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Late at night, I sat alone in my study with a lot of thoughts. The wind whistled outside the window, and the light in the room reflected gently on the pages, and I could hear my heartbeat.
At this moment, I felt extremely tired in my heart. Marriage is an important decision in life, but when it becomes complicated, I can't predict what decision I should make.
Looking back on the bits and pieces after marriage, my wife and I did not have a smooth journey, and the love that used to be has become insignificant now. The issue of the marriage room has become the most difficult problem between us.
"Husband, do you know? My mother-in-law paid 80,000 yuan to buy your 1.8 million wedding house and was rejected. My wife told me bitterly, with an unconcealed grievance in her voice.
"This ...... Doesn't she want us to have a stable place to live?" I asked, somewhat incredulous. In my understanding, marriage should be a process of mutual tolerance and support between two families, and my mother-in-law's attitude really puzzled me.
"She insisted that we repay the loan to buy the house ourselves, but my current job income is not high, and I simply can't handle such a huge amount of pressure. She even said that if we can't come up with that much money, we don't want to get married. His wife's voice trembled, and her eyes flashed with helplessness and fear.
My wife's behavior puzzled me, and she began to pack her belongings at home and prepare to leave. But I couldn't stop her, and hurriedly blocked her way.
"Don't do that, my dear. I will face all this with you, and we will definitely find a way to solve it. "I took my wife's hand and looked at her sincerely, and I knew I had to stand firmly by her side and give her support and strength.
Ran Ran burst into tears, and she trembled and took my hand. "But look at where we are...... Can't afford to buy a house at all. My mother-in-law didn't compromise either, and I really didn't know what to do. ”
I hugged her tightly, "Don't worry, I promise you, I'll fix this." Compared to the house, it is our heart that matters. As long as we love and support each other, there is nothing to fear in other difficulties. ”
Ran Ran lowered his head, choked up and whispered: "I really don't know what to do, if we don't have a stable home, what will our future be?"
I comforted her softly, "Honey, the house is not all there is to happiness. As long as we work together, no matter the wind and rain, we will face it together and tide over the difficulties together. Our love will be the strongest of dependencies. ”
Ran Ran raised his head, looked at me with teary eyes, and nodded slowly.
"Yes, we will get through this. We will always be together, forever. I said firmly, watching her smile slowly. This smile made the worries in my heart gradually dissipate.
That night, I took my wife's hand and we sat down together and thought about what we could do to solve the housing problem. After in-depth discussion and analysis, we decided to rent a house to get through the difficulties, and then slowly try to save money and try to buy a house as soon as possible.
In the days that followed, my wife and I worked hard, lived frugally, and worked hard for our dreams. Whenever we encounter difficulties, we will support each other, encourage each other, and walk together firmly. Until one day, we finally scraped together enough for a down payment and bought our own love nest.
Standing at the door of the new house, I looked at the happiness in my wife's eyes, and then I realized that all the difficulties and struggles we experienced on this road have become the experience of our love. We who have no home have composed a firm and persistent melody with the power of love.
Nowadays, our lives are gradually stable, and looking back on the tortuous journey, we can't help but sigh: love is a kind of strength, which can make us move forward bravely, not afraid of wind and rain. And the turmoil over the marriage room issue has finally become a wave that makes us more determined, and it will always shine.
After marriage, life is gradually on the right track, and whenever I walk into my home and see my wife's busy figure, my heart is always full of gratitude. We no longer have to worry about the house, but can chase our dreams with more confidence.
"Honey, I received news of a salary increase today!" I excitedly announced to my wife.
"Great! We've saved a little bit more. The wife replied meaningfully.
"Yes, now we can save some more money and pay off the mortgage as soon as possible. I smiled, confident about the future.
However, our happiness did not last long. My wife's mother was seriously ill, and the medical bills made her anxious.
"Honey, I'm wondering, why don't we use the down payment we saved to pay for Mommy's medical bills, she's really in need of money right now. His wife's voice trembled.
I pondered for a moment and looked at my wife earnestly. "Honey, I know you're worried, but the money we've saved is for our future. And the medical costs are so high, how are we going to pay off the mortgage when we run out?"
The wife hung her head, tears blurring her vision, "I don't know what to do anymore." ”
I stepped forward and put my arms around my wife's shoulders. "Honey, we're going to figure it out. We can first find a way to negotiate with the hospital to see if we can pay in installments. In the meantime, I'll be considering other solutions as soon as possible. ”
After many discussions and efforts, we finally negotiated with the hospital and were able to pay in installments. My wife, on the other hand, did her best to take care of her mother, so that her body gradually recovered.
And whenever I see my wife's tired figure outside the ward, my heart is always full of admiration and emotion. Although we face all kinds of difficulties, we all know that as long as we love and support each other, we will face any difficulties together.
"My dear, I know that you have paid too much for me and my mother, and you have been wronged. I whispered to my wife.
My wife looked at me firmly, "Fool, we are a family, and it is right to support each other." I will always be there for you, and together we face every difficult time in life. ”
I hugged my wife tightly and felt her warm embrace. "Yes, as long as we are together, no matter what difficulties lie ahead, we will get through them together. ”
On the road to marriage, there are all kinds of scenery. There are good times and there are hard days. However, it is these challenges that forge our resilience and strengthen our love. So, no matter what difficulties lie ahead, we will hold each other's hands and move forward bravely forever.
Our lives have gradually improved with our joint efforts, and in order to cover my mother-in-law's medical expenses, my wife and I have also bought more insurance and worked hard to save money. And we finally paid off the mortgage, and when I looked at the title deed with our names written on it, I was extremely relieved and emotional.
However, just when everything was calm and beautiful, my wife began to become suspicious, and she began to doubt whether I still loved her and our marriage.
"Honey, I found out that you have been secretly talking on the phone lately, you can't be having an affair, right?"
I hurriedly explained, "My dear, I promise you, I absolutely not, you should know how much I love you. ”
Ran Ran shook his head, "I don't know, I always feel that you have become different recently, is there something wrong between us?"
My heart ached because we used to love each other so much, we used to talk about everything, but now we became suspicious and distrustful.
"Honey, there's nothing wrong between us, I'm still the same me who loves you, remember our vows?"
Ran Ran's eyes were red, "I remember, but I'm really a little uneasy now." ”
"My dear, we can't give up our love and marriage because of these little things, we love each other, don't we? ”
Ran Ran raised his head, tears kept flowing, "I also know that I am just always worried about losing you, and I am afraid that our love will deteriorate. ”
I hugged her tightly, "My dear, I promise you, I will always protect you, there will be no problems between us, and this marriage will definitely not go to breakdown." ”
Gradually, we opened our hearts and began to pour out each other's inner feelings more. And through the communication and understanding between us, my relationship with my wife has become more harmonious.
On the road to marriage, we have experienced countless ups and downs, which has also made our relationship stronger. And every challenge and tempering has achieved our more mature and strong quality. Today, our marriage is even more indestructible, and as long as we continue to be sincere and trust each other, our love will always be full of life and forever.
After our frank communication and understanding, my wife's marriage and I have returned to its former harmony and intimacy. We learned more tolerance and understanding from each other. And in the course of this marriage, I also understood that love is not smooth sailing, but requires us to care for and manage it with our hearts.
However, life will continue to present us with new tests. One night, as I was sitting alone in my living room, the silence was shattered by the ringing of the phone.
"Hey, it's me, your wife was in a car accident and is in the hospital now, you have to come right away!" The other end of the line hung up immediately.
I was so anxious that I quickly packed my bags and rushed to the hospital. An indescribable sense of panic and worry gripped me.
When I arrived at the hospital, I saw that the doctor was giving first aid to my wife, who was pale and looked badly injured. My heart is like a knife, and I can't live in pain.
"Doctor, she'...... Will she be fine?" I asked the doctor anxiously.
The doctor frowned, "She's in a critical condition right now, she needs surgery, and the medical expenses are not high. ”
"Doctor, please do your best to save her, we will try our best to pay for the medical expenses, as long as we can save her!" I begged the doctor desperately.
During the long wait outside the operating room, my heart fell into an ice cave. I reminisced about our past, and warm scenes came to my mind. I couldn't help but regret some of the quarrels and misunderstandings I had had, and I was hoping for a miracle.
"The operation was a success and now she is out of danger. You have to pay more attention to conditioning, this accident is a big blow to her. The doctor came out of the operating room.
I let out a long sigh of relief, tears blurring my eyes. I know that even though there have been conflicts and misunderstandings in my marriage, this accident has made me more aware of how important she is to me.
"My dear, you have a good rest first, I will always be by your side, give you my care and care, and walk through this difficult time with you. I whispered to my wife, standing by her side.
This accident made me think more deeply about marriage. In marriage, we need to give each other love and care at all times, and we need to cherish the happiness and warmth we have. Because only by experiencing the line of life and death can we better understand each other's preciousness. And in the days to come, I will treat our marriage more attentively, love her, love her, and protect her forever.
My wife and I have made it through this perilous time, and our marriage has once again been strengthened by the trials of life. And in the days when his wife began to slowly recover, she became more cherished and grateful for every ordinary day and everything she had.
"Honey, why are you looking at our wedding photo again?" I asked when I saw her appear in the living room with a wedding photo.
She smiled softly, "yes, I've been thinking about when we got married lately, and I feel like we were so young and happy back then. ”
I couldn't help but laugh, "Yes, we haven't experienced ups and downs at that time, everything is so beautiful and simple." ”
My wife grabbed my hand tightly, "I know how much you cherish me, and I also understand that it is so important whether we love each other or not, and I will cherish our happiness even more." ”
"My dear, everything we have is really the most precious to me. I also want to say to you that from now on, no matter what difficulties may arise in the future, I will always be by your side. I looked at her firmly and said to her with an affectionate gaze.
As I walked out of the hospital, I felt that my heart was filled with love and cherishment for my wife. In that accident, I understood the fragility and preciousness of life, and I also cherished the love and relationship between us even more.
"My dear, I decided that we should go on a dream trip to feel the beauty of life and relax. "I proposed to my wife.
There was joy in his wife's eyes, "Really, where are we going?"
"I thought we could go to the place I've always longed for, face the sea, feel its magnificence and tranquility, and enjoy our time. I said firmly.
So, on this sunny morning, we set out on our journey to the beach. On the beach, my wife and I walked on the silver sand beach, watching the tide rise and fall, and we forgot all our worries and troubles.
"Honey, it's beautiful here, thank you for coming with me. My wife said to me.
I held her hand tightly and watched her smile and look at the sea, my heart filled with joy. "It is you who have made my life more meaningful, and the journey ahead, we will definitely face together, forever. I said affectionately.
Our marriage journey is full of twists and turns, but all these things make us more mature and strong. And in the days to come, I will treat our marriage more attentively, love her, love her, and protect her forever.
Although our marriage had a lot of difficulties, my wife and I became closer after that trip to the beach. We have learned to be more tolerant and understanding, and we have become more aware of each other's preciousness.
"My dear, thank you for always being by my side, I feel that our relationship is much better again, and I cherish the love between us even more. My wife said to me with a smile.
I also looked at her, "Yes, I also feel that our relationship is stronger, and we will definitely support each other all the time." ”
On the way home, my wife and I happily planned for the future. We decided to go for a walk together often, to feel the beauty of nature and enjoy our time. And this accident also made us more aware of the preciousness and happiness of life.
However, just when we thought everything was going to be good, my wife suddenly received a notice of dismissal from the company.
"My dear, I've been laid off by the company, how are we going to live now?" said my wife anxiously.
I also felt pressure in my heart, "Don't worry, no matter how rough the days are, maybe it's for our better future." ”
"But we're under a lot of pressure right now, you're the breadwinner of the family now, what are we going to do?" said my wife, looking at me.
I clasped her hand, "Honey, I'll figure it out, and we'll get through this time." You also know that our love will not be shaken by this. ”
In the days that followed, I worked hard and did my best to help my wife find a new job. In this process, we continue to encourage and support each other, and in the face of various difficulties, we all firmly believe that tomorrow will be better.
Thanks to our joint efforts, my wife finally found a new job. I felt a smile on my face as she came home smiling.
"Honey, I made it, I got a new job!" my wife told me excitedly.
I also hugged her happily, "Congratulations, dear, you are awesome! We have always supported each other and believe that the future will be even better." ”
The experience of this period has made us more cherishing and tolerant, and it has also made our marriage more resilient. In the days to come, we will always stand firmly by each other's side forever.