After a woman gets married
The most talked about topic is children
When there are no children, there will be elders urging
With a child, another problem arises
Do you want a second child?
Let's take a look at the answers of Bao Ma netizens:
A Shandong mother said: "In this world, the best gift parents can give their children is not to leave a large amount of property, but to siblings, maybe this is the best and warmest reason to have a second child."
She thinks that the reason for having a second child: the best gift for a child is not how much wealth you have, but how many siblings you have!
A Sichuan mother said: "I gave birth to a second child, because I have a good father-in-law and a child and his father, I haven't heard a word of birth for four years of marriage, I haven't cooked once, except for getting up early to go to relatives, prenatal checkups, I haven't gotten up before 11 o'clock in the morning, what do I want to eat, as long as I say it, I will definitely see it at the dinner table, I think, if everyone meets this kind of family, there is no fear of marriage or childbearing."
This mother gave birth to a second child because she married into a good family, and her life was supported by someone, and she was very happy! No one gave birth, the family atmosphere was good, and she was not afraid of marriage or childbearing!
A Henan mother said: "Having a second child is not because you have money and time, nor does it have to be a boy or girl, but because you want to leave a relative for your child in this era full of competition and indifference."
The mother said that in this era of competition and indifference, she should leave a close relative for her child!
A Zhejiang mother said: "I gave birth to a second child because I love my baby too much, so I want to leave her a relative to grow up with her." After all, we parents will go to her first, and we can't accompany her for a lifetime."
Parents can't accompany their children for a lifetime, they will go first, leaving a relative to grow up with their children!
A Jiangsu netizen said: "I ran around without help because my mother was sick, and I will have a second child if I overturn the stubbornness of the only child, and I don't regret it!"
She said that because she is an only child and has no one to help her, she understands that once something happens at home, it is not easy for a child. So I must have a second child!
A Chongqing mother said: "The second child is very good to think about at present, it is very easy to afford it at present, don't worry about having no money to support them, the husband is not a hands-off shopkeeper, and the in-laws will also help, every time the daughter plays with her friend's sister and sister, she doesn't want to leave, I feel that she is quite lonely, give birth to a second treasure as a companion, and the daughter also wants a younger brother or sister"
This mother's economic conditions are good, and there are people in the family to help her, so she feels that her daughter is too lonely, so she wants a second child!
A Guangdong mother said: "I have three children, I think the second child has brought a lot of happiness to my life, the eldest and the second child can play together, grow up together, have a companion, although they can fight, but they are also happy!
This mother is the third child, and she feels that the children in the family are very happy!
The mother said: "I gave birth to a second child so that I will never have children in the future, I don't care what the gender of the child is, I only give birth to two children, educate well, raise well"
What she meant should have been that she had a second child to complete the task, and she only had two children!
The mother said: "I gave birth to a second child, because if I don't give birth, relatives and friends will gossip, and urge the old people in your family are also willing to have two children, in order to shut them up, I took the initiative to have a second child, I think when I got married, I was urged by them to urge and urge this time to have a child, I will take the initiative"
She was worried about other people's gossip, waiting for the elders to urge, she felt that it was better to have a second child to shut them up.
The mother said: "I gave birth to two treasures because I love children, I am more afraid of loneliness, if one of the two children leaves me for studies or career and goes outside to develop, there is one by my side who can accompany me"
Having a second child is because I love children, and I am afraid of loneliness
A Xinjiang mother said: "A second child is necessary, not every small family has the strength to take care of four elderly people, if both husbands and wives are only children, the elderly will find that they are not three heads and six arms, or need a brother and sister to help." It's not about loneliness, it's reality. ”
She said that a family can't take care of 4 elderly people, and she doesn't have three heads and six arms, so it's better to have brothers and sisters!
The Guangxi mother said: "I gave birth to the second child, but I don't regret it, because I feel that the second child is more prosperous and the family is prosperous, and the life is getting better and better, the Taiwanese say, the child brings wealth, but the decision of whether to give birth is up to me, and I don't like outsiders to say this and that."
After giving birth to a second child, life is getting better and better, and I don't regret it at all
The Chongqing mother said: "Although having a second child has lowered my quality of life, it has brought us more songs and laughter in the family." Having a second child may regret it for a while, but not having a second child may regret it for a lifetime!"
She said that she had a second child that brought a lot of joy to the family, and she may regret it for a while if she gave birth, and she may regret it for a lifetime if she doesn't give birth!
I found that some people don't have a second child and say that it is for the sake of the child.
Some people have a second child, and they also say that it is for the sake of the child!
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