Xiaoping and I made an appointment to go on a trip together, and it was the first time we went out together. In the beginning, everything went smoothly and we were all happy.
I know these actions shouldn't be, but it all happened naturally.
On the third day of the trip, we had a tricky question about the hotel. I wanted to book a budget hotel and she wanted to stay in a luxury hotel.
In the end, we had to find a mid-range hotel, although it didn't solve the problem, but in the process of searching, I suddenly found that I cared a little about Xiaoping's feelings, and no longer just insisted on my own ideas.
On the fourth day, we went to a very famous mountain. The view from the mountain is beautiful, but the road up the mountain is steep.
We slowly climbed up all the way, and gradually found the previous tacit understanding, and no longer cared about the previous contradictions.
As we stood at the top of the hill and looked down at the view below, she couldn't help but say, "Thank you, if it weren't for you, I might not really be able to go up."
I know that the ambiguity between men and women sometimes starts from these little things, and it has already crossed the line once.
We stayed at the top of the hill for a long time, enjoying the beautiful view, and we didn't talk to each other about the previous quarrels.
Xiaoping hurriedly helped me up and asked about my injuries, and her attitude was very concerned. I put my arm on her shoulders and slowly descended the hill, and at this point I really felt her care and concern for me.
I felt warm in my heart, and I felt an indescribable gratitude.
In the days that followed, we gradually became more intimate, and there was an indescribable tacit understanding and tacit understanding. However, life is always full of accidents, and the last day of the trip was cancelled due to weather conditions.
I didn't listen to her advice and insisted on trying. This time, our argument was particularly intense, and she said some nasty things during the argument.
When we got home, we had less and less contact with each other, and we didn't even have contact for days.
Eventually, I decided to talk to her. When I came to her house, I noticed that she had a very bad face and looked tired.
I was stunned, I didn't expect her to make such a decision. I tried to persuade her and ask her what was really going on, but she just shook her head and didn't say anything more.
The ambiguity between us may have long crossed the line.
After arriving at the top of the mountain, we found a small shop together and had a simple lunch, and the atmosphere gradually became a little tense.
They quarreled over a trivial matter, and both of them were stubborn and refused to bow their heads. Listening to her, I suddenly remembered my own family problems, my parents often disagreed, and there were many conflicts in the family.
On the way down the mountain, we had another argument. This time, it's because we have a different attitude towards the family.
We got into an argument and exchanged heated words. I thought about my family conflicts, and it was difficult to calm down, which exacerbated the conflicts between us.
As the argument escalated, we started to get a little chilly and sulked separately. The town down the hill is beautiful, but we don't have the ease we used to have.
I thought about my contradictions, and the more I thought about it, the more unfair I felt.
In the evening, neither of us brought up the argument again, but the atmosphere did not ease either. We walked around the town together and saw an elderly couple setting up a stall in front of the door, selling trinkets made by themselves.
Xiaoping looked at them and said with some emotion: "They look so happy, I hope I can also go shopping hand in hand with my father and mother in the future."
We bought some trinkets and talked with the old couple for a while, and I suddenly realized that maybe the quarrels and conflicts were only temporary, and the disputes between family members should not be estranged.
But isn't everything that can be solved with gentleness?