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I've found that most people live according to Xi. This is not a new discovery, after all, each of us has our own Xi and rules.
But when you look deeply at yourself and the people around you, you will find that these Xi and laws have deeply affected our lives.
For example, what's the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?
Many people pick up their phones and swipe through social media or news for a while. This Xi may seem harmless, but it can make your schedule more crowded and make it difficult to focus on more important things. I have a friend who spends a lot of time on social media every morning after waking up, and as a result, he always feels like he doesn't have enough time and rarely gets his plans done.
Another example is that many people will stick to the gym on weekdays, but on weekends they will relax and no longer adhere to this Xi. This behavior may seem common, but it shows a problem: it is difficult for us to stick to our Xi habits, even though these Xi habits are very important to our body and health.
Why do we live according to Xi?
Probably because Xi gives us a sense of security and stability. When we follow established rules, we feel like we're in control of something. However, this sense of security and stability can easily make us lazy and unthinking.
I've had the experience of relaxing every night watching TV shows. This Xi made me feel comfortable, but it also made me miss out on a lot of meaningful activities and opportunities.
Later, I gradually changed this Xi and began to actively look for more meaningful things to fill my life. While doing so can sometimes make me feel uneasy and uncomfortable, it also opens up more possibilities and opportunities.
So. How should we break this Xi state of living?
One way to do this is to be aware of your Xi and deliberately try to change them. This is not an easy task and requires us to have enough perseverance and patience. We can start with small things, like trying not to look at our phones in the morning or continuing our fitness Xi on the weekends.
As you gradually change your Xi, you will find yourself becoming more confident and motivated.
Alternatively, you can seek help and support from others. If you find it difficult to stick to your Xi, then you can find some like-minded friends to act with. Not only will this make it easier for you to stick to your Xi, but it will also allow you to learn more from others.
Overall, Xi are a part of people's lives, and they are able to make a person feel comfortable and stable.
However, we should always keep an open mind, try new things, and constantly challenge ourselves to make life more colorful. Everyone in life has their own stories and experiences, and by constantly thinking and summing up, we can experience more fun and growth.
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