Ambiguity is the process of two people from acquaintance to acquaintance, and finally become lovers.
Ambiguous, like a dream, waking up you are no longer around.
In this world, the most unexpected thing is to go from nothing to say.
The ambiguity between the opposite sex generally starts with borrowing these three things.
Especially the third one, it is obvious that if I didn't really love you, I should have turned a blind eye to you a long time ago.
- Borrowing
A person's good impression of you starts from borrowing money, and borrowing money is doomed to the ambiguity of two people.
As the saying goes: "The friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, and the friendship of a villain is sweet." ”
The friendship between gentlemen is not mixed with any impurities, and even if there are any difficulties, they will not force it. It's like a glass of water, if you want to get it, you will take the initiative to pay.
On the contrary, the relationship between the villains is the most complex. They respect each other when they are together, but they don't bother to get to know each other.
When interacting with this kind of person, if he borrows money from you, he is either really in trouble and needs help, or he just wants to borrow your money to do something bad.
So at this time you must understand what his purpose is. Don't lend him money lightly.
If you don't really have an urgent need to lend him money, he will find all kinds of reasons to refuse you. In this case, he will not be able to pay you back.
So if a person wants to develop a romantic relationship with you, the most direct way is to borrow money from you. After all, there are too few people who can do this. Only when you meet someone you really like will you think about pursuing her.
- Borrow time
"Time is the fairest thing in the world, everyone has 24 hours a day, 365 days in a year, and 24 hours a day, and they don't give more than a second, but some people can take advantage of the difference in 24 hours to do different things. ”
Time is like water in a sponge, there is always a squeeze. The longer two people spend together, the more they will get to know each other. Sometimes, when a person has a crush on another person and wants to develop a relationship, he will not mind the other person taking the time to get along.
After all, there are many couples who break up because they lack some time. If a person spends very little time with you, or even treats you as a dispensable person, then there will be no feelings between you at all.
Someone who loves you will spend time with you and are willing to spend time chatting with you, watching movies, and doing everything they can with you.
- Borrowed body
In this world, not all bodies can be borrowed casually, and if a person wants to have an ambiguity with another person, the most obvious is to borrow the body.
Some people will lend you their bodies if they are really attracted to you, while some people just want to play with you, just to meet their physical needs.
Therefore, when a person wants to have an intimate relationship with you, the body will subconsciously move closer to you.
And if a person is not even willing to have an intimate relationship with you, it means that he has no meaning for you.
Therefore, in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, if the other party always lends you his body, then it means that the other party has already been moved by you.
When you like someone, you want to have more physical contact with them, and when you don't like someone, you reject all physical contact with them.
Therefore, when a person always lends his body to you, then he must be attracted to you.
If men and women want to have more space and possibilities for development, they must learn to use the above three things to promote the development of relationships.
Ambiguity is beautiful, but ambiguity cannot be forced.