My name is Lin Yue, I am 35 years old, and I am the head of human resources of a foreign-funded company. The family background is not bad, both parents are teachers, and they grew up under their strict education. Since graduating, I have been working in foreign companies from junior specialist to supervisor.
In the eyes of outsiders, I have a glamorous job, a warm family, and everything is so smooth. But in fact, I have always hidden an unspeakable secret deep inside me - my love life is not going well.
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Looking back on my relationship over the years, I have been through three marriages. Every time it ends, it makes my heart ache. But life is like that, and sometimes we can't control our emotions, especially in this world full of temptations and unknowns.
First marriage: a young campus romance
My first husband was a college classmate of mine. We fell in love since our freshman year and traveled to every corner of campus. After graduation, we worked hard together and looked forward to a bright future. But as time passed, life gradually lost its original romance and passion. He had a hard time in his career and started to be cold and critical of me. Our marriage lasted only two short years and ended in a breakup.
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Second marriage: a mature and steady businessman
The second husband was a successful businessman. He is ten years older than me, has a lot of social experience and a stable income. When we met, he gave me the impression of being mature and understanding. I thought I had found a real support this time, but after marriage, I found out that he was actually a very controlling person. He wanted me to quit my job and focus on being a housewife. We often get into arguments over work issues, which eventually lead to a breakdown of the relationship.
Third marriage: romantic and amorous artist
My third husband was a talented artist. He loves music, painting and writing, and always brings me unexpected surprises and romance. I thought I had found my true soulmate this time, but gradually I realized that he was actually an extremely self-centered person who often ignored my feelings and needs. We often quarrel over trivial matters, and in the end we can't reconcile the contradictions, and we come to the step of divorce again.
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After three failed marriages, I have a deeper understanding of love and human nature. I began to reflect on my own choices and values, and I began to pay attention to the opinions and opinions of those around me. In the process, I realized that I may have an indescribable attachment to relationships and the pursuit of perfection.
By chance, I met a man from the United States - Jack. He is an expat working on a cultural exchange program and has been working in China for two years. We met at a business event and were attracted to each other's talent and temperament. Although his cultural background is very different from mine, we can find a lot of common topics and interests in our communication. Over time, we gradually developed into a romantic relationship.
Jack was completely different from my previous experience, and he gave me a whole new feeling and experience. He respects my career choices and independent spirit and supports me in my pursuit of better development in my work. We understand and support each other to face life's challenges and difficulties together. With Jack by my side, I regained my passion and confidence in life.
Now that I have entered middle age, I have a deeper understanding of feelings and life. I no longer pursue perfect love and marriage, but pay more attention to my inner feelings and real needs. I believe that everyone has their own growth trajectory and emotional journey, and each experience makes us more mature and stronger.
As for the question of this number, what I want to say is: how many men can a woman accept in her lifetime? There is really no set answer. Everyone has their own choices and values, and those choices should not be limited or judged by numbers. The most important thing is to find the person who is truly right for you, go through every stage of life together, and create wonderful memories and future together.