In this life, whether it is thoughts and practices, it will be different depending on the age.
When people reach old age, you will find that what you once thought was the most correct and happiest when you were young is exactly the opposite in old age.
On the contrary, I think that the elderly can take the initiative to quit these things, which is the happiest state of life:
Take the initiative to withdraw from the social circle
The happiest state of people in old age is to voluntarily withdraw from unnecessary social activities.
Once upon a time, class reunions and friends dinners were regarded as a part of life.
As long as there is free time, everyone will get together, play and chat, eat and drink, and feel that life is colorful.
But when you reach old age, you will find that this kind of class reunion and dinner with friends will become a burden in life.
I feel that we haven't seen each other for many years and meet again is not the same as before, we are estranged from each other and have no common topics, what we may have is just comparing each other's ability with our children, how much we have a pension, how big a house is, and how many luxury cars we have......
Therefore, gradually taking the initiative to withdraw from such boring social activities is the happiest and wisest choice for the elderly.
Take the initiative to withdraw from the circle of friends
The happiest state of the elderly is to enjoy happiness silently and quietly, and there is no need to advertise their happiness.
In old age, people are living more and more relaxed, and it is easier and easier to be content.
In fact, in this society, no one wants you to live better than him.
So, hide your happiness, there is no need to show off in the circle of friends.
Because no one cares how you're doing.
If you are doing well, others will be jealous, and if you are doing badly, others will secretly rejoice.
Therefore, taking the initiative to withdraw from the circle of friends is the wisest decision.
Proactively delete contact information
When you reach old age, you will find that the phone and WeChat friends lying in your phone book, maybe you put him there as a friend, and others will probably have cleared you out of his friends.
Therefore, when people reach old age, they break up in time and often take a look at the phone book in the mobile phone and the WeChat friends in WeChat.
If you can't think of it, people who haven't been in touch for many years take the initiative to delete it and live a quiet and free old age, which is the happiest state.
Voluntarily leave the colleague group
When you are old, when you retire at home, almost no one knows who you are, no matter how beautiful you have been, as long as you retire, when you are old, you will become a passerby.
No matter how good the sisterhood was in the unit, it may be that they each need each other and use each other at that time.
As you retire and move into old age, time dilutes everything and changes everything, because when you don't have any use for each other, everything changes.
Therefore, there is no need to take the initiative to contact others, do not disturb or contact, and being quiet and alone will be the happiest state.
Voluntarily withdraw from the view of relatives
People are finding more and more in old age that the world may really have changed, and they are not as close as their relatives before, and they are in frequent contact, and they are no longer like the previous New Year's and festivals to go to relatives.
Nowadays, people have their own ways, they have a sense of boundaries with each other, they don't want to trouble others, they don't want to disturb others, and they don't want to be disturbed by others.
Therefore, taking the initiative to distance one's relatives is the happiest state at the moment.
Take the initiative to withdraw from the children's lives
When people reach old age, when the responsibility of honoring their parents is completed, and then the obligation of taking care of their grandchildren is completed, they will take the initiative to withdraw from the lives of their children and return to our own nest to live our own free life, which is the best state of happiness that the elderly choose.
Because, when people reach old age, with the aging of physical functions, their legs and feet are not flexible, their teeth and mouth are not good, and their hygiene cannot be improved.
Therefore, when people reach old age, they must be self-aware, take the initiative to withdraw from the lives of their children, and live freely and independently is the wisest choice.
In short, when people look back in old age, life is a lonely journey, learn to give up, learn to withdraw from all relationships, and learn to be alone is the happiest state of life.