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My husband is unmarried but has a daughter, and I heard from the introducer that the woman's parents didn't like the man, and the woman left after giving birth.
After I got married, I found out that the person this daughter called "aunt" every day was her own mother! In other words, my husband's daughter was also his sister's daughter! Really, I dare to think about it!
My husband and I met on a blind date, he has three brothers and sisters, he is the second in line, and his sister is the youngest. Both of his brothers make steamed buns, my brother runs a breakfast steamed bun shop in Beijing, and my husband and father-in-law run a steamed bun shop in our county town.
It's really tiring to do this job, they get up at 2 a.m. every day and stay busy until about 10 a.m.
The steamed buns taste good, the business is usually very good, and it seems that I have made a lot of money, I built a villa in the countryside, and the brothers in the county bought a house, and the bride price was given 180,000 when I married me.
In the eyes of my parents, I really married the right person. In the past two years of love, my in-laws have not said that every time we meet, I always ask for warmth, and I have prepared a large bag of small bags, and he not only reassures me about everything, but also respects my parents.
I am 98 years old, he is 96, and the house was bought by him, but only my name is written, which gives me a full sense of security. When I was decorating the wedding room, I basically adopted all my opinions, and every time I said, "You are the mistress of this house, and I listen to you." ”
Usually the housework at home is also rushed to do, ten o'clock from the bun shop home, will make lunch, wait for me to come home from work at noon to eat together, with me to eat he will go to rest.
After getting married, when he went to the bun shop in the early morning, he always got up gently and tiptoe, for fear of waking me up.
Especially when my dad was hospitalized for stones, he took care of my dad in the hospital alone, and said, "He is a man, and it is more convenient to take care of him, so we women avoid him." ”
At that time, I was thinking, such a good man, why can't the woman's parents look down on him?
For my husband's daughter, I am five years old this year, and now he is also my daughter, of course, I have to love her, especially as a woman, I deeply feel that if the girl has no mother since she was a child, it is really very pitiful, so from the bottom of my heart I love her as my own daughter, let her live with me in the county, I have been living in the countryside with my grandmother, and now I dress her up very beautiful every day, send her to school, and soon she accepts me as a mother!
My husband also has a younger sister, and I heard early on that this sister was adopted, the same year as me, already married, and gave birth to a son the year before last.
At the beginning, I had a delusion, I always felt that my daughter was very similar to my aunt, and I jokingly said at that time that Yin Yin looked really similar to my aunt, and it seemed to have touched thunder at that time, and my mother-in-law hurriedly explained that it was naturally like living together for a long time.
This aunt also treated her daughter quite well, and at that time I thought that I was really married to the right one, and I met such a harmonious big family.
When I was pregnant and living in the countryside, my aunt asked me, "Mother Yinyin, I haven't been here for a long time." "At that time, I was stunned, didn't Yinyin's mother run away? I asked Yinyin's mother who she was? The aunt said, "Isn't it Aunt Yinyin?"
At that time, my head was buzzing, and I hurriedly ran home, and my mother-in-law asked me, "What's wrong?" I didn't reply, and drove straight to the county seat.
When I arrived at the county seat, I woke up my sleeping husband and asked, "Yin Yin, whose child is it? Did you give birth to your sister who is not related by blood?"
He seemed to have known that there would be such a day, and then he said: "Yin Yin is my sister's child, and her husband also knew about it later, but it was not me and my sister who gave birth to her." It was my sister who was not sensible and conceived when she was working in Guangdong, and the child was more than six months old when she went home, and after careful consideration, the family agreed to let my sister give birth to the child, and I was afraid of affecting my sister, so I said that the child would call me Dad, and I would raise her. At first, my family didn't agree, but after my persuasion, everyone accepted! Because we always knew that it was a girl in our womb, and it would not be a heavy burden for us!"
After listening to him, the big stone in my heart finally fell, and I felt more and more that I was marrying the right person, and this man was really responsible and responsible.
Then he said: "Actually, I wanted to tell you for a long time, my mother has always refused to let me, afraid that you will make a fuss, and now that you are pregnant again, I dare not say anything." But now that you know, I'm more grounded, and I'm sure you can understand me. ”
After listening to what he said, I was very uncomfortable at first, and as soon as I got married, I became a stepmother, and everyone thought that I had found a second marriage, and I was obviously free from these criticisms.
Just because he wants to protect his sister, he can even sacrifice his own happiness, I asked him, "What if because you have a daughter, no one looks down on you, and you can't get married and start a family for the rest of your life?"
He said: "Heaven arranged for me to meet you, then I will definitely get married and start a family." ”
Later, I also thought about it for a long time, since God arranged for me to be Yin Yin's mother, so that Yin Yin could get two maternal loves at the same time, it means that she is a blessed child.
Since then, I have never mentioned it again, and I seem to love Yinyin more than before, and I feel more and more that my marriage will always be happy.