"Flowers" ended, there is basically no love brain in this series, everyone has their own growth curve, I like Miss Wang's growth line very much.
"Think twice before you act, be independent and not follow". This ancient saying has profound inspiration for women in every era. In love, marriage, and life, how can a woman gracefully leave a man and become her true self?
01 Reason is better than emotion
Miss Wang has never liked Mr. Bao, that's for sure. When the two met in Weiwei, one of them changed from A Bao to Mr. Bao, and the other changed from Xiao Wang to Miss Wang. They go hand in hand, and they are inseparable.
Women are often prone to fall into the whirlpool of emotions in love and find it difficult to extricate themselves. However, true strength lies not in emotional madness, but in intellectual restraint.
When she didn't wait for Mr. Noble at 8 o'clock, she waited until 11 o'clock, and then this was the last three hours she gave herself and this love. Then the ribs are the ribs, and the rice cake is the rice cake,
When a relationship comes to an end, a wise woman will choose to think calmly and analyze the pros and cons. Only in this way will you be able to leave with grace and not let yourself fall into a bigger predicament.
"Pain is short-lived, but grace is eternal. ”
Miss Wang is not only elegant, she is also a pearl. She won't let herself get caught up in the whirlpool of emotions and never recover.
02 Remember to be financially independent
The economic base determines the superstructure.
I saw the news today, the two post-95 mothers are divorced, and the two of them have a common career, so they decided to take the baby together to work and live together. They have truly achieved it, there is no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, girlfriends are by their side, and they have both children (one of them has a daughter, and the other has a son).
The reason why the two live so chic and free lives is enviable is because the two have their own careers and are financially independent of their ex-husband, who said that they need to pay child support on a regular basis.
For a woman to gracefully leave her man's side, she first needs to be financially independent. This means that she does not need to rely on men for her material needs and is free to choose her own lifestyle.
Only a financially independent woman can be uncontrolled by others when she leaves, and truly be calm.
Miss Wang in "Flowers" has always been financially independent, there is no doubt about it. However, Mr. Bao did not help her in her career, and even Miss Wang's master said to Mr. Bao, you can't always hold an umbrella for her, otherwise if you don't hold an umbrella one day, she will be poured into a soup chicken.
Miss Wang's independence began when she walked out of No. 27, began when she no longer accepted the help of Mr. Bao, and finally stood on the opposite side of Mr. Bao.
03 Self-growth is always the theme
A wise woman will actively seek self-growth and make herself better after leaving. Only in this way will she be better able to face challenges and opportunities in her future life.
When Miss Wang and Mr. Fan said goodbye, the sentence "goodbye to the rivers and lakes" resounded in the sky, and her fighting spirit and indomitable perseverance looked even more dazzling in the sun. Such a bright Miss Wang illuminates the whole world like a pearl, and even Mr. Fan's original philistine spirit has been washed.
Miss Wang eventually became a legend in the industry, this legend does not rely on anyone, it depends on herself, she grew up on No. 27, grew up in the Yellow River Road, grew up in the relationship with Mr. Bao, and finally became her own wharf.
Miss Wang, Wang Mingzhu, the pearl has never been dusty, and the pearl is always dazzling. #繁花#