When people reach middle age, they don't ask about the will of heaven and don't guess people's hearts
In the face of change, we often feel lost and uneasy. However, we should see these difficulties and separations as part of what we have to go through in life. Everyone faces setbacks and dilemmas, and this is a sure way to grow and mature.
On the road of life, we need to learn to conform to God's will and accept reality. Sometimes, we encounter something unsatisfactory, so let go of resistance. I believe that every encounter is arranged by providence, and we need to accept it and learn from Xi.
In order to better deal with life's changes, we need to cultivate a kind of inward-seeking wisdom. Don't rely too much on outside judgments and expectations, but find your own answers from the depths of your heart. Accepting everything that happens, including joys and sorrows, is the path to inner peace and growth.
The experience of life is often the result of karma and combination. Every person and everything we encounter has a specific cause and meaning. Even if something confuses us, don't be too the answer. Life is not black and white, and sometimes there is no one answer.
Relationships are complex and changeable. When dealing with others, we should not speculate too much about their thoughts and intentions. The human heart is fickle, and emotions and thoughts change with the environment and time. Instead of over-guessing what others are thinking, be sincere and kind, and establish good communication and understanding with others.
At the stage when people reach middle age, we should be more mature and thoughtful. Not asking about God's will, not guessing people's hearts, is a kind of self-confidence and inner perseverance. In the face of life's ups and downs, we need to remain calm and peaceful, trusting our choices and decisions. No matter what difficulties and changes we encounter, we can move forward firmly and walk out of our own path of growth.
In this uncertain world, we can't control everything, but we can choose how to deal with it. Not asking about the will of heaven and not guessing people's hearts is a kind of inner freedom and liberation. Let's let go of resistance, accept reality, face the ups and downs of life with a peaceful mind, and live a more fulfilling and satisfying life.