Hello everyone, I am your self-media writer. Today I would like to share with you a story of my own personal experience, which made me deeply feel the difficulty of getting married for boys nowadays.
Some time ago, my nephew reached marriageable age, but he never found a suitable partner. His parents were very anxious and approached me, hoping that I could help introduce some suitable girls. I agreed to their request and started a series of blind date activities.
The first blind date was a girl who worked in a large company, she was smart, independent, and had her own career and pursuits. However, when my nephew met with her, she expressed dissatisfaction with her nephew's work and income. She said she wanted to find someone who could provide her with a better life. This result devastated my nephew, who felt that his efforts were not being respected as they should be.
The second blind date is a girl who teaches at a university, she is gentle, kind, and has a crush on her nephew. However, when she learned about her nephew's income and job, she also expressed concern. She said she wanted to find someone who would provide her with a stable life. This result made my nephew even more depressed, and he felt that he was undervalued.
The third blind date is a girl who works in a TV station, she is lively, cheerful, and has a certain affection for her nephew. However, when she learned about her nephew's income and work, she also expressed doubts. She said she wanted to find someone who could provide her with a better life. This result made my nephew completely hopeless, and he felt that his efforts were completely meaningless.
Through these three blind dates, I deeply felt the difficulty of getting married by boys now. They must not only have a stable job and income, but also have a sufficient material foundation to be recognized by girls. This struck me as very unfair, because I believe that a person's worth should not be determined solely by his work and income.
What I want to say is that it is difficult for boys to get married nowadays, not because they are not good enough, but because they are bound by the pressure and expectations of society. They are forced to pursue higher jobs and incomes to meet the material needs of their girls. However, such pursuits often lead them to lose sight of their own inner needs and true happiness.
I hope that our society will treat boys more fairly, and not only value their work and income at the expense of their personality and value. I hope that our boys will be brave enough to pursue their own happiness and not be bound by the pressures and expectations of society.
Finally, I want to tell you that if you are also a boy who is looking for love, don't give up your pursuit because of society's expectations. Your value lies not only in your work and income, but also in your personality and qualities. As long as you stick to your pursuit, you will definitely find your own happiness.
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In this era of challenges and opportunities, each of us is looking for our own positioning and value. Whether you are a boy or a girl, whether you are single or married, I hope that you will be brave enough to pursue your own happiness and not be bound by the expectations of society. Remember, your value is not in your work and income, but in your personality and qualities. As long as you stick to your pursuit, you will definitely find your own happiness.