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In the face of such expectations, I have different ideas. I think they have a good time together, and I can relax my mood when I go out to travel. I don't like the formal atmosphere of the banquet, I enjoy the outdoor scenery and the intimacy with nature. Especially during the holidays, I always take advantage of this opportunity to get away from the hustle and bustle of the city and find my inner peace.
When my mother-in-law said this, I was silent for a while, and then whispered, "You guys have a good gathering, I'll go on a trip." My mother-in-law was silent for a moment, she knew that I always had a unique way of thinking. Then she instructed, "Take care of yourself when you go out, and be careful not to have an accident." This kind of concern is something she doesn't realize herself.
My mood to travel is getting higher and higher, and I always look forward to the moment when I can meet more beautiful scenery and more interesting people. With the arrival of the May Day holiday, I started my journey early. I was alone in the crowd at the station, but I wasn't alone. I have a unique eye for things that I can always find interesting. For example, the intimate hug of the couple, such as the innocent smile of the child, such as the expectant eyes of the old man. These are the heartfelt moments of my journey.
During my travels, I met a like-minded travel companion. He has a unique pair of eyes that always capture the scenery that I can't see. We experienced a lot of interesting things together and tasted local specialties together. One evening, we leaned against the lake and watched the sun slowly go down. At that moment, I felt extremely satisfied, as if my soul had been baptized.
At the same time, the brother-in-law's family was also reunited at home. They greeted each other, talked about their recent situation, and enjoyed a rare time together as a family. The mother-in-law sat on the sidelines, watching them smile and smile, and her heart was full of satisfaction. She always longs for the family to come together and enjoy a moment of tranquility.
When I received a text message from my brother-in-law saying that my family missed me, I suddenly realized that I also longed for the warmth of home. So I set out on my way home and returned to my mother-in-law. She had a happy smile on her face when she saw me. She whispered, "You're traveling again, you seem to be having a great time." I smiled and nodded, and said, "Yes, but I'm starting to miss my family too." She took my hand and whispered, "Home is the warmest harbor." I also felt the deep concern in her heart.
Since then, I've been planning my next trip, but I've also been working harder at home to care for my family. I understand that no matter where I go, home is always the warmest harbor. My mother-in-law's expectations and my family's concern have become the driving force in my heart. I became more fulfilled and more unique. I have learned to be better at discovering the beauty in life and to cherish the love of my family more. For me, that's it.
As a result, my relationship with my mother-in-law has been more communicated and understood. It's no longer a superficial estrangement, but a genuine treat each other. She began to understand my thoughts better, and I learned to listen to her.
One day, my mother-in-law and I sat on a wicker chair in the yard, enjoying the afternoon sun. She asked me softly, "Where do you plan to travel in the future?" and I replied with a smile: "I plan to go to Yunnan next time, and the scenery there is said to be very beautiful." A hint of envy flashed in her eyes, and she said gently: "I also have a wish, I want to go to Tibet once and see the snow-capped mountains and lakes there." "I was deeply moved by her words, a hidden desire in her heart, a dream that had never been realized.
So, I started thinking about my mother-in-law's dream. Through a friend's introduction, I found a travel agency that specializes in organizing trips for the elderly. I firmly said to my mother-in-law, "Let's go to Tibet together and make your dreams come true." There was a look of surprise in her eyes, and she said excitedly, "Really, are you willing to accompany me?" I nodded and smiled, "Of course, this is my gift to you." ”
During the preparation of the trip, the mother-in-law was very excited, and she was very careful when packing up. Every time she mentions this trip, her expression is full of anticipation. Finally, we set foot on the land of Tibet.
In that mysterious and beautiful land, we climbed the snow-capped mountains, pilgrimaged the Jokhang Temple, and enjoyed the lake, and every attraction left a deep impression on us. What touched me even more was my mother-in-law, who was full of vitality, like a young girl, full of awe and worship for this holy place. Every night, she always smiled and told me what she had seen and heard that day, just as I had done to my travel companions.
What touched me the most was that on the last day in Tibet, she suddenly said to me, "Thank you for making my dream come true." I gently hugged her and said, "This is what I should do." I want you to know that your family will always have your back and that we are there for you no matter what you want to do. "At this moment, I understood that in fact, the deepest emotion between family members is not only words, but also silent companionship and understanding.
When I got home, my mother-in-law always liked to take out the photos and look through our experiences in Tibet. Every time she reminishes, she will be full of emotion and smiles. This trip is not only her dream come true, but also the relationship between us is deeper.
As the years went by, the affection and understanding between me and my mother-in-law continued to sublimate. Even ordinary life is full of warmth and love.
One day, I was busy making dinner in the kitchen, and my mother-in-law came up to me and asked softly, "What are you doing today?" She looked at me, smiled contentedly, and whispered, "You are so sweet and know my preferences." I smiled and said, "This is also something I learned little by little, and I hope to bring you some warmth with food." ”
At dinner, I put the food on the table one by one, and my mother-in-law, who was sitting across from me, looked at me from time to time. Suddenly, she said, "Thank you for taking care of me all these years, and that time you took me to Tibet, which is an unforgettable memory for my life." I looked at her and whispered, "You are my mother-in-law, and it is a matter of course for family members to accompany each other." My mother-in-law gently held my hand, nodded and said, "Yes, I am very fortunate to have a daughter-in-law like you." ”
On this day, we talk about the ups and downs of life, expectations and hopes for the future, and the topic is usually not too deep, but it can always stir up ripples in our hearts. In this process, I slowly discovered that my mother-in-law turned out to be a soft-hearted woman, and she had a lot of unspeakable things about me, but she always silently endured and tolerated for the sake of the family.
And I cherish this family affection more and more. Every time there is a holiday, I will carefully plan our family activities, whether it is a trip, or a dinner, to create a warm family atmosphere for my mother-in-law. I knew that this was what she wanted, the warmth of home she longed for.
Gradually, we became aware of some tacit understanding. She began to become more dependent on me and willing to share her feelings and thoughts with me.
My mother-in-law said to me: "I saw my younger self in the photo album, and I also saw a me that you didn't know, and I always thought that you didn't like to talk to me all these years, so I always maintained a sense of alienation." I gently shook her hand and said, "I didn't expect you to have such thoughts in your heart. In fact, I have always cherished every communication with you, and the insights brought to me by your experience and story have always been in my heart. There were tears of emotion in her eyes, and our hearts seemed to be a little closer.
In the past few days, I have communicated more with my mother-in-law, and we have become more and more aware of each other's inner world. We all became more accommodating and became best friends. Since then, we have gotten along more easily and more harmoniously.
Once, we were sitting together in the yard and she was mruning flowers and grass with a pair of scissors. I held a cup of tea and watched her busy figure. She thought about it for a moment, then asked me tactfully, "What are your plans for the future?" and I smiled and said, "I want to continue working and I want to have children." When she heard this, she smiled with satisfaction and whispered, "It's good planning, it's a great thing that you balance your career and family, and you can take care of your family." I looked at her with gratitude in my heart.
At this time, she suddenly asked me, "How did you feel when you were accepted by me?" I thought about it for a moment, and then said calmly: "At first, I was worried that there would be friction between us, but I gradually realized that you are actually a very good person to get along with, and I am grateful to be your family. After hearing this, she nodded: "Well, I am also grateful that I have such a good daughter-in-law." We looked at each other, and our hearts were filled with respect and gratitude for each other.
The relationship between my mother-in-law and me is no longer between relatives, but more like confidants and friends. There are no more estrangements between us, and the family has become warmer and more harmonious.
One day, I was sitting in the sun sewing a piece of clothing, and my mother-in-law came out of the back room with a cup of tea and stopped by me to look at me. She smiled and said, "Have you been busy lately?" I put down my needle and thread and replied, "It's okay, I'm not too busy at work lately, and I'm enjoying this quiet time." She nodded and said, "People live a lifetime, they are always busy, and occasionally being able to calm down is actually a kind of happiness." I looked at her and felt warm in my heart.
Gradually, our lives are gradually on the right track, and we get along with each other every day with more relaxation and understanding.
Once, my mother-in-law suddenly said to me, "You know what? I think you and my son are very suitable, and I'm glad that you are part of our family." When I heard this, my heart was filled with emotion. I said softly, "Thank you for the compliment, I also feel very fortunate to be your daughter-in-law." At this moment, the hearts of the two of us were intimately connected.
Since then, I have gradually learned to understand and care for the needs of the elderly, and my mother-in-law has become more tolerant and understanding of my attitude towards life. This way of getting along makes our relationship more harmonious and intimate. Since then, we have entered into a warmer family relationship.