If test-oriented education and obedient management are alienated, both teachers and parents may make subversive cognitive moves.
Recently, a class teacher of Sui County Senior High School in Henan Province took the children to swear poisonously:
There is only Xi in the classroom, if you violate this oath, you will die the whole family, first your father, and then your mother!
This cursed oath sparked dissatisfaction among the students' parents, and the voice of the oath was exposed on the Internet, provoking a torrential condemnation of the head teacher.
This class teacher lacks love and understanding for students, has rough management methods, and forces students to swear poisonous oaths that insult dignity and ethics, and should be punished, and needs to publicly apologize to students and parents.
Behind every subversive cognitive behavior, there must be a tragic reason!
When we denounce the class teacher, we ask rhetorically: What happened to the class teacher, causing him to curse his parents in his heart and forcing his students to obey in the way of cursing their parents?
As a first-year high school child, I have just experienced the devilish high school entrance examination Xi, and I am physically and mentally exhausted, and I finally entered high school, and my thinking and Xi learning momentum have been relaxed.
When children enter puberty, they will inevitably sprout, have thoughts about the opposite sex, and their concentration on learning Xi will decrease.
When questions like this arise in the class, who is the only one responsible?
The class teacher can't mention the difficulties and can't complain, and the school ignores them when they need help, and what the school needs is the class teacher who can solve the problem.
Students in the class are not disciplined, the class teacher is criticized, there are troublemakers in the class, students who fall in love, the class teacher will be punished, the class performance is dropped, the quantitative assessment is backward, and the class teacher is deducted from performance and warned.
If the class teacher does not manage the class well, it is considered "incompetent". He lost not only performance pay, but also dignity and face.
He was despised by the leaders, tortured and spoofed by the students, and criticized by the parents.
How can a heart that has lost its dignity give love to its students, how can it respect, properly educate its students, and creatively manage the class?
In order to manage the class well, in order to make the students obedient, the class teacher had to "unscrupulous means".
Class education management should not be the business of the class teacher alone, but the whole school team.
If the class teacher can get support and help, his love can be stimulated, and there will be warmth in the education and management of students.
Not only will teachers behave in unethical and subversive behaviors, but parents may also make their children desperate.
If a child plays with a mobile phone at home, some parents will insult them with unbridled words, if their children's grades drop, some parents will sarcastically ridicule them without dignity, and if their children violate discipline and disobey, some parents will punch and kick them.
A 14-year-old boy in Wuhan was called to school by his mother because he was playing poker in the classroom. She slapped the child in the face in the corridor and squeezed the child's neck and poked the child's forehead. The boy did not hesitate to jump from the fifth floor.
The essence of education is the awakening and perfection of personality and the empowerment of responsibility. Education cannot be examined, and education control is not brutal control.
Parents and teachers should respect their children's personality so that they can have a sense of security, and only when they are given responsibilities and missions will they consciously learn Xi and abide by discipline.
Challenging perceptions and insulting the dignity of education management slogans and controls not only harms students, but also insults the dignity of teachers.