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Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

author:Wisdom, empathy, and hard work

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Xiaofeng was born in a rural family in the western region, the family has not been very wealthy, when Xiaofeng got the university admission letter, Xiaofeng's father smiled from ear to ear, but, the father knew that the child's school tuition was not enough, and finally there was no way to sell another farming cow, so he reluctantly made up enough for the child's tuition and miscellaneous fees and travel expenses, when Xiaofeng received the heavy tuition from his father, he could say that the five were mixed tastes, at this time, he had secretly made up his mind that he must study hard and Xi, and return to the family after completing his studies, so Xiaofeng boarded the train to the university。

Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

In the four years of college, Xiaofeng is also a mental Xi, classrooms, libraries, dormitories are Xiaofeng's 24-hour daily circulation road, when the students gather, he cleans in the dormitory, because the dormitory roommates know that he is difficult, so the water bill in the dormitory, In order to repay his roommates, Xiaofeng took care of the hygiene of the dormitory by himself; when others were holding hands and spending money before the moon, Xiaofeng was studying hard in the library, in short, he was working hard to achieve these two goals, one was to save money as much as possible, and the other was to succeed in his studies.

Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

The hard work paid off, Xiaofeng completed all the credits in only 3 years, and also obtained English level 6, computer science and other qualification certificates. Sometimes it is often unintentionally inserted into the willows, during Xiaofeng's three years of hard study, there was already a beautiful girl Xinyue secretly liked him, in the library, the girl took the initiative to add WeChat, etc., and also tried to hint at Xiaofeng a few times, but Xiaofeng did not react, Xinyue also wanted to give up, and said that he was really a wooden man, but whenever he saw the scene of Xiaofeng reading so seriously, handsome and chic appearance, Every time they met and talked politely to her, Xinyue couldn't wait any longer, so she confessed to Xiaofeng.

Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

Xiaofeng was unprepared in advance, Xinyue's sudden confession, feeling that love came too suddenly, was a little overwhelmed at the time, but when he came to his senses, he seemed to understand a lot, because he recalled that in the two years in the library, there was often a girl reading beside him, and even often accosted himself, but because he had no money, he didn't dare to think much at all, who knows, Xinyue is serious, when Xiaofeng saw the beautiful girl in front of him, of course, he also agreed. The next two people are together is logical. What happened next was even more unexpected, just when they were about to graduate, Xinyue suddenly told Xiaofeng that she was pregnant.

Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

Xinyue saw Xiaofeng's difficulties, so she said, my father is just a girl like me, he has already prepared a wedding house for me, and we don't want the bride price money, you just need to be good to me, but you must first go to our house to meet my parents, because I have never told my parents about this, I am afraid that they will not agree.

Now, Xiaofeng has no better way, so he has to follow Xinyue to see his uncle and aunt. Who knows, after seeing her uncle and aunt, Xinyue's mother was furious and didn't agree to this marriage at all, but she couldn't stand the soft grinding and hard bubbles between Xinyue and her parents, and finally had no choice but to agree, but her mother proposed that she had to come up with a bride price of 300,000 yuan. This is even more difficult Xiaofeng, he knows the situation at home, Xiaofeng thought, don't say 300,000, there is no 30,000. In the end, Xinyue had to tell her mother about her pregnancy, and her mother thought about it after hearing it, and the girl couldn't help it!

Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

In this way, the two of them came to their hometown in the countryside from Xinyue's house, saw their parents, explained that they were going to get married to Xinyue, and told their father about Xinyue's pregnancy, their uncles and aunts also preparing the wedding room, and their girlfriend's family not wanting a bride price. Who knows, after Xiaofeng's father heard this, Teng stood up and said: "Rural Xi, the bride price must be given."

After listening to Xiaofeng's account of Wan's trip to his girlfriend's house, Xiaofeng's father said, "We must not take advantage of people's danger, we can't stop giving people a bride price just because the girl is pregnant, and it's not people's fault that they are pregnant." Child, "Men must be responsible." You don't even give a bride price, how can you prove that you are good to others? We men must bear the responsibility that we should bear.

After speaking, Xiaofeng's father spent a few days selling the grain stored at home and two farming cows, borrowed some from relatives, and borrowed some usury from the people in the village to make up a full 300,000 yuan and hand it over to Xinyue. And told Xinyue that no money is not a reason not to give a bride price, you can take it! We can marry you, a reasonable daughter-in-law, our family burns high incense, and we must give this bride price.

Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

Xinyue took 300,000 yuan and happily returned home, and told her parents about this matter as it was, Xinyue's father was also shocked after hearing it, the rural father's simplicity, kindness and broad-mindedness, deeply moved him, I feel that my girl married the right person, can have such a father, the son is too bad. Thinking of this, I said to Xiaofeng, child, I was deeply touched by your father's kindness, but I heard that some of the 300,000 yuan is a high-interest loan, and I know how much pressure your family will have if they are burdened with this burden.

After careful consideration, in order not to let your father take on a high loan, nor let your father feel pressured, I took back the high-interest loan part of the 300,000 yuan and repaid it immediately, and then you give me an IOU, when and when to repay me. When Xiaofeng heard this, he was moved beyond words, and said excitedly to his uncle and aunt, please rest assured that I will be good to Xinyue for the rest of my life. In this way, a pair of lovers who are not in the right household at the door of the economy come together happily, but the advanced ideas of the two families are the right one.

Rural Xi, the bride price must be there, a father's voice!

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