to the influence of extravagant comparison in recent years, and the custom of wedding bride price in rural areas has gradually changed. Regardless of whether the family can afford it or not, it has to be done in a big way. The bride price is even higher, gold and silver jewelry is just the beginning, and new houses and new cars are "indispensable". The phenomenon of sky-high bride price mostly occurs in underdeveloped rural areas.
The absence of the bride price has some impact on the marriage rate, but it is not particularly large
Now it's not just women who are picking! Men are also picking, and who doesn't want to struggle less! Now many men in the countryside are looking for them in the city. Tangled with this feeling is really full and has nothing to do, can you really accept such a man?
The harmonization of population proportions is the root of the problem.
In the bottom society, the concept of marriage and love between men and women is in such a state of twisting.
But in the worldview of the rich, the continuation of the bloodline is still the most important. Because rich people have too many resources. You can see that many rich people like to have children.
One is that there is no pressure to have children and nurture them. The second is to have more choices when you need to choose an heir in the future. In order to ensure that his family continues to grow and obtain more resources.
But if you don't get married and don't have offspring, when you grow old, all your resources will be directly recycled. At marriageable age, most women are worth more than men, and there is no way to do this, according to the current social evaluation standards, that is, men are rich and women are good-looking.
Based on this, women are at the marriageable age at the most valuable moment in their lives, and men are close to the trough of value, at this time to match, unless you are an outstanding man, otherwise it must be you who will be subsidized, of course, this situation may change as you go back in age, which is also the source of instability in many families.
But when women's free will awakens and women's social value increases, they are unwilling to play that passive role, which is okay and conducive to social progress.
Even if there is no bride price, there will be new requirements: for example, many people today ask for marriage, get on the car, get off the car, change the mouth fee, of course, give some red envelopes appropriately, in order to show auspiciousness and peace, it is understandable, but some people open their mouths and ask for a very high price, so people who are greedy for money will still try to change their names to get the gift money back.
The current low marriage rate is not entirely the result of the bride price, you don't see that in real life, there are still a few people who can't get married because of the bride price.
What really affects the marriage rate is a complex combination of factors, such as young people's concept of marriage is changing, and the traditional concept of marriage is no longer fully recognized by them. In addition, the current employment situation, work pressure, housing loan pressure, pressure to support parents, and pressure of children's birth and education are all objective factors for the low marriage rate.
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