If you divide life into several stages, I think that people live to be 60 years old, and being able to retire safely is more than half of the success.
And then spent 20 years in peace, without any serious illness, the children were safe, the family was complete, and then I died at the age of 80, I think this life is enough.
Because, I think that after the age of 80, as the body functions age, the body will definitely get worse day by day.
As the saying goes: the old lady is not as good as a year after a year.
At this time, when life is semi-self-care, it is a little better, at least as long as there is someone around to help, maybe life is okay, as long as you can eat, drink, pull and sleep, I think life is not a problem.
However, as long as life is completely unable to take care of itself, then life seems to have no meaning.
In fact, people are the most difficult in the end, they can't live or die, and they can't die again, and that time is when life is better than death, and it is the saddest and saddest moment.
Therefore, I think that if I live to be 80 years old, as long as I don't get seriously ill, I don't get seriously ill, I don't let myself suffer from sin, and my children are healthy and safe, then I will live to be 80 years old and close my eyes, and I feel that this life is perfect enough.
As my colleague said, her aunt is in her 80s and has been completely unable to take care of herself for two or three years.
Her three daughters take turns taking care of her. The old lady was full of tubes, and her nose was filled with oxygen tubes; A hole was cut in the stomach, and a gastric tube was inserted; A urinary catheter is inserted into the lower urethra.
The old lady didn't know anything but that she was alive, and to live like this was to torture the living? For herself, she was unconscious, unconscious, and living was like a walking corpse, and there was no point in it.
In the end, it didn't drag down her three daughters, and in the end, she was left to fend for herself, and it was over.
So. I think the greatest happiness of a person is that if he can die without illness before the age of 80, that is the happiest.
I think this may also be the ending that many old people are looking forward to, but things often backfire, and not every old man can get what he wants.
Think about my mother's 85-year-old age, because of advanced liver cancer, it only took 40 days from the examination to the death.
In the later stage, he was skinny and bone-like, and he didn't get a drop of water for the last 21 days, and he just relied on daily infusions to maintain his life.
Fortunately, my mother has children and grandchildren by her side to take turns to take care of her. At that time, we worked in three shifts, two people in each shift, and took turns to take care of them 24 hours a day, but we didn't send my mother to the hospital, because the liver cancer mass was too large, and the two large masses were seven or eight centimeters each, plus my mother was 85 years old and not suitable for surgery, and she had lost the indication for surgery, and at such an old age, there was no need to bear the pain of surgery, so I just let my mother stay at home quietly to maintain the therapy.
In fact, after my mother was 80 years old, her legs and feet were already bad, and there were huge difficulties in life. Frequent incontinence, sometimes changing pants four or five times a day.
My younger brother couldn't go out to work, so he had to accompany him at home throughout the whole process, until he was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and then everyone took care of and accompanied his mother until the last moment of his mother's life.
If we can't take care of ourselves after the age of 80, we will only be able to take care of the elderly with a lonely child, and we will not be able to take care of the elderly in any way.
So, I really hope that I can live to the age of 80 and then die in my sleep like my own big brother.
Although it is a shame that my eldest brother was only 57 years old when he left, if I lived to be 80 years old and died in my sleep, this is what I look forward to the most.
Of course, it is still unknown whether you will live to be 80 years old? I don't know which will come first, I don't know if the shoes I took off tonight, I don't know if I can put them on tomorrow morning? Live the present, live today, and let it be.
In short, I think that as long as people don't get seriously ill in this life, their children are safe and sound, and they can live to die at the age of 80, life is enough.