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I've never seen my dad look so serious, he is facing the phone screen, his brow furrowed, his fingers tapping quickly on the screen. I walked over to ask what was going on, but he suddenly interrupted: "Dad answers the phone, you can go back by yourself." ”
After seeing the transfer, I scolded my aunt
"Yes, I have entrusted you to get me ten old hens, and my son is going to school, and I am going to make him something delicious. The aunt's voice sounded triumphant.
I couldn't help but wonder where these ten old hens came from. My aunt didn't have the conditions to raise chickens at home, so where did she get ten old hens? And why did she have to get them from her father?
I decided to ask my dad about it.
"Daddy, do you know that my aunt asked you to get ten old hens?" I asked tentatively.
Dad's face sank, and he sighed: "This matter is not as simple as my aunt wanting ten old hens. ”
"What do you mean then?" I was confused.
"Actually, my aunt borrowed my account to transfer a sum of money to a business partner, and these ten old hens were just a front to cover up the truth of the transaction. Dad said in a solemn tone.
Hearing this, my heart welled up with endless anger. The aunt ruthlessly used her father to get him involved in a dirty deal. How could I bear this happening to my family?
When I told my mom all this, she was shocked. She decided to talk to her aunt.
"Sister-in-law, what's the matter with you?!" Mom asked Auntie with a serious attitude.
"What's the matter? If I beg you once, you won't be able to help me?" the aunt pouted disdainfully.
"Is this a question of whether or not it will help you? Can you use your relatives for your own selfish gain?" the mother's tone slowly increased.
"I'm doing everything for my son's good!" the aunt retorted unconvinced.
"Even if it's for your son's good, you can't infringe on the interests of others. It's not right for you to do that!" Mom said in a deep voice.
The aunt was silent, and her face showed a hint of emptiness.
After this turmoil, my opinion of my aunt has also changed drastically. Once my reverence and trust in her was swept away, replaced by anger and contempt for her. Without hesitation, I decided to cut off contact with my aunt, even though she was my relative.
In this incident, I finally understood a truth: how important trust and respect between family members is, and these are based on honesty and integrity. I will interpret this truth with my words and deeds, and protect my family from any further harm.
After that, my aunt seemed to notice the change in me, and she began to call our house frequently, repeatedly asking to see me, but I chose to run away. This went on for months, until one day, my aunt found me.
"Xiao Ming, can you sit down and talk to me?" there was a hint of pleading in the aunt's voice.
I looked at her with anger and disappointment in my heart.
"I don't have anything to talk to you about, do you know how to reflect now?" I said coldly.
"I knew I was wrong, I did want to help my son go to school in the first place. But I didn't expect things to get so complicated. The aunt's tone was full of guilt.
"Complicated, can you still say it when you deceive your relatives like this?" I said mockingly.
"I didn't mean to, I really wanted it for the good of the family. You have to trust me. Tears glistened in my aunt's eyes.
"Trust you? Do you think a few words of apology will solve the problem? Don't you know that you've hurt our trust?" I said emotionally.
The aunt fell silent, as if she understood that no amount of apology could restore the lost trust.
"I'll be gone, I won't bother you anymore. The aunt lowered her head, as if she had made a lot of determination.
I watched her departing back, and the anger in my heart slowly faded, leaving only a trace of unspeakable distress. Perhaps, no matter what I did wrong, she would still be my relative after all, and how could I completely give it up?
In the days after my aunt left, I thought about this encounter in my heart. Maybe I was too impulsive during this time, but as time went on, I began to understand more and more: although there will inevitably be stumbles between family members, what really matters is understanding and tolerance. Everyone makes mistakes, and it's important to be able to sincerely apologize and forgive. This is the deepest emotional connection between family members.
Slowly, I began to try to reach out to my aunt, and although the trust in the past was broken, the connection between the family became more and more precious. During the conversation, my aunt did not mention the original incident again, and she also bluntly said that she regretted her actions, and I slowly accepted her apology. Since then, we have become more harmonious, understanding and tolerant.
Through this incident, I learned the weight of trust and understanding between family members. In family relationships, no matter what happens, being tolerant is always the most important thing. In life, we need to understand each family member, tolerate each other's shortcomings and mistakes, and give each other a chance to start over. Perhaps, this is the secret of long-term family harmony.
In our family, tolerance and understanding reigned supreme again, and we all understood that the affection between family members cannot be measured in money. At the same time, I keep reminding myself of this in my work and life, and I try to bring that love into my dealings with everyone around me.
"Xiao Ming, I heard that you and Teacher Xie are getting along well, it seems that you have a good cooperation?" asked my colleague Manager Wang with concern.
"Yes, Mr. Xie took great care of me and I was very inspired. I said frankly.
"Ah, care is not a problem, mutual understanding and trust are the real essence. Manager Wang said with deep emotion.
"Yes, I really understand now that trust and understanding between each other is incomparably precious. It's not just about family, it's about work and socializing, right?"
"Yes, if you understand this, your relationships will definitely be smoother in the future. Manager Wang encouraged.
In the process of visiting relatives and friends, I gradually found opportunities to apply what I had learned. I talked about this in my conversation with my cousin.
"Xiao Ming, I can see that you have changed a lot recently. The cousin smiled approvingly.
"Yes, I've changed a lot during this time. I said in a good mood.
"Is there something going on in the family? I think you're more mature now. The cousin asked curiously.
"Yes, understanding and tolerance between family members became especially important, and I gradually realized this. I spoke up calmly.
"Understanding this is a kind of growth and wisdom. The cousin nodded in agreement.
In my work and life, I also try to learn to treat everyone with understanding and tolerance. In the process, I have found that in my work and social, such an attitude makes it easier for people to accept and trust me, and it also makes it easier for me to find the best way to solve problems.
Now, when I look back on this experience, my inner turmoil has calmed down. I know very well that family disputes are actually part of the growth of life, and only in such setbacks and lessons can we more clearly understand the value of family affection. It is in this kind of baptism and growth that I feel the affection and warmth of my family, and in the tempering, I cherish my family more and have a deeper understanding of life. Perhaps, this is the real connection between family members.
The tempering of my family has made me grow a lot, and it has also taught me to empathize, understand and be tolerant. This attitude makes it easier for me to gain trust in my dealings with family, friends, and colleagues, and it also makes it easier for me to find ways to solve problems.
"Xiao Ming, what do you think of this plan?" my colleague Xiao Wang handed me a copy of the design.
"I think we need to adjust a little bit, and we need to think about the needs and habits of users. I said with a serious expression.
"Oh, I didn't expect this angle, it seems that you have a better understanding of the needs of users. Xiao Wang said with emotion.
"Yes, it is impossible to really help users without a little bit of understanding. I said with deep feeling.
In my work, I try to understand the needs of users in an empathetic way, which makes my design closer to users and easier to be recognized by them.
In life, I am also trying to treat everyone with understanding and tolerance. This attitude not only increases the pleasantness of my interpersonal interactions, but also makes it easier for me to gain understanding and support from others. Today, I feel the joy and sense of accomplishment that comes with this attitude.
Thinking about this, I can't help but feel a lot of emotion. Growing up under the auspices of my family is a sign of my maturity. Understanding and tolerance are the treasures of my growth. In the process, I also discovered that understanding and tolerance not only bring joy and fulfillment to myself, but also make others feel that I care and trust. Perhaps, this is the most beautiful connection in life.
In my dealings with family, friends, and colleagues, I have found the power of understanding and tolerance very important. This makes it easier for me to connect with people and also makes me better at interpersonal relationships. And when I try to be understanding and tolerant, this attitude really makes it easier for me to face life's challenges.
"Xiao Ming, your work is getting better and better. My colleague Sister Li said to me with praise.
"Thank you, I actually think it's all thanks to the recent new experience of understanding and tolerance. I replied frankly.
"Well, between people, being able to understand and tolerate is the most important thing. Sister Li said with deep emotion.
"Yes, I'm starting to understand it now. I nodded in agreement.
In my conversation with Sister Li, I have strengthened my belief that understanding and tolerance can make life more brilliant.
In the process, I have also found that when I am able to treat my family, friends and colleagues with an understanding and inclusive mindset, they will respond to me in the same way. It taught me that understanding and tolerance between people are mutual. And this feeling and state of mind has sublimated my heart.
At that time, I still remember the difference between me and my aunt, the bitterness and regret reflected in her eyes, and I also deeply felt her helplessness and remorse. At this time, I have long realized the value and profundity of understanding and tolerance. At that moment, my heart was filled with compassion for her feelings.
Looking to the future, I will work harder to rely on understanding and tolerance to face every challenge on the road. I believe that it is only in this giving and acceptance that we can gain more and gain more of life. Perhaps this is the most beautiful connection in life.
During this time, I tried harder to rely on understanding and tolerance to face life's challenges. When I open my heart to others, I also feel more likely to feel how others respond to me. This kind of mutual understanding and tolerance has made my interpersonal relationship more harmonious and my work and life better.
"Xiao Ming, you've been doing well lately, I can see that you've become more mature. Friend Xiao Liu said commendally.
"Yes, I have learned a lot recently about the importance of understanding and tolerance. I replied with deep feeling.
"Yes, there are some things that are not forced, a little more understanding and tolerance, and the environment will become more harmonious. Xiao Liu said approvingly.
In my conversation with my friend Xiao Liu, I felt the positive energy brought by understanding and tolerance, which made my heart more fulfilling.
In the family, I try to treat each loved one with more understanding and tolerance. I found that because I became more tolerant of my family, they no longer hid their hearts. "Xiao Ming, I've been in some trouble lately, can I talk to you about it?"
"Of course, what happened to you?" I said softly.
"Actually, your dad and I have had some conflicts recently, but I always believe that as long as we understand and tolerate each other, all difficulties can be solved. Mom said frankly.
As I listened to my mother's words, a warm strength swelled up in my heart. I know that understanding and tolerance can not only resolve conflicts between families, but also make families more harmonious and happy.
During this experience, I became more aware of the importance of understanding and tolerance in relationships. Understanding and tolerance make my mind more broad-minded and better, and my relationships with my family, friends and colleagues are more harmonious. In understanding and tolerance, I found maturity and lived my life more fully. Perhaps this is the most beautiful connection in life.