In the previous article, it was written that we broke up because of this matter, and many netizens thought I was hypocritical, so I continued to send out the previous part, and everyone will analyze and analyze it.
My boyfriend and I have known each other for 6 years, and during this time we have had a lot of good times together, and our relationship with each other has grown stronger.
Lately, my boyfriend has been half-jokingly telling me that he wants to have twins, which I thought was funny at first, but then I realized that the problem was not as simple as a joke. The two of us are not very financially well-off, and although we both work hard, our income level is not very high.
It takes a lot of money to have a child, let alone a pair of twins. I am worried that if we don't have enough financial means, having a baby will make our lives more difficult and even fall into poverty.
Also, I need to be well cared for and recovered after giving birth. I have always believed that confinement and postpartum recovery are very important because it is about my physical health and future quality of life. I would like to stay in a good confinement center and get professional care and care. But the boyfriend thinks it's too hypocritical, and there's no need to spend so much money.
While my boyfriend is doing a great job in other ways, we have a big difference in our ideas when it comes to having children. I feel like we need to think about this seriously, after all, having a baby is not a trivial matter. If we are not prepared and financially adequate, then giving birth to a child may cause us more distress and difficulties.
I hope my boyfriend can understand my thoughts and concerns, and we need to come to a common understanding about having a baby. After all, we are people who are going to walk together for the rest of our lives. As a result, this incident became the fuse for our breakup, and the 6-year relationship was not expected to be so fragile.
Netizens are talking, is it really my fault?