1. They know how to be modest and restrained, take humility as an elegant gesture, and low-key as the art of life. Just as the container can only be filled with the essence of the outside world when it is lowered, they know that being humble and unassuming is a sign of wisdom and courage.
They know that life is not about who has the loudest voice to win, but who can be a silent winner.
Life is not a loud competition, and whoever has the loudest voice wins the gold medal. Instead, they chose to be the silent winners,
The next time you meet someone who is low-key and unhurried, don't underestimate their silence. Remember, their quietness is not that there is no story, but that the story is too rich, and they just chose to win this game of life in silence in the most simple and powerful way.
2. They are calm and do not panic or worry about things. A wise person can always control his emotions and not let anger get carried away, but think calmly and find the best way to solve the problem.
A real master has no temper.
They are never angry when faced with problems, but remain graceful like a gentleman or a lady. They believe that if they embrace every challenge with a calm mind, victory will always jump into their arms in the end.
They are calm, unhurried and unfazed, just like the old man who can still smile and hold an umbrella in the wind and rain, steady and calm.
Wise men always control their emotions, they seem to have a little regulator inside, no matter how noisy the outside world is, they don't let anger or panic control them.
Being angry is like grabbing hot coals, and it is always yourself who burns in the end.
Only when you calm down can you see farther and think deeper.
3. They know how to screen and value connections. Understanding the importance of interpersonal relationships, they make friends carefully but carefully select those who can promote each other and make progress together.
They understand that life is too precious to be wasted on those who can only eat melons!
The fewer friends, the better the day. One or two true friends are enough.
One true friend is better than a hundred general friends.
4. They are hidden wise men who do not publicize their wisdom and achievements. Knowing full well that excessive ostentation will only bring trouble and unnecessary attention, they choose to be obscure, but in fact it is unfathomable.
Their wisdom is like a buried treasure that is never easily revealed. They know that the most shining thing is not gold, but inner peace and depth. The real master is always the "low-key luxury" version hidden in the crowd!
For them, excessive ostentation is just the impetuosity of the world, and they would rather choose an obscure calmness, so that their depth and strength, like a fire in winter, slowly accumulate, warm but not scorching, light but not shining.
True light does not need external recognition, it comes from inner firmness and depth.
The real master will always hide in the sea of people, waiting for the discovery and recognition of time.
In this way, the real wise men are all around us, and they may not be obvious, but their way of thinking and behavior are undoubtedly very worthy of our Xi and reference.