Today's Ruby Lin is rarely involved in the entertainment industry, and all her time and energy are devoted to her family. Ruby Lin is accompanied by her 6-year-old daughter, Little Dolphin, which is also the most important task in her life.
Every morning, when the alarm clock rings at 6 o'clock on time, Lin Xinru will turn over Xi by habit and turn off the noisy alarm for the first time. Instead of staying in bed again, she got up quickly and looked at the calendar on the wall, which was marked with a date in red pen and told her that it was time to accompany her daughter to school again.
Ruby Lin quickly washed up, came to her daughter's room, and saw her sleeping daughter still curled up in the bed. She sat down on the edge of the bed and gently shook her daughter awake, "Dolphin baby, it's time to get up and go to school."
The daughter opened her eyes in a daze, saw her mother's smiling face, and also showed a sweet smile.
Ruby Lin hummed a song while helping her daughter get dressed up. The daughter put on a neat school uniform, carried a small schoolbag, and held her mother's hand to the cafeteria. Ruby Lin prepared a hot milk and egg sandwich for her daughter, and her daughter chatted and laughed with her mother while eating.
After breakfast, Ruby Lin took her daughter's hand to the garage, fastened her seatbelt, and then drove her daughter to school. Her daughter has just entered the first grade, and Ruby Lin is not worried that she will go alone, and she will send her daughter to school on time every day.
Ruby Lin will give her daughter a tight hug at the school gate, say "Mommy loves you", and then watch her daughter run into class. Every time she sees her daughter leaving, Lin Xinru will feel love and reluctance in her heart.
Ruby Lin and Da S are both popular post-90s celebrities, and they both became mothers at the age of 40, but the two showed different attitudes in raising children.
Ruby Lin has basically quit the entertainment industry now and chooses to be a full-time mother. She wakes up early every morning to take her daughter to school to make sure she has a regular routine. No matter how busy she is, Ruby Lin will make time to accompany her daughter to grow up.
In contrast, Big S's focus is still on his acting career. She often goes out to film, and may not have time to send her daughter to school every day. Big S is more inclined to hire a nanny or find a family member to help take care of his daughter, and he goes all out to develop his career.
There are pros and cons to both approaches, and we should not judge them lightly. But from the perspective of her daughter's feelings, Ruby Lin's companionship may be more conducive to establishing a mother-daughter intimate relationship.
The daughter can feel her mother's care since she was a child, and compared to Big S, she may not have much time to spend with her daughter because she is busy with work.
What's more, Ruby Lin and Huo Jianhua never look for a nanny, but the two of them take turns staying at home to accompany their daughter. The company of both parents will make the child feel richer family affection.
In contrast, Da S's daughter Yue'er may be more dependent on a nanny and not as close as a dolphin in her relationship with her parents.
From this point of view, the little dolphin can be said to have a happier childhood than Xiao Yue'er. She can immerse herself in the care of her parents every day and feel the warmth of home. This will undoubtedly be a valuable asset in her growth and help her build a sense of security and self-confidence.
Therefore, Ruby Lin's stay-at-home mother model is hard, but it is very beneficial in the long run. Every family has a different situation, and we should understand and respect each other.
Having children is one of the most beautiful and difficult experiences in every mother's life. For Ruby Lin, the younger daughter also brought her a huge change in mentality.
Ruby Lin picked up her daughter for the first time, looking at her big black and white eyes, and an unprecedented sense of happiness swelled in her heart. She gently kissed the baby's tender forehead and said from the bottom of her heart, "Mommy will always love you and protect you."
Since then, the core of Ruby Lin's life has shifted to this little guy. She patiently takes care of every night's crying, carefully recording every small step of growth.
Ruby Lin discovered that the child was the source of the mother's happiness.
What's more, this life was raised by her. Ruby Lin appreciates the magic of life all the time and re-examines her own life.
There are some things that I took for granted when I was an actor, but now I am relieved as a mother.
Ruby Lin began to enjoy the simplicity and tranquility of family life. She no longer worries about work and career, but devotes her time and energy wholeheartedly to accompanying her daughter's growth.
Perhaps this is where the beauty of life lies, to gain inner peace in family affection and responsibility. Ruby Lin is very grateful for the changes her daughter has brought to her, allowing her to see another world and find the true meaning of life.
Whenever her daughter sweetly called her "Mom", Ruby Lin felt extremely satisfied and happy. She experiences each day with a new mindset and lives a more meaningful and happy life.
In an interview, Ruby Lin happily took out a headshot of her daughter from her mobile phone and posted it to the camera, with a happy smile on her face.
"Isn't it cute? Look at her big eyes, black and shiny, with long eyelashes. Ruby Lin couldn't help but praise.
Indeed, the little girl in the photo has an innocent little face, big eyes are crystal clear, and she smiles sweetly, which looks very cute and lively.
"I'm most worried that she's going to roll her eyes when she grows up, so I'm sure to take more pictures. Ruby Lin said with a smile.
As a mother, Ruby Lin's pride in her daughter is beyond words. She believes that her daughter is the best gift from God, a perfect work that combines her own genes with that of her lover.
Ruby Lin appreciates and cares for her daughter's every expression and action all the time. She is willing to share this happiness and pride at any time, and witness the growth of her daughter with everyone.
Seeing her daughter grow up healthy and happy is the greatest comfort and relief for Ruby Lin. She sincerely thanked God for giving her such a good fortune and being able to experience the supreme joy of being a mother.
Although Ruby Lin is very keen to take care of her daughter, when asked if she would have another child, she did not hesitate to say that she would not have a second child.
Ruby Lin explained that the main reason is that she is 47 years old, and she is too old to get pregnant and give birth again. According to relevant statistics, pregnant women over the age of 35 are considered to be of advanced maternal age, and the risk will increase in all aspects.
For example, older mothers are 2-3 times more likely to develop endometriosis than younger mothers; The incidence of fetal chromosomal aneuploidy abnormalities also increases significantly with the age of the pregnant woman.
Therefore, 47 years old is really not suitable for Ruby Lin to have a second child.
What's more, Ruby Lin's first child was born when she was 40 years old. As a late marriage and late childbearing, she regrets not being able to spend more time with her daughter. When her daughter was 20 years old, Ruby Lin was already in her 60s, and it was difficult to take on the burden of parenting.
Therefore, Ruby Lin values the time spent with her first daughter very much. She hopes to be personally involved in every stage of her daughter's development and build a strong mother-daughter relationship.
If you are distracted and have a second child, you will not be able to devote yourself to your first daughter.
Moreover, her husband Huo Jianhua is now making a comeback and often has to go out to film. Ruby Lin is hard enough to take care of the family alone, and if you add the burden of a child, the physical and mental pressure will increase.
Therefore, considering her age and physical condition, as well as the actual situation of the family, Ruby Lin firmly chose to focus her time and energy on accompanying her first daughter.
She believes that wholeheartedly accompanying a child to grow up is also the happiest and most meaningful thing in her life.
Whether or not to have a second child is an extremely private and personal decision, and we should respect every woman's choice.
Ruby Lin's decision not to have a second child is for good reasons, and it is completely based on her own situation and considerations. This choice is responsible and reasonable for both her and her family.
As a woman, if Lin Xinru has the power to control her fertility autonomously, she should not be questioned or criticized by the outside world. Every woman has the right to live the life she wants, and we are not in a position to dictate the private lives of others.
Instead, we should give support and encouragement to Ruby Lin and every woman so that they have the courage and confidence to choose the path that suits them best. This is the true respect for women, and it is also the progressive and enlightened attitude that modern society should have.
Regardless of whether Ruby Lin chooses to have a second child in the end, we should wish her family a happy one. She is already a responsible and good mother, and the only thing we can do is to respect her decision and be sincerely happy for her.
Every family has its own unique features and challenges. But as long as there is love in it, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and usher in a bright future.