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My name is Li Mei, I am 32 years old this year, and I am a typical "leftover girl".
My parents have long discounted my dream of getting married. Relatives and friends at home introduce people from time to time, but either the difference is too big, or I can't accept it. My mother always said that I was "too ambitious" and that I was not satisfied with any conditions. I was also anxious that I would be lonely for the rest of my life.
Zhang Qiang pulled out a chair very gentlemanly and asked me to sit down: "Hello Li Mei, I heard Minmin talk about your situation, you are very beautiful and intellectual." Let's talk slowly, don't be nervous. ”
After that, we talked a lot, and I gradually unguarded and talked to Zhang Qiang in devotion. It turned out that Zhang Qiang worked in the same multinational company, and his position was much higher than mine. He has a mild-mannered personality, a strong sense of dedication, and many lofty ideals. I found that he was not as utilitarian as the other boys, but genuinely wanted to form a warm home.
I blushed and nodded, and Zhang Qiang happily saved my mobile phone number into my mobile phone. Since that meeting, Zhang Qiang has been in constant contact with me. He would send me a WeChat message asking me what I was doing and what I was worried about lately. Sometimes they bring me small gifts, like my favorite snacks or sneakers. I've never met such a thoughtful guy.
Gradually, I found myself unknowingly falling in love with Zhang Qiang. I started looking forward to chatting with him every day, and I was feeling down as long as I didn't talk for a day. The feeling became more and more apparent, and I was finally sure that I was in love with him.
Early one weekend morning, sunlight shone through the cracks in the curtains. I flipped through my phone and just wanted to send a good morning greeting to Zhang Qiang, when I saw a large string of messages from him.
"Meimei, I'm thinking about our relationship these days. I know we've only known each other for two months, but I really like you! you're smart and cute, and we get along well. I don't want to miss you, so I'm going to muster the courage to ask you an important question. Li Mei, would you like to be with me?"
In this way, Zhang Qiang and I confirmed their relationship. Like every young couple, we went on a date, went shopping, ate and watched movies together. Zhang Qiang will carefully choose gifts for me, and he knows what color clothes and styles of earrings I like. I also often make snacks for him, such as Zhang Qiang's favorite egg scones.
I was speechless with emotion, and tears welled up in my eyes. I nodded vigorously, and then opened my arms to hug him: "Qiangqiang, I am willing!" In this way, Zhang Qiang and I stepped into the palace of marriage. We held a grand wedding in our hometown, invited two relatives and friends, and the scene was full of laughter and excitement.
Zhang Qiang thoughtfully put the bath water for me, and then went to the living room to wait. I soaked in the tub with a red face, my heart beating fast. I've been through marriage registration and wedding ceremonies, but the time to truly "become one" is coming.
I took a shower, put on a soft bathrobe and went out. Zhang Qiang stared at me with fiery eyes. I pursed my lips and smiled, then sat down on the edge of the bed.
"Meimei, you are really beautiful. Zhang Qiang gently stroked my cheek.
I exclaimed, and hurriedly pulled up my bathrobe to cover my body. Unexpectedly, Zhang Qiang was one step faster than me and hugged my strong waist.
"Don't be shy, Meimei, you're my bride tonight. Zhang Qiang whispered in my ear.
"It's already 10 o'clock, I worked hard for you last night, I specially let you sleep more. Zhang Qiang handed over the water glass. Only then did I recall the lingering scene of the husband and wife last night, and I couldn't help but blush.
I instantly understood that I was so excited last night, and the female menstrual cycle is coming, and I can't stop it for a while. I was ashamed and sat on the edge of the bed and sobbed quietly. Zhang Qiang also understood when he saw this, he hugged me gently, and comforted me gently: "Meimei, don't cry, don't cry, this is a normal physiological phenomenon, you don't have to blame yourself." We just had a new sheet change. ”
"Don't say that, the most important thing for Meimei is to be happy. Nothing else is a problem. Zhang Qiang stroked my hair, and after a while, he said, "Let's have a good rest tonight and don't rush to continue." I'll be with you always. ”
I was touched by Zhang Qiang's gentleness and thoughtfulness. I truly realized that the marriage of a man and a woman does not care about the form, but about whether the two hearts are compatible. I nodded, changed the sheets with Zhang Qiang, and unloaded the big stone in my heart.
Zhang Qiang smiled and covered my body, the tip of his tongue running across my collarbone. I exclaimed, feeling the tingling of the place. Soon, we merged into the clouds and rain again, and I hugged my lover's back tightly as if I would never let go.
After that, I gasped for breath in contentment, and let Zhang Qiang gently stroke my long hair. Suddenly, a stream of heat caught you off guard. I hurriedly lifted the quilt to take a look, and as expected, the menstrual event was here again!
In the middle of the night, there was a soft knock on the bathroom door. "Meimei, don't be sad. Come out and talk to me. Zhang Qiang said softly outside.
I sniffled and slowly opened the door. Zhang Qiang immediately took me in his arms and patted me on the back one by one.
"Fool, it's not your fault. Come on, let's get things sorted out together. Zhang Qiang stroked my long hair gently.
It dawned on me that married life is not just about the joy of bed, but also about being considerate and supportive of each other. I am extremely grateful to God for letting me meet Zhang Qiang on such a good bosom friend in life! Since that menstrual accident, I have gradually learned to be considerate and understand Zhang Qiang, and no longer blame myself too much for some trivial things. Zhang Qiang also took care of my mood from time to time, and our relationship became more and more stable.
After I got married, I quit my job as a clerk and became a full-time husband and child. Zhang Qiang's career is rising step by step, and we are both relatively low-level and frugal, so we have saved a sum of money. Just three years after we got married, we decided to buy our own home.
"Wife, we already have the blueprint for our love nest! Zhang Qiang said happily.
"Okay!" I jumped on tiptoe and kissed him lightly on the lips.
The moment we moved into our new home, Zhang Qiang and I were as happy as two children, and we no longer felt tired from the tedious process of moving. Our bedroom was quickly furnished with a warm and romantic atmosphere, with soft sheets and a bedside table for group photos. The whole space is filled with sweetness and happiness.
That night, I hugged the cushion and waited for Zhang Qiang to come out of the shower. As soon as he closed the bathroom door, the belt of his bathrobe was loosened, and the whole garment was open with a "swish". I hurriedly covered my eyes, blushing like a tomato.
Zhang Qiang laughed: "We have been married for three years, and you are still so shy like a little girl?" He took me in his arms, and the two of them quickly turned over in bed.
In the blink of an eye, we have entered middle age. When I was over 40 years old, I was often praised by my friends for my surprisingly youthful temperament and appearance. I smiled noncommittally, in fact, it was not the credit of skin care products, it was all because Zhang Qiang was by my side. Every night we snuggled up in the same bed and woke up refreshed from a good night's sleep. I often joke that I want to apply for a patent in Zhang Qiang's arms, which is the world's most effective cough and phlegm, beauty and beauty method.
Life is a long road, Zhang Qiang and I walk hand in hand, cherish each other, understand and love each other. All kinds of unhappiness and embarrassment in the past have been forgotten by us, and day and night are sweet and sad.
I believe that as long as we unswervingly keep this relationship, one day we will grow old together and walk hand in hand towards the final end of life. When we lie on the bed, the green silk is dyed white, maybe we will gently shake hands and smile. At that moment, I seemed to have seen that this life was worth the trip. Time flies, and I'm 52 years old. It is often said that women are fifty years old, but I don't feel it at all. Because I have Zhang Qiang, a backing that I can rely on, I feel very stable.
The children have also grown up and gone abroad to develop. Zhang Qiang and I discussed selling our old house and moving to the suburbs to retire. We built a separate courtyard with a garden and planted a lot of greenery. In my spare time, I water the flowers and pick some vegetable leaves in the yard; Zhang Qiang worked hard to grow vegetables on the land, and we also raised two tame dogs.
Living in this courtyard, Zhang Qiang and I seem to go back to the years of love when we were young. We cook happily in the kitchen, sit on the swing and watch the sun go down, and sometimes you even chase me and play around. The laughter in the courtyard often makes the neighbors passing by envy this old husband and wife very affectionately.
Just a few days ago, Zhang Qiang suddenly and mysteriously pulled me to the path outside the door. "Meimei, do you remember this journey?" He pointed to a small stone bridge not far away.
I shook my head blankly. The stone bridge looks no different from the surrounding scenery.
"I didn't expect the idiom to have been fulfilled!" Zhang Qiang happily hugged my shoulder, "The most correct decision I made in my life was the moment I saw you in that teahouse." ”
It was another weekend, and Zhang Qiang happily came to me to tell me that the vegetables he grew were growing well and that he must celebrate. I proposed to make a few specialty dishes and we had a picnic party in the yard.
"Yes, yes!" Zhang Qiang rubbed his hands happily, "I'll go and move the creeper over as a seasoning, you go to the kitchen to prepare." ”
So we set up a simple tent in the courtyard and spread a table full of delicacies and drinks. The big dogs and small dogs were also fed, and they were rolling at our feet.
Halfway through eating, I suddenly felt a little drunk, and the whole person leaned back. Zhang Qiang hurriedly put down the dishes and chopsticks to hold me steady: "Wife, don't make trouble, be careful of falling!"
I giggled and wrapped my arms around his neck and kissed him loudly on the lips.
"Why are you doing this?" Zhang Qiang also smiled and narrowed his eyes.
Zhang Qiang touched my long hair, with a warm expression of pride: "Wife, as long as you are happy." ”