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As long as you grow up and don't endanger society
My daughter is only in elementary school, and her parents' requirements are so low?
Nowadays, the pressure on students is very great, and some even start to learn C language in kindergarten, participate in various teaching and training exercises, cultivate hobbies from an early age, and take more extracurricular interest classes every day than daily cultural classes, which can be said to be open all year round.
Parents are looking forward to their children becoming talents, but the mother mentioned today used to have such fantasies, but now when he remembers his original vow, it is simply ridiculous, saying that his requirements for his daughter, as long as it does not endanger society in the future, what kind of thing can the daughter do so calmly.
Expect from 985,211 to not endanger society
Nowadays, most women are at home after getting married, and taking care of children has become their daily routine, and their children's test results are also the things they are most looking forward to.
But the mother from Sichuan no longer had expectations when she saw her child's results, and even laughed.
My daughter's surprise came too suddenly, and she scored two points in the English test, which made her laugh at her popularity, and even some netizens said that it was estimated that it would be more than two points to throw the paper on the ground and step on it twice.
The mother also said that it was difficult to understand, English is basically all multiple-choice questions, all write one answer, it is estimated that the exam can also get a dozen points, it seems that the daughter's oral nutrition also has a certain talent, after all, the penultimate is not everyone can take the test.
The woman posted the video on the Internet, and many people said that children may start slowly, and it was difficult to start with English, but then it got better slowly, and if English is not good, then Chinese should be good.
Bao's mother also said that her daughter still has an eight-point Chinese test paper and can't find it.
English and Chinese add up to a total of only 10 points, which is simply crazy for anyone, but this mother's mentality is very good.
He also said that he once had illusions about his children, hoping that they could take the 985 and 211 exams in the future, and as the children grew up, their grades regressed little by little, and they only hoped that their children could be admitted to college in the future.
Now that his expectations for children have gradually decreased, it has become that it does not endanger society, which is almost making people laugh.
Hopefully, from 985,211 to today's non-crisis society, it is simply a big reversal.
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Many netizens listened to Bao's mother's words and said that they couldn't laugh, but some netizens gave Bao's mother advice, saying that if it really doesn't work, give some gifts to the teacher, Bao's mother even bluntly said that it is useless to send a house, his expectations for his daughter have gradually decreased, and he only hopes that he can grow up happily.
Especially in the video, the mother kept saying to the camera, but the daughter kept playing with her brother next to her, especially the set of pajamas she was wearing looked very cute, and she was probably a very funny girl when she grew up.
When Bao's mother posted this video on the Internet, he never imagined that he would complain about it and become popular on the Internet, when many netizens said they wanted to see the follow-up.
This time, the real protagonist's daughter made her debut, and her mother also said, okay, now the people of the whole country know that you have scored eight points in the Chinese test, and your daughter looks very smart and clever in front of the camera.
Mom also began to tease her daughter, saying that we will strive to get nine points in the next exam, okay?
But how could her daughter's ideals only have such confidence in herself? and even said loudly that she would score 20 points in the next exam.
20 points in this family is a nightmare, but should I say it or not, this mother did say that there is still a little bit of expectation, maybe if her daughter can really get 20 points, he will take her out for a big meal.
After all, mentality is the best feng shui, instead of arguing with the child every day because of the grades, the child may be afraid to communicate with his parents because of the bad grades, and it is inconvenient for the family to become estranged, it can be seen that the education of this mother can be said to be very correct.
The most important thing is that your child is happy
Not to the results of the results of the goal, but to the child progress as the main task, this is the most important in education, no matter what the child's grades, as long as he can grow up happily, this is also all parents worth learning Xi.
After all, grades cannot represent everything, and now the country advocates quality education, if you only pay attention to students' grades and do not pay attention to other personality development, it can only be regarded as dead reading, only all-round development can make children's childhood have more gains.
And now many mothers are also very difficult, the country advocates the two-child policy, many mothers not only have to go to work during the day, but also take care of the children when they come back at night, prepare breakfast, lunch and dinner for the family, especially hard, sometimes even have to deal with the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, can have such a mentality in the family, it seems that it is also very happy.
This mother and my sister will see the advantages of their child, he said that although his child has just entered elementary school, but has learned to stir-fry, often help her with housework, and especially like dance and musical instruments, in this art, the child can be said to be full of interest, but when it comes to Xi school, it becomes a headache, this phenomenon will be the same as you who are reading this article?
Cherish the present and look up to the future
Nowadays, the post-90s generation with a baby is full of tricks, and there are many people who bluntly say that children are born to play, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and there are many kinds of pit baby behaviors on the Internet, which makes people laugh from ear to ear.
Yes, true happiness is family harmony, and the most important thing is for parents and children to get along well.
Especially in the parents' days, it is very remarkable to have knowledge and be able to participate in good public institutions, but now college students have become common, and some even have arrogant tuition fees to go to college, but after graduation, they can only get a salary of 3000 per month.
Therefore, it is not that the grades can represent everything, criticizing education is unrealistic nowadays, we must encourage education to promote the common development of parents and children, cherish the present, although it is more than the upper than the bottom, but now the life you are living is even the unattainable dream of others.
epilogue
And the college entrance examination is originally an exam for thousands of troops to cross a single-plank bridge, and it is not necessarily necessary to have a good job if you are admitted to college, and the major you study in college may not necessarily be used when you work, all of this is to see the opportunity, When the child reaches his teens, he begins to have his own thoughts, so cherish the good time with the child.
Information source: Sister Li's mother Zhu's Douyin
https://v.douyin.com/i8oMFSXq/