Preamble:
In 2014, there was an uproar on the social stage, and a woman named Zhou Lanjun announced in an undisguised tone: Do not disturb if you are not the second generation of 50 million rich, which has attracted widespread attention from the society. The woman's remarks once became an urban legend and sparked many heated debates and discussions.
However, time flies, the years are ruthless, and now, we can't help but wonder if this woman who insists on "wealth and wealth" has found her ideal other half as she wished?
Princess disease when she was a child: Zhou Lanjun, who grew up under the pampering of her parents
Zhou Lanjun was born in 1992 in Xiamen, Fujian Province, in a well-off family. Her father was an engineer and her mother was a boarding aunt in a university dormitory. Although her family is not wealthy, as an only daughter, Zhou Lanjun has been cared for and pampered by her parents since she was a child. She can stretch out her hands and open her mouth to live a real princess-like life.
The Zhou family and his wife attach great importance to their daughter's education, and in order for their daughter to have a better development, they do not hesitate to spend a lot of money to send Zhou Lanjun to a local aristocratic school. In this school, Zhou Lanjun realized for the first time what a real rich child is, and the conditions in his own family are only a drop in the bucket compared to them.
Zhou Lanjun has a cheerful and lively personality and excellent grades. She is loved by her teachers and often gets good grades in various competitions. However, while studying in a prestigious school, she also deeply felt the gap between herself and those rich second generations. They have expensive watches, designer clothes, and most of her clothes are bought by her parents on a frugal basis.
Perhaps it was from this time that Zhou Lanjun began to desire to be one of them in his heart. She will take the initiative to talk to a few rich second-generation girls in her spare time, trying to fit into their circle; She also pays attention to their outfits, and then goes to Taobao to buy a few replica clothes.
Although I tried hard to integrate, the invisible gap and gap could not be overcome. Zhou Lanjun's heart may have secretly had the idea of marrying a rich second generation and changing his fate from this time. As long as she finds a husband who is as well-off as the boys in class, she can live the life she wants and return home.
Choose Zhejiang: Give up 985 colleges and universities in order to marry into a wealthy family
During the college entrance examination, Zhou Lanjun faced the first choice in his life. The Zhou family and his wife hoped that she would choose a nearby university in Xiamen, but Zhou Lanjun had already set her heart on Zhejiang, where the "rich gathered". In the end, she did not hesitate to choose to give up the "double first-class" university in Xiamen, just to find a rich second-generation boyfriend in Zhejiang.
This choice fully shows Zhou Lanjun's determination. Everyone knows that it is not easy to give up the 985 university that you were so hard to get into. But for her, whether she can marry the rich second generation as she wishes is far more important than the prestigious school in front of her.
After arriving at Zhejiang Gongshang University, Zhou Lanjun devoted almost all of her time to finding a boyfriend. However, the roommates around her all talked about falling in love, and she, a girl with both beauty and wisdom, couldn't wait for Prince Charming to appear.
She began to approach boys who seemed to be well-to-do at school, hoping to get their attention. However, all of them were indifferent to her hospitality. This made her feel lost and unwilling. At the same time, this also strengthened her belief that she would marry a rich second generation. She thought that this must be the result of her lack of hard work, and if she continued to work hard and endure humiliation, she could one day get her wish.
Blind date will win: the standard of 50 million rich second generation
In 2014, Zhejiang Satellite TV launched a program called "Blind Date to Win". This show is like a dawn shining into Zhou Lanjun's heart. She didn't hesitate to choose to participate because it was a good opportunity for her to find her true destiny.
At this time, she was haunted by her dreams and wanted to marry a rich second generation of more than 50 million. This is not money worship in the ordinary sense, but her wish since childhood. Growing up in an aristocratic school environment, she has seen too many scenes of extravagance and waste by rich children. This made her firmly believe that only by marrying a man from a wealthy family could she live a luxurious and decent life.
The first blind date ended in failure, and the man soon lost interest in her. This is undoubtedly a great blow to Zhou Lanjun, she thought that she could reach the sky in one step through TV shows. But reality gave her a slap in the face, making her realize that things are far from being as simple as she imagined.
However, Zhou Lanjun did not give up. On the contrary, this strengthened her determination to find a rich second-generation boyfriend with a net worth of more than 50 million. To this end, she also signed up for a crash course for celebrities to learn etiquette talents. However, the rich second generation in the second blind date was high and did not show up in the end......
Apology and disclosure: The show faked and made her pay the wrong price
In 2015, Zhou Lanjun returned to the stage of "Blind Date to Win", admitted his previous mistakes for the first time, and withdrew from the public eye. At the end of 2016, she stood up again and accused the program team of being suspected of fraud, the director team maliciously editing, and she suffered a well-designed scam.
She said that the program team deliberately exaggerated and maliciously exaggerated her image, just to win higher ratings. Afterwards, there were even staff members who ridiculed her in front of her that she was just an ordinary girl, who was qualified to talk about the second generation of 50 million rich.
What hurts Zhou Lanjun the most is that the impact of this reality show on her is far beyond imagination. It's too late, she has already paid the price for the remark of "50 million rich second generation". Whether she is studying or looking for a job, she cannot escape the reputation of "gold worshipper". In the end, she chose to leave Zhejiang and began to choose her life again.
Start Again: The Road to Independence for Strong Women
After leaving Zhejiang, Zhou Lanjun gave up his plan to take the postgraduate entrance examination and returned to his hometown Xiamen to start his own business. Perhaps, her past experiences made her realize that if you want to be respected, you must have the ability to be independent.
The road to entrepreneurship in the early days was not smooth, and she once fell into the dilemma of breaking the capital chain and had to borrow money from friends and relatives to survive. Thanks to perseverance, the online company she founded is now beginning to take shape. All this is inseparable from Zhou Lanjun's extraordinary perseverance and determination.
Today, she no longer mentions relationships or marriages on her social media platforms, but instead shares her entrepreneurial moments and fulfilling every day. She was once ridiculed by the public as a gold worshipper, but now she has won the respect of many people with her strength.
epilogue
Zhou Lanjun's story may be some inevitable detours and stumbling blocks on the road of growth of ordinary girls. Instead of criticizing her for her wrong choices, we should respect her independent will. Now in her 30s and still single, will she meet the true destiny in her future life? The answer is destined to be given only by herself.