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I am a popular girl in the company, smart, beautiful, cheerful, and always bring joy and positive energy to my colleagues. I had a suitor, he was a tall and handsome young man, very good at being a man, and he piqued my interest. In a company team building activity, we had a lot of contact, he confessed to me, I was very happy, so I agreed to associate with him. After that, he was very considerate to me, which made me like him even more.
One time when we were alone, he said to me, "Baby, I actually have a confession to you that my family is not doing very well, so I hope we can have a stable relationship." I looked at him and nodded slightly, "Well, I understand, I'll support you." He looked at me, picked me up, and we kissed.
Later, our relationship became closer and closer, and I began to get to know his family, and his parents were very fond of me and very nice to me. I feel really blessed to have such a gentle and considerate boyfriend and kind future parents-in-law.
However, things changed when I learned about the pregnancy, and his attitude slowly changed, and he became distant, no longer the same as he used to be to me. I asked him what was wrong, and he said, "Let's get rid of the baby first, and then wait for it to be stable and regenerate." I was surprised, and I asked him, "Why?" He hesitated and said, "I don't even have the money to buy you a bride price now, how can we afford to raise a child?" I was stunned because we had always loved each other, but I didn't expect him to change his attitude towards me because of this.
I was angry, my heart was hurt, I felt that he had changed, and I said coldly, "Do you really think so?" He lowered his head and did not speak. I was really uncomfortable, he wasn't the person I used to know, and I felt like I was being calculated.
Our parents also knew about it, and his family's attitude was that the bride price had changed from 180,000 to 0, and my family's attitude was to hold him responsible. We thought about having a good discussion, but when I learned the truth, I decided to give up. Because I found that the person I had always thought he did not exist, he was just a gentle and considerate person on the surface, but in fact he was just a calculating person.
This relationship taught me a very deep lesson, I learned to see a person clearly and not be blinded by appearances. There's still a long way to go, and I'll learn from the failures of this relationship and live better.
I decided to leave him after a showdown with him. I moved out of the apartment I lived with him and found a small apartment on my own. I don't want to be hurt by him anymore, I need to get my life back up. During the time I moved, I went back to work and started my own life.
One day, I was working late at the company and was about to go home from work, when my colleague Xiao Li called me: "Hey, are you still in the company? I heard that there is a super delicious supper stall near my house, do you want to try it?" I thought about it and agreed.
When we arrived at the supper stall, Xiao Li recommended his favorite signature dish, and we chatted about work and life while eating. At this time, I realized that in addition to being very dedicated to their work, my colleagues in the company actually know how to live very well. We had a great chat and forgot all our worries. After leaving the supper stall, I felt as if I had found some of my old self.
Next, I began to devote myself to my work and life, and in the eyes of others, I was getting better and better, and I started to go out again to participate in some social activities and meet a lot of new friends on social platforms. I found that my world was not just him, but full of possibilities.
"You seem to be in a much better mood lately. My friend Xiaoling said to me. I smiled and said, "yes, it's probably been a good time." "We talked a lot together, and I told her what was on my mind. Xiaoling comforted me and said: "Life is inherently full of ups and downs, but as long as you are willing to be strong, you will always come out of the haze." I nodded, grateful for her comfort to me.
Time flies, and one day, two years later, I attended the company's annual meeting with my colleagues. At the annual meeting, my colleagues looked at me and asked, "Is there a suitable partner lately?" and I smiled and shook my head, "No, but I'm not in a hurry." ”
"Do you still believe in love?" asked me.
I was silent for a moment, then said slowly, "After going through that relationship, I did lose faith in love for a while. But then I realized that life shouldn't stop the pursuit of happiness just because of a failed relationship. The matter of feelings is not smooth sailing. I will believe in love, I just hope that the next love will cherish me more and understand me better. After listening to my words, my colleagues nodded silently.
I think that life is always about changing and growing, and the same is true of love. Maybe in that relationship, I was calculated to be pregnant, and the bride price changed from 180,000 to 0, and I wanted to compromise, but I gave up decisively after discovering the truth. But after all this, I have become more aware of how to cherish myself and how to love. I am no longer afraid of failure, and I will always believe that happiness will be waiting for me at some corner of me.
Maybe in that relationship, I was calculated to be pregnant, and the bride price changed from 180,000 to 0, and I wanted to compromise, but I gave up decisively after discovering the truth. But after all this, I have become more aware of how to cherish myself and how to love. I am no longer afraid of failure, and I will always believe that happiness will be waiting for me at some corner of me.
For love, I gradually learned not to pin all my hopes on another person, not to always expect the other person to give me all my happiness. I have to learn to fight for myself, to strive for my own happiness, to make myself a better person, so that I can better embrace happiness.
Time flies quickly, and I attended the company's annual meeting with my colleagues. At the annual meeting, my colleagues looked at me and asked, "Is there a suitable partner lately?" and I smiled and shook my head, "No, but I'm not in a hurry." ”
"Do you still believe in love?" asked me.
"Of course, but I have a new perspective on love. I think love should not be one person attached to another, but two people growing together and supporting each other. I now believe that while I am working on my own, there will be a suitable person in my life. ”
The new year has begun, and I am still full of anticipation for the future. I slowly let go of the shadows of the past and rededicated myself to my work and life. During this time, I have continued to grow and understand a lot of things. Maybe life is like this, in the midst of complexity, we need to be independent and strong, not to be swayed by everything in the outside world. I have learned to appreciate the people and things around me more and to be grateful for what I have.
Love may be just a part of life, but not the whole thing. I will find the happiness that truly belongs to me in my own wind and waves. Just like when I was eating at a night stall with Xiao Li that day, I suddenly understood that happiness lies in knowing how to enjoy life, know how to love, and know how to be loved. This is my new understanding of life and love, and it is also my new expectation for the future.
I've lived a more fulfilling life, my work has become more enjoyable, and I've made a lot of like-minded friends. And in the process, I also understood a truth, that is, love should not be the whole of life, but a part of life.
Once, during an outdoor activity, I met a kind-hearted and mature boy. We had a very speculative conversation and he was very attentive to me. Together, we enjoy the beauty of outdoor nature and sigh at the beauty of everything in the world. "You are a pleasant person and I enjoy being with you. He looked at me and said.
I smiled and thought to myself, maybe this was what I was looking for, a warm relationship. I said with emotion: "Yes, life is always full of accidents and surprises, and I am glad that we can meet at this event." He shook my hand, smiled and said, "I hope we can keep this calm and happy all the time." ”
This experience was not love, but I learned to relax and feel the beauty of life. I have come to understand that love should not be the whole of life, but a part of a good life. Perhaps true happiness is to be found in the ordinary.
I also began to understand that no matter from my past experiences or future choices, I am willing to be a more mature person and cherish everything in front of me. I will face my feelings with a normal heart and believe that the future is truly my happiness. Maybe I will go through the ups and downs again, but I have faith because I have also learned to appreciate the little things in life.
Now I have a new life and a new look. I truly believe that as long as I try to embrace happiness, happiness will embrace me tightly. Just like the dark moment when I was calculated to be pregnant, the bride price changed from 180,000 to 0, I wanted to compromise, but I gave up decisively after discovering the truth, I finally came out and strengthened my attitude towards life.
Life is actually like a journey, the scenery is on the road, and life is even more so. I am no longer obsessed with love, but enjoy every day with a normal heart, waiting for the happiness that belongs to me. I will make my life better in my own pursuit, and let love meet the best me at the right time. That's what I'm looking forward to in the future, and it's also how my attitude towards life has changed.
My life became abundant and fulfilling, and I began to enjoy the peace and independence of solitude. When my friends asked me if I had met someone I liked, I smiled faintly, "Well, I'm enjoying my current state." ”
One day, I was shopping at the supermarket with my friend Xiaoli, and on the way I met a couple who were shopping for fruit. The boy gently picked the fruit, while the girl kept looking at him with a smile. We were observing and discussing, and Xiaoli suddenly asked me, "Have you ever longed for this kind of couple?" I thought about it, then smiled and said, "I have, but I think I'm pretty good now." ”
"Well, no matter what kind of person we meet, our own mindset is important. Xiaoli nodded. We continued to visit the supermarket, bought a whole bunch of ingredients, and prepared to go home and make dinner together.
Along the way, we had a great chat. Xiaoli suddenly handed me a bag of fruit: "This is for you, you pick." "I opened it and it was filled with all sorts of my favorite fruits. I looked at her in amazement: "Thank you! She smiled and said, "Because we are good friends, we know you as we should." ”
Back at home, we cleaned and cooked together. The whole room was filled with the aroma of food, and Xiaoli and I enjoyed such a relaxing and pleasant time, and we toasted to each other: "I am fortunate to have a close friend, and I am fortunate that we are always warm." We raised our glasses and drank them, feeling the camaraderie of each other.
Although I have been hurt on the road of my relationship, I will not stop looking forward to the future. If love really comes, I will treat it with my heart, and if not, I will also find my own happiness in ordinary days. Because I have learned that happiness is not only about love, but also about oneself. My life will be better because of what I do. I face the future life with a normal heart, where there will be happiness that belongs to me.
I embarked on a new journey, and in the process, I discovered a lot of new fun and made more like-minded friends. I started hanging out with my friends a lot and participating in all kinds of fun activities with my friends. I became an active member of my social circle and I enjoyed every outing and getting together.
One day, my good friend Xiaoyu said to me, "You seem so happy lately, do you have a new goal or found a new hobby?" I smiled and nodded, "Yes, I think life is colorful, I want to try more things, no longer worry about myself." My life is full and happy now, and I'm really satisfied. ”
"You can see it. Xiaoyu said with relief, "Everyone has their own way of life, and happiness should be different from person to person." ”
"yes, I think I'm in good shape. I said with deep feeling.
During this time, I also worked harder in my career and actively improved my professional skills. I also started to travel on my own, exploring different places and attractions. I find that in the process, my mood becomes more open and brighter.
After returning from a short trip, I sat in the café with Xiaoyu, I smiled and shared with her what I had seen from the trip, she listened carefully and caringly, and suddenly said, "Do you think your current state has changed a lot from before?"
"Yes, there's actually a big change. I thought about it, "I don't think a lot of things are really that important. In the past, I was always worried about some things and struggled, but now I am more calm and more willing to enjoy the little things in life. ”
"That's right. Xiaoyu nodded, "Life is actually constantly changing and growing, you know how to enjoy one aspect of life, and you will definitely meet more beautiful things and people." Her words touched me a lot.
I slowly understood that happiness is not a specific person or thing, but a state of mind and state. I will continue to enjoy every life I have lived to the fullest, and I believe that the future is destined to give me better happiness. Life is not about the trivial things in the outside world, but about whether I am willing to let go of my baggage, face and embrace it bravely. This is my attitude of looking forward to the future, and it is also a new harvest in my current life.