Teacher Tu Lei once said:
"There are roughly two kinds of men, one is disgusted with women talking to him about money, and the other is taking the initiative to talk to women about money. ”
Come to think of it, it is.
Many times, men are much more "savvy" than women.
So there is probably only one kind of woman who can make them willing to spend money, and that is the woman they love the most.
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People who are not willing to spend money on you must not love you
Some people say:
"Through a man's attitude of spending money for you, you can get a glimpse of how sincere he is for you. ”
The implication is that a man who is willing to spend money for you must love you deeply.
It's just that a man who doesn't want to spend a penny for you will definitely not love you.
Although love is not something that can be measured by money, a man's heart for you is often conveyed through money.
If he really loves you, he will not hesitate to give everything he has to create the best life for you.
If he doesn't really treat you, he will become calculating, weighing you repeatedly to see if you are worth his money and investment.
In the final analysis, a man is not stupid, his heart is with you, and the money is willing to be spent on you.
On the contrary, if he often cries poor or always cares about you when he faces you, you should understand that only if you don't love, you will calculate every penny.
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Whoever he cares about the most, he spends his money on
Do you still remember the "raffia incident" that was on the hot search some time ago?
On the sixth anniversary, the boy prepared an ingenious gift for his girlfriend -
An old cotton suit that he worn, a hat, a few boxes of Wangzi milk, some small snacks, because the box was too big, the boy spread layer after layer of raffia to take up space......
After the video was posted online, it sparked widespread discussion and controversy.
One of the boys said:
"This person doesn't love his girlfriend at all, because in his eyes, giving her dozens of yuan snacks is something worth touching, but obviously, no money and perfunctory are two different things. ”
Indeed it is.
How much a person spends for you is not a complete measure of the depth of his feelings for you.
But the person who really loves you is still not enough to pay everything for you, and only those who don't love you will be scheming at you.
As Mr. Tu Lei said:
"Money is like a mirror that shows how much you really weigh in the other person's mind. ”
Those who are willing to spend money for you are not stupid, they do not have endless wealth, but when facing their loved ones, they are willing to give regardless of gains and losses, without regrets.
Because for them, love is the most important thing.
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Find a man who is willing to spend money for you
Many people think that talking about money is very vulgar, and they think that they are full of love and water, but after really going through the ups and downs of life, they will understand-
Money is not the whole story of love, however, it is difficult to stabilize love without talking about money.
Those mountain alliances and sea oaths and sweet words are often only used to coax little girls who are not deeply involved in the world.
The reality of adults is that it is impossible to move without money.
So, be sure to find a man who is willing to spend money for you.
This is not money worship, just because love is not just casual talk, only action can see sincerity.
As Venus says:
We are past the age of hearing about love.
Only when love falls in the actual firewood, rice, oil and salt can it give birth to happy flowers in the ordinary.
Therefore, don't be a fool who only listens to oaths, and it is really safe to find the man who really loves you.
There is such a line in "Mr. Love":
"The word love is by no means illusory or spiritual, but objective, material, the result of a series of chemical reactions. ”
Love is never just talking!
How much a man loves you, how willing he is to spend money for you, and choosing a man who is willing to pay for you is the real road to happiness.
May the love between you and me not only have the romance of wind and snow, but also the companionship of plain and down-to-earth, and the peace of mind without worrying about food and clothing.
From now on, three meals and four seasons, happy and safe!