Love pioneer Ai Fukuhara's marriage initials
Ai Fukuhara, who was dressed up to attend, had shyness and happiness on her face. She wore a white wedding dress and completed the sacred oath with Taiwanese male table tennis Jiang Hongjie in the blessing of everyone.
I saw Jiang Hongjie affectionately put on a wedding ring symbolizing the eternity of marriage for his beloved wife, while Ai Fukuhara blushed his cheeks and eyes, and shyly handed over his carefully prepared return gift.
The two kissed softly under the red cloth covering the traditional banquet, and the guests present gave them warm applause and blessings.
At the beginning of the new year of 2017, the "golden boy and girl" of the multinational sports world finally became married, and the news caused a lot of repercussions among fans as soon as the news came out. After all, as leaders in their respective fields, they have always attracted much attention.
Everyone speculated about the past and present life of this marriage, and praised the posture of the two of them. At this moment, all the future and misfortune are still far away, and the eyebrows of the newlyweds are full of happiness and sweetness.
Soon after her marriage, Ai Fukuhara announced her official retirement from the professional arena, and she decided to return to being an ordinary person and devote herself wholeheartedly to family life. Before parting, Ai Fukuhara said goodbye to the team with tears in her eyes and thanked everyone for their company over the years.
Everyone sent blessings and blessings to her retirement decision, wishing her happiness. Ai Fukuhara nodded firmly, her heart full of longing and anticipation for her future life.
Personality incompatibility gradually drifts apart
For the first two years of marriage, Ai Fukuhara lived a calm and peaceful life. She gave birth to one child one after another, and she became more and more grateful for the original decision to retire. As long as she holds the baby and looks at the happy smiling faces of her family, Ai Fukuhara feels that her life is complete.
She is busy every day, trying to make her husband and children comfortable.
However, the good times did not last long, and the days passed day by day, and the two people with very different personalities gradually drifted apart in the trivial matters of life. Jiang Hongjie has a straightforward and lively personality, which is very different from Ai Fukuhara's rigorous and introverted style.
Jiang Hongjie likes to do whatever he wants, while Ai Fukuhara is used to being considerate in everything; Jiang Hongjie is relaxed, and Ai Fukuhara is meticulous. All kinds of differences made him feel pressured, and he couldn't help but confide his heart to his beloved wife.
"I know you're well-intentioned, but you don't need to take care of me all the time, I can do it myself. Jiang Hongjie had red circles under his eyes, and it was rare to show vulnerability.
Ai Fukuhara was speechless after hearing this, and she didn't understand why her thoughtfulness would become a burden to her husband. Am I wrong to care too much about him? She blamed herself, and secretly warned herself to be more sympathetic to her husband's thoughts in the future.
One day, Jiang's mother came to the house as a guest, and Ai Fukuhara went to the snack bar that the elderly loved to buy. Jiang Mu was slightly dissatisfied, and said softly: "We are a family, so we don't have to be so polite."
Ai Fukuhara was stunned when she heard this, and she blamed herself even more. She thought she was still lacking, but she didn't know that this was beyond the bottom line of the other half.
Exotic cultures are difficult to cross
Personality incompatibility is the fuse, but the root of the estrangement between Ai Fukuhara and Jiang Hongjie is actually in their completely different cultural backgrounds. Ai Fukuhara grew up in Japan, and she is well versed in the feelings of family and country that is dedicated to her family and country, and maintains oriental etiquette, humility and thoughtfulness in her bones.
She brought these traditional virtues into her married life, but she didn't know that this became the "soil of conflict" between the two families.
In Japan, it is natural for children to be filial to their parents. Ai Fukuhara unreservedly projects this filial piety on her in-laws and husband. She is considerate and nuanced, for fear that her husband will be a little unhappy.
This is unimaginable in Taiwan. Jiang Hongjie and his parents don't need such care, but feel breathless because of Ai Fukuhara's "do everything yourself".
All kinds of cultural differences make the relationship between each other increasingly awkward. Ai Fukuhara thought it was right to be more intimate, but she didn't know that this had seriously offended Jiang Hongjie. She sincerely hoped to gain her husband's approval, but unexpectedly drove him away step by step.
To her heart's loss, she didn't understand what was wrong with her.
In 2021, a piece of grapevine detonated on the Internet, Ai Fukuhara was photographed entering and leaving the same hotel as a Japanese male table tennis player. The husband was furious and concluded that she was having an extramarital affair and filed for divorce.
Ai Fukuhara cried and explained that it was just his junior brother, but it was too late. In July, the two officially divorced.
The runaway son sparked a court battle
What is incomprehensible is that the court finally ruled that the custody of the two children belonged to Jiang Hongjie. Obviously, both parties have enough financial strength and physical conditions to raise their children, why did Ai Fukuhara get nothing? This verdict made everyone feel incredible.
A year later, Ai Fukuhara went to Taipei to visit her children for a short time on the grounds that she was busy with work. Before leaving, she asked Jiang Hongjie, hoping to take her son back to Japan to accompany her temporarily.
The husband did not have much objection to this. When parting, Ai Fukuhara hugged her son and shed reluctant tears, telling her son to live a good life.
Unexpectedly, it would be more than half a year as soon as I went. Ai Fukuhara was never heard from again, and Jiang Hongjie was furious and felt deceived and deceived. He sued his ex-wife again, demanding the immediate return of his son.
The Taiwanese court immediately responded by asking Ai Fukuhara to hand over custody of the child.
However, the news that followed was shocking -- Ai Fukuhara had completely lost contact! Not only could Jiang Hongjie not find her whereabouts, but even her lawyer did not know anyone's whereabouts.
Now everyone believes that Ai Fukuhara and her child have really evaporated from the world.
Jiang Hongjie was furious and openly said that if Ai Fukuhara did not let her go, he would definitely sue her in court for "kidnapping"! The media immediately hyped up this explosive news, and public opinion was in an uproar.
Just as he was retreating, Ai Fukuhara's lawyer issued a statement asking Jiang Hongjie to stop his personal attacks. This proves that the other party is at least in contact with the agent. However, where is she hiding with no whereabouts? After all kinds of contact to no avail, he finally couldn't bear to cry bitterly, and also expressed all kinds of grievances over the years.
Now, this transnational star couple who once wore the halo of "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" have become old enemies, and they are fighting a lawsuit to the death. This result is truly sighing and heart-wrenching.
Watching this pair of lovers who have gone from acquaintance to strangers finally become rivals, we can't help but reflect on the fact that marriage requires both parties to manage it carefully. As partners, we must learn to be tolerant, listen and understand, rather than forcing the other person to accommodate us.
Only through in-depth communication and exchange can we resolve cultural differences and establish harmony. The truth contained in this is also worthy of adoption and reference by all modern couples.