In feudal society, men and women are not close to each other.
As soon as Lin Daiyu entered the Rongguo Mansion, although she was only six or seven years old, as a young lady, she needed to avoid men.
But no matter how careful she is and tries to keep her distance from men, she will inevitably be taken advantage of by three men.
Do you know who they are?
1. Jia Baoyu, who took advantage of Lin Daiyu
Jia Baoyu is a boy who loves to take advantage of women.
After he followed Jia Zheng to fast and go home, he saw Lin Daiyu beside Jia's mother.
After meeting, he said in public: "I have seen this sister before." Then he gave Lin Daiyu a nickname: 颦颦. (The original text of the third chapter of "Dream of Red Mansions" wrote: "I gave my sister a wonderful word, and the word '颦颦' is wonderful. ”）
The first time a boy sees a girl, he gives him a nickname, which is a verbal advantage.
When resting at night, Jia's mother asked Baoyu to move out of the blue yarn cupboard to live because of the defense of men and women.
Jia Baoyu relied on herself to be doted on by Jia's mother and insisted on living with Lin Daiyu. Considering the cold winter, Jia Mu agreed to his request.
Asking to live in the same room with a beautiful girl as a boy is a behavioral advantage.
2. Jia Yu Village, which is cheap to Lin Daiyu
Jia Yucun, as Lin Daiyu's family teacher, has a teacher-student relationship.
Jia Yucun, who wanted to be an official, did not fulfill his duty as a teacher, but learned to take advantage of students and realize his career path.
Lin Ruhai asked Jia Yucun to send Lin Daiyu to Beijing, but he didn't agree immediately, but inquired.
In order to let Jia Yucun serve Lin Daiyu wholeheartedly, Lin Ruhai made a detailed plan for him. When the two talked, Lin Ruhai and Pantuo said:
“...... But please rest assured, the younger brother has planned so far, has revised a letter of recommendation, and entrusted the brother-in-law to the comprehensive assistance, so that he can do a little bit of the brother's contempt, that is, there is an expense, the brother has already made it clear in the brother-in-law's letter, and he does not worry too much about the brother-in-law. (Dream of Red Mansions, Part 3)
Lin Ruhai helped Jia Yucun, in the words of modern people, just to let him take advantage.
How did Jia Yucun smoothly establish a relationship with the Jia family and integrate into the system of the four major families, Lin Ruhai's letter of recommendation was a stepping stone, and Lin Daiyu's was really a good excuse.
As Lin Daiyu's teacher, in the name of his nephew, he took the road of official career under the guise of sending Lin Daiyu to Rongguo Mansion.
His actions were to take advantage of Lin Ruhai, but from the objective perspective of the implementation process: he still took advantage of Lin Daiyu.
3. Jia Zheng, who took advantage of Lin Daiyu
Jia Zheng is a hypocrisy, so he is still a secular man in his bones.
Men generally have two hobbies, one is women, and the other is money.
For Lin Daiyu, he can only take advantage of the money.
The way he took advantage was very special, and Lin Ruhai took the initiative to send it to the door.
After Lin Ruhai helped Jia Yucun to plan, he clearly said: The example of the cost has been clearly noted by the younger brother in the letter of the brother-in-law, and he does not worry about the elder brother.
Lin Ruhai, as the imperial history of the salt patrol, has the only daughter to live at her grandmother's house, and if he can prepare the money needed for Jia Yucun, who is escorted, he will naturally prepare the money for his daughter Lin Daiyu.
How much will this cost?
Jia Rong was an official, and the great eunuch Dai Quan came, and when he saw the face of his old friend, he asked for 1,200 taels of silver.
Sun Shaozu looked for Jia to pardon the official, but 5,000 taels of silver were lost, and he failed to find an official and a half-job.
Therefore, judging from Lin Ruhai's plan for Jia Yucun and Jia Rong and Sun Shaozu's official planning, Lin Ruhai will bring Lin Daiyu enough silver. And all this silver finally went to Jia Zheng's hands.
4. Lin Daiyu let three men take advantage of deep thought
Girls or women are often reluctant to let men take advantage.
Jia Baoyu took advantage of Lin Daiyu, it was an accident, and it was the most common and normal in the life of beautiful girls. There is no better way than to face it calmly and be strong inside.
Because you don't know if the consequences of this taking advantage are a little more good or a little more bad.
There are two sides to everything, and the process and the result are often different.
According to the probability, if a woman is taken advantage of by a man, it is often the woman who suffers.
But at some times, in some people, men take advantage of women, but it is possible that they are at a loss.
For Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu, this kind of loss is a kind of happiness.
Jia Yucun and Jia Zheng took advantage of Lin Daiyu, which was Lin Ruhai's careful planning.
Why did Lin Ruhai do this?
Because he is discerning in the world.
If you want to do your own thing, if you want Lin Daiyu to be safe and smooth on the way to Rongguo Mansion, and if you want your daughter to live like a daughter in Rongguo Mansion, you must let others take advantage of it.
Using "cheap" as a marionette, the bad guy Jia Yucun will do his best, and the fake and serious Jia Zheng will be truly serious.
Lin Ruhai is very smart, and Lin Daiyu is very happy.