When people are old, don't expect these three kinds of people to support their retirement, the end of their lives is a nursing home
1. The first type of person who cannot be counted on: unfilial children
When people are old, what they are most afraid of is that they have nothing to rely on, and their children and grandchildren are not filial. This kind of thing is not unique in our lives. In many families, there are such children who do not know how to be grateful, do not know how to respect the elderly, and do not know how to support the elderly.
Around us, there are some elderly people who need to rely on the help of others to take care of their daily life, and need to rely on others to meet their daily needs. But they found that their children were not willing to take on the responsibility.
Some elderly people even feel cold because of their children's behavior, and they even think: I have raised them to adulthood, but I can't count on them when they are old.
Second, the second type of people who can't be counted on: wine and meat friends
Some people, who have been through your life once, may be familiar with wine and meat. But this relationship is built on wine and meat, so there is no real emotion at all. When they need help, they don't hesitate to disappear without a trace.
Friends are life companions, and they will accompany you on your life path for a while. But there are many unpredictable changes and ups and downs on the road of life, if your friends around you always have conflicts with you because of some small things, then when you have difficulties, he will naturally not be willing to help you.
Some people may say, "It's okay, I'll help you." But at the critical moment, there was not even a shadow to be found. Some people may say, "If you have something, just say it." "But when you really need help, he doesn't show up.
3. The third type of person who can't be counted on: the short-sighted partner
Husband and wife were originally birds of the same forest, and they flew separately when disaster came. This is the best interpretation of those partners who only value immediate interests and do not know how to cherish the person in front of them. When your body is aging, when you need to take care of you, your partner only cares about himself and enjoys life, and is not willing to be by your side to take care of you.
When people are old, having a partner who knows cold and hot is an important guarantee for happiness in old age. If the people around you only value your wealth and status, will they still be there for you when you lose them?
When people are old, if they can't count on these three kinds of people to retire, then the best way is to prepare the capital for their pension in advance. For example: plan your pension, savings, insurance, etc. in advance. Alternatively, you can choose to go to a nursing home to spend your old age.
Of course, going to a nursing home isn't the only option. If you are still healthy and able to take care of yourself, then you can choose to hire a nanny to take care of your daily life, if you still have a certain ability to work, then you can also choose to take care of yourself, and if you still have a certain source of income, then you can also choose to rely on your own income to live in your old age.
In short, when people are old, they must know how to plan for themselves. Only you can decide what your fate will be in your old age. There is only one chance in life, so cherish it! Don't let yourself regret it no matter what! Because everyone's life is limited! Cherish every day now! Let yourself have something to rely on in old age!
Conclusion: It is an unavoidable fact that life will eventually come to an end. When we grow old, we need to rely on ourselves to get through our old age. Don't expect others to take care of us, because these three kinds of people can't be counted on! Only ourselves are the most reliable! So we should cherish every day! Let ourselves have something to rely on in old age! Let life be more exciting! Let's welcome every beautiful moment in life together!
Everyone will grow old, I hope the above suggestions can bring some inspiration and help to everyone! Let's cheer for our future together!