Hello everyone, I am 52-year-old Aunt Xiao, who usually works in a supermarket. I've lived a thrifty life all my life, mainly because I don't have money. As we get older, it is inevitable that we will have some life insights, and I have found that we poor people have some bad Xi, which causes us to become poorer and poorer, and I hope that we can slowly change in the future.
Ancestors used to say, "Xi becomes nature." That's true. Especially in those people who have a tight life, you can always find some specific Xi Xi habits, which seem to be the imprint of their lives and are difficult to erase.
These Xi habits may be caused by the stresses of life and environmental constraints, but they do affect the quality of life and future development of the individual. Therefore, today we will talk about what bad Xi habits people will have when they are used to being poor. If you find yourself having these Xi, don't worry, it's not a shame or a scary thing.
1. Excessive frugality: For those who have been on the poverty line for a long time, thrifting is a way of life and even a necessary skill for survival. However, excessive frugality can sometimes become a bad Xi, making people seem too critical in all aspects of life. Xiao Zhang is a typical example. He was never willing to spend money for himself, his clothes were always a few pieces, and he ate the cheapest meals. Even in social situations, he is always the one who never takes the initiative to pay. Over time, his friends knew about his "Xi" and stopped socializing with him too much. In this way, his life seems to have become an island, isolated from the world.
2. Too much worry: The days of poverty make people always worry about how to live tomorrow's day, and over time, this worry becomes a Xi, or even a way of life. Xiao Li is such a person. He is always worried about his family, career, health and other problems, and he is worried about his life every day. This emotion not only affected his quality of life, but also took a big toll on his physical and mental health.
3. Narrow vision: Due to economic constraints, many people may not have the opportunity to see the wider world since childhood. As a result, their way of thinking and the perspective of looking at problems are relatively narrow. Friend Xiao Wang is such a person. He grew up in a small mountain village and knew very little about the outside world. When he grew up, although he had more opportunities to see, he had become Xi to that narrow way of thinking, which was difficult to change. This has caused him to encounter a lot of difficulties and setbacks in both work and life.
I am in my 50s this year, and I realized that people are used to being poor, and they all have these bad Xi habits, and I have all these Xi habits. Friends, do you have these bad Xi?
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