#记录我的生活#
It's been more than two o'clock when I came back from my sister's house this afternoon, and my eldest son hasn't finished his homework today, and I haven't sat down when I get home when I get home when I get a call from a friend, not a friend to be precise, and I haven't seen each other for five or six years.
This friend is my eldest son's classmate mother, when my eldest son was in kindergarten, several of our classmates' mothers often chatted together in the park, and when it was time, we went to pick up the children from school and went home, at that time we had a good relationship, I thought we were friends, we often went shopping together, shopping, and made an appointment a few times to drink morning tea and sing K.
She called my friend just now, her name is Ajuan, she called and asked me if I would like to lend her 1,000 yuan, she said that this year her husband has not been to work for a while, the economy is relatively tight, this year they want to go back to their mother-in-law's house for the New Year, after all, they have not been back to their mother-in-law's house for three years, and their mother-in-law called to ask them to go back for the New Year this year.
But they didn't have any money, so they called me to see if I was willing to lend her 1,000 yuan, preferably odd money, 10 yuan, 5 yuan, 20 yuan, 50 yuan, and told me to exchange all the odd money for her as much as possible.
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My husband doesn't have a double salary this year, no bonus, I have to go back to my mother-in-law's house for the New Year, my economy is not very relaxed, and I asked me to try to get 1,000 yuan of loose money for her, so I don't have so much ability.
In addition, I really don't want to lend her money, I think I borrowed 500 yuan from the mothers of several of their classmates for urgent use, and none of them were willing to lend me money, which made me realize that our relationship is just a general friendship, just a very ordinary relationship, of course, people lend me love, not to lend me is also duty, this is people's freedom.
When my husband went to buy a second-hand van, he took all the bank cards that day, and the person who sold the car did not let him drive away after paying the money in the exhibition hall, but asked my husband to transfer him 500 yuan privately to drive the car away, we didn't understand anything at the time, my husband wanted to go to other banks nearby at first, but he was afraid that he would not find the person when he walked away, and he didn't get the money to the car, so my husband didn't dare to go away, so he called me to find a way to quickly transfer 500 yuan to that person's bank card account, but I didn't have a bank card and didn't have so much money。
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At that time, I sent WeChat to the group formed by me and a few classmates' mothers to ask them if they were in the park, they all said yes, I asked them if they had 100 yuan bills, they all said yes, and then I told them about it, and asked them to make up enough 500 yuan to lend me, and I returned it to them the next day, but none of them were willing to lend me, and they found a lot of excuses to say that they were afraid that my husband would be deceived, so I told them that even if my husband was deceived, I was not afraid, because now I borrowed money from them, and I paid it back the next day, no matter what I said, they still refused, and six people borrowed dozens of yuan to me to make up 500 yuan。
At that time, my sister lived far away, I was afraid that I would not be able to catch up with the time of going back and forth, I called my husband and asked him to wait, I had to go to my sister's house, my husband told me to hurry up, saying that the people here would get off work at six o'clock in the afternoon, I stepped up to find a motorcycle carrying passengers, just when I was looking for a motorcycle on the side of the road, I met a former female colleague, our relationship was not familiar with the same shopping mall before, chatted a few times, she saw anxious I asked what happened, I told her about it, she asked me to go home with her (her home is nearby) to get a bank card and then go to the bank to press 500 yuan to me, get 500 yuan I immediately went to find the bank transfer to which the person's bank card belongs。
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Through this incident, I know that borrowing money has little to do with people who are friends or have few faces, the most important thing is to see whether that person is willing to help, sometimes even if a good friend mentions money, he may not be willing to lend you, but I think the person who is willing to help you is definitely worth a lifetime. Later, I became real friends with that female colleague, and I would try my best to help her if she needed me, and if I wanted to borrow money, I would lend it to her as much as I could.
Now Ajuan called me to borrow 1,000 yuan, when I borrowed dozens of yuan from each of them to make up 500 yuan for urgent use, I said to her: "I don't have so much money, you borrow from a few of them, you often play together, I should lend it to you." Ajuan said that she had asked them, but they all said that they had no money.
Their economic conditions are very good, each has two houses, they buy a piece of clothing for hundreds of dollars, their husbands earn a lot of money, Ajuan is so familiar with them that they can't even borrow 1,000 yuan, you can imagine their relationship.
Ajuan said to me, "Please, you have the best personality and the kindest among so many people, although we haven't seen each other much in the past few years, you will help me with anything in the past, you will help me pick up two children when I am ligated, and you will give me anything delicious at home or anything in your daily life, you can also help me this time." ”
I said: "Those material things are not very valuable, I really can't take out 1,000 yuan now, I'm sorry!" I finally asked Ajuan to figure it out by herself, I really don't want to help her, just think I'm a grudge-holder.
Another friend of mine, she was very nice to me, we talked very well, and we were really friends. Their family just bought a car, a house in the countryside, and helped two children buy insurance, but the youngest daughter did not have enough money when she enrolled in kindergarten, so I took out 3,000 yuan to her, anyway, I think it is worth making friends in terms of money, although I don't have much money, but I am still willing to do my best to help, and some people really make me sad.
Now I'm also shrewd, I won't be as stupid as before, pay in vain, some people just pat my ass and leave after using it, it's better to save the money and use it on the people I think are worth it?