One night, I was watching TV in the living room when I suddenly heard a quarrel between my eldest sister and my uncle upstairs.
"What are you doing so many push-ups every day, you're going to wake me up!" the eldest sister asked the uncle dissatisfiedly.
"What's wrong with that, I'm trying to keep fit!" replied the uncle.
"You don't look at what you're doing so much when you're so old, what if you fall?"
"It's okay, don't worry, I'm not a child again. The uncle said disapprerovingly.
I watched the quarrel between the two, and I felt a little funny and a little helpless, these small things can actually become conflicts between them.
The eldest sister is the eldest daughter in the family, and the eldest uncle is her eldest brother, because they are of the same age, they always quarrel like brother and sister.
The uncle is always on the side to persuade him, but he always makes the relationship more tense.
I sometimes really feel a headache for the emotional entanglement of this family, but at the same time, I feel that this is exactly what a family looks like.
The conflict between the eldest sister and the uncle also reminded me of my own emotional problems.
In short, the conflicts in the family must be resolved through communication after all, and I think I should persuade the eldest sister and uncle.
The next day, I saw the eldest sister and uncle sitting on the sofa in the living room drinking tea leisurely, as if the conflict of last night had been swept away.
"Uncle, what you said last night really made me angry. The eldest sister suddenly spoke.
"Oops, that's my fault, don't be angry. The uncle hurriedly smiled and persuaded him.
"It's not your fault, I know you're doing it for my good. It's just that I've been really anxious lately, and I feel like I can't find the right person all along.
The uncle patted the eldest sister's hand and said gently: "Don't worry, fate is destined by heaven, and the most important thing is not to get married in a hurry."
Looking at the intimacy of the two, I felt an inexplicable happiness. But just then, I got a phone call and learned that my parents had suddenly fallen ill and were hospitalized.
I hurriedly packed my bags and prepared to go to the hospital. Before leaving, I asked my eldest sister and uncle for leave, and they both told each other with serious expressions that I should take care of myself.
When I came to the hospital, I saw my parents lying on a hospital bed with pale faces. It turns out that my parents have been busy with work recently, and their bodies are gradually overwhelmed.
During this time, I was in the hospital every day, taking care of my parents. At the same time, my eldest sister and uncle also came to visit me in the hospital from time to time, bringing me comfort and warmth.
However, in this new predicament, I also gradually felt another contradiction in my family relationship.
This feeling of powerlessness also made me anxious and struggling, and I felt that I was a little powerless.
One night, I burst out crying in the hallway of the hospital. The eldest sister saw it, and she came over and hugged me tightly, like when I was a child.
"Don't be sad, I'll always be with you. The eldest sister's voice was full of encouragement and warmth.
At this moment, I suddenly felt that the relationship between family members was so close and indestructible. Perhaps, the conflicts in the family are not terrible, as long as we can treat each other sincerely and support each other, the difficulties will eventually be solved.