In recent years, the decline in the marriage rate has become a social problem that cannot be ignored.
Especially in the current post-90s and post-00s generations, their living conditions are very different.
Some young people have already entered into marriage and even become parents, while others are still running around for academics, careers and other issues.
Recently, the engagement ceremony of a young couple in Fujian has caused heated discussions on the Internet.
It can be seen from the photo that the bride and groom are too immature, which makes people wonder:
Are they really adults?
The groom in the photo is wearing a brown T-shirt, and his eyes are deep and misty, revealing a kind of unease and confusion about his future marriage.
The father standing on his right hand did not have a trace of a smile on his face, and his serious and cold expression made people suspect that the parents did not seem to be satisfied with this marriage.
In such an atmosphere, the bride's face also carried a trace of helplessness and exhaustion, and her mouth tightened, as if she was holding back her grievances and crying out.
Especially the bride's parents, their brows are slightly locked, there seems to be a trace of helplessness at the corners of their mouths, and their soulless eyes seem to tell their dissatisfaction with the marriage, but they have to accept this fact.
There was very little interaction between parents on both sides, and there was little communication. The same ugly expressions on their faces made the unknown audience think that the two sides had just finished arguing and were still in a cold war with each other.
This suffocating atmosphere is just too oppressive and uncomfortable.
Looking at the groom's appearance, he looks like a childish schoolboy.
A simple gray T-shirt with ordinary jeans, this kind of dress does not look like a groom at all, but will make people mistake it for the groom's younger brother.
In stark contrast to this image is the bride next to her, who is clearly more mature in her style of dressing.
Dressed in a red dress, which is both appropriate and decent, coupled with the bride's sweet appearance and a student's appearance, everyone is even more convinced that the two seem to be underage.
However, under the bride's red dress, the leg tattoo is particularly conspicuous.
This made many netizens question that the bride may be a bad girl who dropped out of school halfway.
In addition, according to family members and friends of both parties, the man and woman have just turned 18 years old, which is far from the legal age of marriage.
This engagement ceremony seems solemn, but there are not many voices of blessings.
It is very likely that the two are married with their sons, and they have not received the sincere blessing of both parents, and it seems that the future marriage road of this young man will be full of challenges.
When I was a child, I watched adults get married, and when I grew up, I watched children get married.
Such a thing also happened at an engagement scene in Henan.
A couple stands on the stage, facing a large number of relatives and friends, they seem a little shy and overwhelmed.
However, the most striking thing is not the engagement ceremony itself, but the bride and groom themselves. They are not wearing gorgeous dresses, nor are they deliberately dressed up, they are just wearing everyday clothes, which look very plain.
Their youth and immaturity are even more surprising, and they look like junior high school students.
Of course, it is indeed an exaggeration to say that they are junior high school students, and it can only be said that both of them may be students or recent graduates, and they have no social experience at all.
According to insiders, the two fell in love, and after graduating from high school, they did not plan to go to college, but decided to get engaged first, set the major events in their lives, and then work together to support this small family.
In this engagement, the relatives of both parties were present at the scene, and the woman's parents also agreed to get engaged first, and it was better to marry close and know each other well, than to go out to work and meet someone unladylike.
They don't think getting engaged early is a bad thing, but rather think it's a wise choice.
For those girls who go out to work after graduating from high school, many of them marry away from home, but they don't have a good life.
It is also a good choice to start a business after starting a family.
In today's society, no one in ordinary people dares to guarantee that they are winners in life.
For this young couple, they chose to marry early and have children early, although such a choice has certain risks, but it also brings them more family happiness and joy.
They have their own house, they can have a stable residence, and then work hard to earn money to raise a baby, and the family is together, without being displaced, such a family life may be what many people yearn for.
Of course, for those who choose to continue their studies in college, they may have a higher level of education and a broader perspective, but they also need to put in more effort and time when facing the challenges of their career and family.
Many marriageable men and women are still single in their 30s and lack of success in their careers, which can really worry parents.
But whether you choose to start a family or start a business, you need to carefully consider your situation and goals and make the decision that suits you best.