Traditionally, there is a perception that women have difficulty reaching orgasm during sex. This view was influenced by earlier theories in the field of sexology, particularly Freud's. However, with the passage of time and the deepening of research, this view has been challenged by modernity.
Initially, many people mistakenly believe that a woman's sexual satisfaction is merely for the purpose of procreation, pleasing a partner, or maintaining a marital relationship. But this perception ignores the sexual satisfaction needs of women as individuals. Recent sexological studies, such as Kinsey's work, have shown that women's ability to orgasm is not fundamentally different from that of men. This discovery turns conventional wisdom upside down, revealing the diversity and complexity of female sexual satisfaction.
In addition, a study published in the Journal of Sex and Marriage Therapy showed that most women (81.6%) were unable to reach orgasm through vaginal sex alone and needed additional stimulation, such as clitoral stimulation. Conversely, only a minority of women (18.4%) reported reaching orgasm through vaginal sex.
These data and research results show that women's sexual experiences are far more complex than conventional wisdom believes. Women's sexual satisfaction should not be seen as an unattainable goal, but rather a process that can be achieved through deeper understanding and exploration.
What is the difference between orgasm in women and men?
Orgasm is a pinnacle of sexual activity that is accompanied by intense pleasure and a physiological response from the body. This experience is usually achieved by stimulating the sexual organs, but it can also be achieved by stimulating non-reproductive areas such as the prostate, lips, and nipples.
In men, orgasm is achieved primarily by stimulation of the penis and is often accompanied by rapid contraction and ejaculation of the pelvic floor muscles. This orgasm usually lasts 10 to 15 seconds, followed by a recovery period during which the penis becomes non-erect and sensitive to stimuli.
In contrast, orgasms in women are more complex and can be divided into two types: clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm. Clitoral orgasm is similar to male orgasm and is mainly achieved by stimulating the clitoris, while vaginal orgasm is triggered by vaginal sexual intercourse. Not only do orgasms last longer in women (about 20 seconds on average), but they don't have a noticeable recovery period like in men. This means that women are more likely to experience multiple orgasms after reaching one orgasm.
However, while women theoretically have more ways to reach orgasm, in practice not all women can easily achieve this experience. In fact, many women never experience orgasm in their lifetime, which can be due to a variety of physical, psychological, and sociocultural factors.
There are two main factors in women's difficulty in orgasm: physiological and psychological
Analysis of sexual physiological differences and influencing factors
Male physiology and susceptibility to sexual stimuli: The exposed nature of male reproductive organs makes it easier to touch and touch, making it easier than women to find and obtain appropriate sexual sensations to achieve orgasm.
The key to female orgasm and common myths: As many as 70% to 80% of women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but there is a general lack of understanding about this. The focus of regular sexual activity tends to be vaginal sex, resulting in the neglect of the importance of the clitoris.
Gender differences in orgasm and sexual end-of-the-art occurrence: Sex usually ends after a man has completed ejaculation and reaches orgasm, which often leads to an under-met sexual need for female partners.
Lack of sexual skills and neglect of women's needs: Some couples lack sexual skills, do not pay enough attention to foreplay, or are unfamiliar with the use of pelvic floor muscles, which can affect the achievement of orgasm.
The impact of health factors on sexual life: Gynecological diseases (such as vaginitis, pelvic inflammatory disease), endocrine problems and other health conditions, as well as physiological states such as pregnancy and breastfeeding may cause vaginal discomfort and affect the quality of sexual life.
Psychosexual factors and their impact on sex life
Poor sexual environment: Environmental factors can distract women, leading to difficulty with sexual arousal and decreased libido.
Contraception and disease concerns: Lack of effective contraception or concerns about sexually transmitted diseases can affect the quality and security of sex life.
Lack of sexual knowledge and experience: Low confidence in sexuality, as well as concerns about not being able to satisfy your partner, can lead to feelings of sexual shame.
Lack of communication between partners or emotional problems: Communication difficulties or emotional disharmony with your partner can affect the harmony of your sex life.
Negative effects of past sexual experiences: Past unpleasant sexual experiences, such as sexual assault, dyspareunia, miscarriage, etc., can have a long-term impact on your current sex life.