Everyone thinks that empty nesters are very sad.
But it is also not easy for children who work in the city, they have to work hard every day when they wake up, and they dare not stop for a moment.
The reason why the elderly are left in the countryside must also be forced and distressed, such as housing problems and concept problems, and there are also elderly people who are unwilling to come to the city to live, and young people do not have the time and energy to go back to the countryside to take care of their parents, which leads to the emergence of empty nesters.
In the Chinese tradition, there has always been a tradition of raising children to prevent old age, and some elderly people raise their children for the purpose of providing for the elderly, not out of nature, human nature, or otherwise, which is wrong from the starting point.
Traditionally, this is because in the past, the elderly and their adult children lived in a short distance and it was easy to take care of them, but now that urbanization is growing, many children live in the city, and the elderly should not rely on their children entirely.
If they are really sick and their children want to take care of themselves, they will also be sympathetic to their children and follow their children to live in the city.
Children who can be sympathetic to the elderly will also think about the elderly as much as possible, not only consider their own ideas, but also think about problems from the perspective of their parents and solve the problems that the elderly do not want to live with.
