In 2008, Ma Yuan's body had some abnormal conditions, and after going to the hospital for an examination, he got an unacceptable fact that he had a tumor in his lung and he had cancer.
After the examination, Ma Yuan did a series of unbelievable behaviors, he did not choose to listen to the doctor's words for good treatment, but first resigned, then sold his house, and then took his wife to Yunnan, and the family began a secluded life in the mountains.
Why is Ma Yuan unwilling to cooperate with the doctor's treatment? How did his family agree to his decision to go to the mountains to live, and now that so many years have passed, is Ma Yuan and his family living well? Let's take a look at his experience.
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Diagnosed with cancer
One day in 2008, Ma Yuan suddenly found that he had a lot of rashes on his body, mainly on his chest and back, which looked densely packed and accompanied by bursts of tingling pain.
In addition to the uncomfortable place of the rash, he also felt dizzy and weak from time to time, and soon his body became incapacitated, but Ma Yuan didn't take it too seriously, thinking that it was just some minor problems, and he didn't check his body, so he went to the clinic to prescribe some medicine.
After taking the prescribed medicine for a few days, Ma Yuan's body did not improve, but became more and more painful, and at the suggestion of his wife Li Xiaohua, the two went to the hospital for examination.
The results of the examination were tantamount to thunder for these two people, Ma Yuan suffered from lung cancer, all this came too suddenly, he had just married Li Xiaohua not long ago, and it was a sweet time, but he was diagnosed with terrible cancer, which made him feel a little helpless.
Although he was worried about his physical condition, Ma Yuan did not choose to receive chemotherapy and other treatments in the hospital, because he knew that when the cancer was terminal, he was tormented by the disease and the pain of treatment.
The lung puncture done during the examination alone made him feel unacceptable, let alone the series of treatments that followed, if there was really not much time left, he wanted to spend it better than stay in the ward.
Ma Yuan ignored the dissuasion of relatives and friends, resolutely gave up treatment in the hospital, he made a plan for his life, if the tumor continues to worsen, then he should have three years left, he should cherish the next day, cherish the days with Li Xiaohua.
Li Xiaohua originally wanted Ma Yuan to be well treated, but Ma Yuan insisted on leaving the hospital, and she could only respect his decision.
Ma Yuan and Li Xiaohua both like the sea, although Shanghai can also see the sea, but Ma Yuan prefers to change the environment to enjoy the slow life, so the couple left Shanghai and went to Hainan.
The two rented a house in Haikou, and during this period, Ma Yuan also stopped writing and began to concentrate on enjoying life, and he stopped smoking and drinking, and chose a healthy lifestyle.
A large reason why Ma Yuan gave up treatment and chose to accept his last days while enjoying life was that he was originally a "willful" person.
"Avant-garde writers"
Ma Yuan, like Yu Hua, is a representative of "avant-garde literature", and as one of the pioneers of this genre, Ma Yuan's writing style has influenced many later generations.
Born in 1953, Ma Yuan didn't publish his work until 1982, and before that he had done a lot of work, both hard work and technical work.
In 1982, Ma Yuan published his first novel, he chose to send it to "Northern Literature", as an unknown writer, Ma Yuan is very confident in his work, at the end of the novel, Ma Yuan said that his work will not be changed, if it can't pass, forget it.
Ma Yuan is such a "willful" person, and it is for this reason that his novel was released without any revisions.
Since then, Ma Yuan's reputation has increased again and again, and many classic works have been published, and in addition to his career, Ma Yuan has also gained love.
Pippi met Ma Yuan when he was in college, when Ma Yuan graduated and was assigned to Tibet, and Pi Pi firmly followed after graduation, and the two had children after that.
However, in 1991, there was a crisis in the relationship between the two, Ma Yuan had no inspiration, could not write novels and had no job, Pippi chose to leave Ma Yuan, and married their son to Germany, Ma Yuan became alone.
In 2007, Ma Yuan met athlete Li Xiaohua in Hainan, the two talked very happily, once again ignited Ma Yuan's restless heart, although the age difference between the two is not small, but Ma Yuan still bravely expressed his intentions, and Li Xiaohua also fell in love with Ma Yuan, and the two came together naturally.
The two met in Hainan, so after Ma Yuan was diagnosed with lung cancer, they returned to Hainan.
The cancer cells disappear
When he left the hospital, Ma Yuan was optimistic that he should have three more years, so he made a three-year plan, in fact, in addition to this, he also had a thirty-year plan, if he survived three years, then he would start his own thirty-year plan.
After living in Haikou, Ma Yuan's previous physical discomfort has been relieved a lot, and it has improved, which made them very surprised, after Ma Yuan's condition improved, he also had a child again, and Li Xiaohua gave birth to Ma Ge for him.
With a child and his physical condition improving, Ma Yuan's life is very comfortable, his inspiration comes again, and he publishes his works again after more than ten years of hiding.
In 2012, Ma Yuan came to Xishuangbanna with his wife and children, Ma Yuan's three-year plan for himself has passed, they all fell in love with the environment here after traveling in Xishuangbanna, and decided to settle here, for which Ma Yuan quit his job, sold his house, and concentrated on living in Xishuangbanna.
Ma Yuan was very confident that he had defeated the "incurable" cancer, but he never thought that because of this confidence, he would harm his baby son Mag.
When Mag was 13 years old, he had grown to a height of 185, but he was diagnosed with congenital heart disease, and the doctor suggested that he should not exercise more, and it was best to go to the hospital to recuperate, but Ma Yuan did not take it to heart, after all, lung cancer could not help him.
Ma Yuan insisted that his family live in the contract of Xishuangbanna, and also took his son to ride a mountain bike, and on June 1, 2022, Ma Ge had a heart attack and left Ma Yuan and Li Xiaohua.
After Mag left, Ma Yuan realized how important it was to seek medical attention in a timely manner, and he regretted it but it was too late, and his youngest son had left him forever.
The "Great Law of Self-Healing" is not applicable to everyone, everyone's situation is different, and if you have physical problems, you still need to seek medical attention in time.
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Resources:
""He's Counting His Life" The famous writer's 13-year-old son died suddenly, and he refused to let his son have heart surgery, and netizens quarreled", Huanqiu.com, 2023-03-24
"Ma Yuan: Good Ending, Everything is Fine", China Youth Daily, 2020-04-27
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