Text: Ah Shen Ai observes
Editor: Ah Chao Ai observes
The first encounter with the infatuation
The love story of Xie Nan and Wu Jing is touching, and they have gone through many twists and turns and ups and downs before finally coming together.
Wu Jing is 9 years younger than Xie Nan, and the two met at work and began a deep relationship.
When they met for the first time, Wu Jing came to participate in the interview show hosted by Xie Nan in a military uniform, but it did not produce any special sparks at that time.
After a private dinner, the two began to interact more and became friends with frequent interactions.
Wu Jing has been on Xie Nan's show many times, but he didn't have too many special feelings for her at first.
When he asked his friend for advice about his girlfriend, the friend recommended Xie Nan again, but Wu Jing did not immediately agree.
He hoped to find a woman who was down-to-earth and could live a stable life, but at that time he didn't think that Xie Nan would be such a person.
A Weibo post by Xie Nan made Wu Jing start to follow her.
The text in Weibo expressed Xie Nan's attitude towards work and love, which attracted Wu Jing's attention.
The two launched an in-depth discussion about women, love and work on Weibo, thus bringing each other closer.
In a variety show, when Wu Jing saw Xie Nan, he was like a peacock on the screen, and was instantly attracted by her charm.
The way he appeared caused heated discussions among the audience, and the process of pursuing it was full of romance.
He said bluntly: "I remember that you are very eager to catch up with her, and you can't keep forgetting this thing." ”
This sentence depicts Wu Jing's state of mind when he first met Xie Nan, like a young boy in infatuation.
Gradually, Wu Jing developed a strong interest in Xie Nan and began to actively pursue her.
He confessed three times before finally winning Xie Nan's heart.
At their wedding, Wu Jing had to appear on crutches because of his injury, and he was moved to talk about Xie Nan's careful care for him.
When Xie Nan was filming the movie "Wolf Warrior 2" in Wu Jing, he supported him to put all his assets into the movie, and even mortgaged the house.
Her support for Wu Jing's career and dreams made Wu Jing feel deeply happy.
Wu Jing also showed his love and worry for Xie Nan, especially when Xie Nan needed to shoot intimate scenes.
He would appear on the shooting site in a particularly handsome white outfit, find Xie Nan in person, and encourage her to dare to express her wishes.
This sweet and sincere relationship has won the envy of people.
Wu Jing's attitude towards marriage has also changed, he once hoped to find a homely woman, but for Xie Nan's sake, he let go of the stereotype of traditional marriage.
He said frankly that women are in pain, and he believes that there is no difference between dominating and not dominating at home, and the most important thing is for the two to live their own small lives.
Changes in marriage
As time passed, the details of the marriage revealed unusual changes.
Wu Jing, who used to be a gentle and good man, has now become no longer patient.
In a variety show, the audience witnessed the change in Wu Jing's attitude towards his wife.
She went into the kitchen to make suggestions, but Wu Jing was dissatisfied.
He became impatient and violent, and the disappointment revealed in the details was unbearable for Xie Nan.
In a variety show not long ago, Wu Jing and Xie Nan staged a fierce quarrel again.
The dispute stemmed from the "you draw and I guess" game in which the two participated, and in the course of the game, some embarrassing episodes occurred.
Halfway through the game, Wu Jing and Xie Nan fell into the dilemma of guessing the wrong words, and the scene was embarrassing.
Seeing that the situation was not right, Xie Nan eagerly proposed to swap the roles of the two, so that Wu Jing could change from the drawing party to the word guessing party.
This proposal made Wu Jing lose control of his emotions, and under the pretext of not reacting, he showed strong dissatisfaction.
In order to calm the embarrassing scene, Guo Jingfei, a friend next to him, stood up and bluntly persuaded him, thinking that Wu Jing's reaction was too cautious and should not have such a big emotional swing to his daughter-in-law.
This persuasion did not work, and Wu Jing insisted on complaining that Xie Nan should not swap places at will, which made the atmosphere even more awkward.
The climax of this quarrel was that Xie Nan's proposal and Guo Jingfei's persuasion failed to calm Wu Jing's emotions, and he continued to express his dissatisfaction with Xie Nan.
The whole scene became tense and chaotic, and the audience began to feel the awkwardness and tension.
Marriage rumors?
Last year, the media and netizens paid attention to the variables in Wu Jing and Xie Nan's marriage.
Although the two did not publicly respond to the rumors, a series of business changes have attracted widespread attention.
Specifically, Xie Nan withdrew from a media company in which her husband, Wu Jing, was a shareholder, which sparked speculation about whether there was a problem in the relationship between the two.
Xie Nan reportedly held a 5% stake when she exited the company, but with her exit, she also stepped down as a shareholder, and Wu Jing became the company's largest shareholder.
The reason behind this business decision has sparked speculation about the relationship between the two.
Why Xie Nan chose to quit the company has become the focus of attention.
Some netizens pointed out that this is not the first time that there have been problems in the marriage of the two.
Previously, the details of the relationship between the two were exposed in a variety show.
It is reported that Xie Nan once said that she paid too much attention to Wu Jing's career, and she was disappointed not to go home for a long time.
Whether or not the withdrawal from the company was related to these contradictions has become a topic of public discussion.
In another show, the two had a disagreement when making a pig intestine dish, which eventually led to a fierce quarrel.
On the issue of cooking the pig's large intestine, Wu Jing and Xie Nan had a disagreement.
Wu Jing thinks he has cooked the pig's large intestine correctly, but Xie Nan insists that it needs to be cooked a little more to ensure safety.
This small disagreement escalated into a heated verbal altercation.
When making other dishes, Wu Jing did not operate as Xie Nan expected, which led to Xie Nan's dissatisfaction.
Wu Jing questioned this, believing that his approach was not wrong, and had his own ideas about the handling of dishes.
The differences of opinion between the two grew wider, and eventually turned into an open quarrel.
And Wu Jing also expressed his attitude of never participating in the show again.
This quarrel not only caused an uproar in the variety show, but also made the audience more curious about the real state of the celebrity couple.
Scars in the emotional cycle
In the relationship between Wu Jing and Xie Nan, a cycle seems to make the ending of every quarrel seem heavy.
In this emotional game, Xie Nan always wronged himself, endured silently, tried to mediate the atmosphere, and even carefully appeased Wu Jing's emotions.
Although Wu Jing is able to reflect on his own problems every time, he can hardly suppress his violent temper, making the cycle seem endless.
No matter what the reason for the quarrel was, Xie Nan always chose to swallow the bitter water and endure it silently, while Wu Jing did not really change his behavior.
This situation may have made Xie Nan feel a lot of pressure, she needs to endure her grievances again and again, and even self-mediate, all of which seems to have become her way of self-harm.
Perhaps it is because of this emotional consumption that when asked "whether he would like to marry Wu Jing in his next life", Xie Nan bluntly said no.
Such an answer was verified on a lie detector, showing that she was telling the truth.
Maybe she doesn't want to bear such a humble love in the next life, and she doesn't want to passively work for her happiness.
Also, no one can accept such a tiring way of getting along.
Yang Mi's views on marriage in the entertainment industry have become a yardstick, she once said: "The result is not important, the result is like that." ”
This sentence seems to verify the uncertainty of Wu Jing and Xie Nan's marriage.
The result of love may have been predestined.
The end was already predestined
Love comes to the end, not just the story of Wu Jing and Xie Nan.
The infatuation at first meeting and the romance of love at first sight seem to be just a brief moment of beauty in marriage.
As time passed, problems in the details quietly emerged, and Wu Jing's attitude, words and deeds changed.
Sa Beining's show revealed the disharmony in marriage, and Wu Jing's evaluation of Xie Nan made the audience worry about this relationship.
Perhaps, what Yang Mi said at the beginning of "the result is like that" can better reflect the universality in marriage.
The beauty of love may gradually dissipate in marriage, and the ending may already be predestined.
The story of Wu Jing and Xie Nan, like the marriages of many celebrities in the entertainment industry, is full of unknowns in the future, either continuing to struggle or going to a fork in the road.
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