Now, people live a good life, at least they don't have to worry about food and clothing, and they can also play around the great rivers and mountains when they have nothing to do. When it comes to traveling, who do you want to spend most time with? Do you want to spend time with good friends? Do you know what caused you to travel long distances with good friends?
The first point, the question of consumption, AA or treat?
When you go out to play, you must face the problem of consumption, who will pay the money, how to pay? If you don't have a bad money, the cost is small, and I believe that not many people will care. However, if you travel for a long distance, one person, fares, tickets, meals, accommodation and other expenses, add up to thousands of yuan. If it's AA, every stroke is clear, and is there still a friendship of friends?
It's not fair to be honest if you let just one person solve it. Nowadays, the vast majority of people only have a monthly salary of four or five thousand yuan, and they can spend half of it on a trip, so they don't feel distressed? Many people may have felt that it was nothing at that time, they were all friends, you invited me, I invited me, this is normal, and everyone has so much fun, talking about money hurts feelings. But after the trip, when I review alone, I will inevitably think, why should I bear all the expenses alone?
The second point is that personal Xi is different, retreat to let oneself be wronged, and do not give in to the unity of opinion.
Traveling together, many people have different Xi and preferences for eating and living. In terms of eating, some people are not spicy, some people love light, and they go to one place, such as Chongqing. When you arrive in Chongqing, not eating hot pot skewers seems to be a trip for nothing, but you love to eat spicy and exciting, and your friends can't eat spicy. What should you do at this time? Go eat hot pot by yourself and leave her alone in the hotel? Or take her with you, and you are eating with oily face, and she is watching you eat?
In terms of living, as small as a hotel of more than 100 yuan, as large as a hotel of thousands of yuan, as well as a homestay that has been particularly popular in recent years, which kind of homestay you want to live in? And you don't agree, what should you do at this time? Agreeing with your friend's opinion means that you have to back down, you can't do what you want, and if you don't agree, you will be awkward to a large extent.
Third, how can we reconcile the difficult destinations?
It's rare to go out once, and the attractions you want to play will naturally not be one or two, basically all the attractions will be played as much as possible. Every time you go to a city, you will go to the famous local attractions, and the destination will not be the same every time. For example, some people like to go to the temple, and some people feel uncomfortable when they arrive at the temple and can't help but burst into tears, then people will definitely not want to go to the temple. And what do you do? Do you go alone, or do you go with a friend?
These three questions may not seem like a big deal, but they can easily be magnified during a tiring trip. For example, if you like to snore when you sleep, and the other party is physically and mentally exhausted after running for a day, it is rare to rest at night, and you are so noisy that you can't sleep, and there is a chance that you will get up early the next morning and have an opinion about you. When you see her pulling a stinky face, you don't want to talk for a moment, and you lose your temper. Contradictions crept in. In fact, the problem is not big, but it will be magnified in special circumstances.
If you want to travel with friends, it's a good idea to be mentally prepared and plan ahead. If you need to be wronged by one of them, then it is best not to go together, not because you can't, but because you are afraid that you won't even have to be friends after the trip. After experiencing it, you will understand that some people are good friends, but they are not suitable for hanging out together.
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