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Dealing with the weak strengthens their sense of superiority
Have you ever noticed a phenomenon in social networking?
Those who are good-looking have a mediocre-looking friend next to them;
A person with a good figure will also have a friend who is not in good shape;
Rich people will also have a group of friends who don't have much money around them.
Subconsciously, people naturally don't like to interact with people who are "stronger than themselves";
It's like a mountain can't accommodate two tigers, and it can't accommodate another to take away all its limelight.
How to highlight the "aura" of the protagonist in movies, TV series and novels?
reduce the IQ and EQ of the supporting characters;
The behavior of the supporting characters is disgusting;
In a series of comparisons, the character design of the protagonist stands out.
The same applies to social interactions.
Most people like to make friends with the weak.
First, it can enhance a person's sense of superiority
Secondly, when interacting with the weak, it is possible to ignore their emotions and even vent their frustrations at will
A sense of superiority is a person's motivation to look down on you and interact with you.
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Create your own "personality" in social interactions
Look down, but not up.
In social life, even if you don't like someone, you won't look back;
Most people choose to be polite.
I won't get too close to each other, but I won't make too much of a fuss;
After all, we have to deal with each other a lot, and a direct showdown is not good for the other side.
It's like you don't like someone, you don't argue with them, do you?
When meeting, just nod and be polite.
There is a concept in psychology called "impression management".
People tend to create their own personalities in social interactions within groups;
Show a positive attitude towards the outside world and make sure you are positive.
Really scheming people:
Even if you hate each other in your heart, you can still allow yourself to laugh and socialize with them.
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I want to get more value from you
There is a social fact:
As long as you have practical value and ability;
Even if the people around you hate you and no longer like you, they will continue to associate with you.
This is always the case, whether in a relationship, or with friends.
The relationship between people is essentially an "exchange".
Exchange of values, exchange of emotions, exchange of ideas.
Those who don't care about you and still interact with you, when approaching you, have impure intentions.
The reason why he interacts with you and disingenuously pleases you is to seek more value from you.
What is the manifestation of such a person?
likes to take advantage of you;
When interacting, you'll pay more for it;
I will flatter you when I need you;
When you need help, he makes excuses to avoid it.
A selfish and calculating person will do this to you.
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Enjoy your efforts and find your way out
This usually happens in intimate relationships.
For example:
The other person obviously doesn't like you anymore, but they're still with you.
Why?
Because he wanted to eat from the bowl and looked at the pot.
Enjoy the effort you give to others and don't want the satisfaction of getting something for nothing.
However, he doesn't intend to take responsibility for you and doesn't think about building a long-term relationship with you.
Once he meets another person of the opposite sex and develops a crush on them;
At that time, he will leave you without hesitation.
This is "refined selfishness".
As long as they can meet their own needs and interests, they can use themselves, love, righteousness, and morality as bargaining chips.
When you have value and ability, all kinds of demons and monsters will come to you;
At this point, you have to sift through carefully with your eyes wide open.
Never waste too much money on the people who consume you.