In our daily lives, we often encounter a variety of situations that require interaction and communication with others. Whether it's with family, friends, colleagues, or strangers, one of the most important ways to interact is to speak and express your thoughts and feelings. However, many people are often too polite when expressing themselves, afraid to speak out, for fear of offending others. However, there is a sentence that tells us: You must not be polite! This sentence is too incisive to be savored.
First of all, don't be too polite in order to maintain authentic communication. When we are too polite, we tend to cover up our true thoughts and emotions, creating a hypocritical communication. This kind of hypocritical communication is not only difficult to build a real relationship, but also exhausting and frustrating. If we dare to speak up and express our true feelings, we will not only be able to understand each other better, but also build more authentic friendships and partnerships.
Second, don't be too polite in order to protect your own rights and interests. Many times, excessive politeness can make people feel ignored or taken advantage of. If we don't dare to speak up about our needs and expectations, it's easy for others to ignore or fail to meet our own needs. Therefore, if you want to protect your rights and interests, you need to dare to speak out and stick to your own position.
Finally, not being too polite is to promote good communication and problem solving. When we are afraid to speak our minds and opinions, it is difficult to solve problems and reach consensus. And when we dare to speak up and express our own opinions, we can better discuss and negotiate with others and find solutions to problems.
In short, don't be too polite in order to maintain authentic communication, protect your own rights and interests, and promote good communication and problem solving. When it comes to dealing and communicating with others, we should be bold and stand our ground, and not worry too much about offending others. Only then can we build real relationships and achieve our goals. So, don't be polite! This sentence is too incisive and worth savoring.