Post-85 men blind date second-married women: sad evening?
Recently, a news about a post-85 man on a blind date with a second-married woman has attracted widespread attention. In the news, the man was introduced by a matchmaker and went on a blind date with a divorced woman with a child. At dinner, the woman's child showed an impressed craving for food. The scene was captured and shared on social media, sparking heated discussions among netizens.
First of all, for this man chose to marry a second time
The reason for the blind date, I think we should be understanding and respectful. Everyone has their own choices and circumstances, especially in the marriage market, where choices are often conditioned by a variety of practical factors. Family background, age, social pressures, etc. may all be factors that influence decision-making. This post-85s man, despite his poor family background, still bravely took the step of finding his other half, which deserves our recognition.
Secondly, about the child wolf
The scene of swallowing tigers, many netizens foresaw the "sad evening scene". This view is clearly overly pessimistic. A child's behavior is not a direct reflection of the future of the family. In fact, children are in the stage of development, and their behavior is largely governed by their physical needs and family parenting style. Moreover, it is difficult to predict the future of a family with a simple act of dining.
However, it is undeniable that regrouping families does come with a set of challenges. with the beginning
Compared with married families, restructured families are often more complex and involve more emotional and interest entanglements. But it also means that with sincerity and patience on both sides, a happy new family can be built.
Faced with such a situation, I think we should give more
Support and encourage, rather than prejudging or presupposing a pessimistic outcome. Whether it is for this post-85 man or for that child, we should have a kind eye and believe that they have the ability to overcome the difficulties in life and create their own happiness.
To conclude this review, I would like to emphasize that everyone has the right to pursue their own happiness, whether in marriage or otherwise. We should not cast a skeptical or negative eye on them because of some temporary difficulties or challenges. Instead, we should believe in human resilience and adaptability, and believe that it is possible for everyone to find their own happiness through hard work and choice.