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Text: Yu Dazui Booth
Editor|Yu Dazui Booth
Recently, photos of Huang Jiaqian shopping on the streets with her 14-year-old daughter in the summer were exposed, which immediately caused a huge discussion on the Internet. Huang Jiaqian in the photo has obviously lost a lot of weight, and his face has also appeared haggard, and he is called a "shrinking superstar" by netizens. In summer, it has grown to 1.7 meters, which is taller than her mother, but her buckteeth are exposed and her neck is tilted forward, which is criticized by netizens for her ugly demeanor.
After seeing these photos, many netizens expressed surprise and different opinions.
Some netizens think that Summer is still a developing child after all, and she should not be too critical of her appearance and demeanor; some netizens think that as the second generation of stars, you should pay attention to your appearance and image; and some netizens think that Summer's problem is mainly the lack of good teaching from parents.
Netizens who believe that they should not be overly picky about their appearance and demeanor in summer said that 14-year-old children are in the development period, their appearance and body are changing, and it is common to have various inconsistencies. As adults, we shouldn't be too strict about a child's appearance. In the summer, it may be possible to improve your teeth and neck problems through acquired conditioning, but it will take time. We should treat her with tolerance and encouragement.
Some netizens also believe that Summer, as the daughter of public figure Xia Keli, should pay attention to her appearance. Children of public figures will receive more attention, and they should pay attention to their dress, manners, etc. in the summer, and not be casual. It will also help her in the rest of her life.
Another part of netizens believes that the main problem in summer is the lack of good teaching from parents. If Xia Keli can still accompany his daughter, he will pay more attention to her appearance, dress, etc. The change in the summer is also related to the divorce of parents. Parents should be in a good attitude towards their children in order to make her grow up better.
In any case, we should treat this growing child with tolerance and love. Appearance does not determine a person's inner qualities. I believe that as long as her family gives her the love and care she deserves, she will definitely grow into an independent, confident and positive girl in the summer.
As outsiders, it is difficult for us to judge the grievances between Huang Jiaqian and Xia Keli. But as parents in the summer, their first priority should be to care about their daughter's healthy growth.
A healthy and happy environment for children to grow up in is very important. Regardless of the feelings, parents should work together to do their duty as parents in a good attitude towards their children. As long as the child is given the love and care she deserves, she will grow into a cheerful and kind person.
As a mother, Huang Jiaqian now bears the heavy responsibility of raising her daughter. She should pay attention to her physical and mental health, so that she can lead by example and influence her children with the most positive attitude. The words and deeds of parents have a profound impact on a child's future life.
At the same time, Huang Jiaqian should also try to keep in touch with his father in the summer. Regardless of the relationship, the parent-child relationship should not be broken. Xia Keli should also put aside his prejudices and fulfill his responsibilities and obligations as a father. As long as both parents are in a good mood for summer, she will feel the love of her family and grow into an empathetic girl.
We shouldn't judge a growing child based solely on photos and appearance. Instead, we are to look at them with a loving and encouraging mindset. A healthy, harmonious, and loving family environment will make the summer grow up healthy and happy. This is also what we, as members of society, should give to every child.
What this has taught us is that as adults and parents, we need to be tolerant and loving with our children. External changes do not determine a person's inner qualities, as long as children are viewed with a mindset full of encouragement and expectation, they will all grow up to be beneficial to society.