Does a girl's marriage require parental consent?
Nowadays, more and more young people are beginning to pursue the freedom of personal emotions and the right to make their own choices. In this process, love and personal happiness become the main factors in marriage decisions, and there may be opposition in the family, but more often than not, it is more about compromising with the children.
But if neither side has any intention of making concessions, it is likely to develop into a tragedy.
In Yunnan, a girl eloped with her boyfriend for love despite the opposition of her family. But when she was desperate and had nothing, the man's attitude caused a huge controversy.
According to reports, the woman's family objected to the relationship because of the man's poor family conditions.
But the woman firmly chose to be with her boyfriend, which led to a heated argument with her family and an eventual elopement.
Despite her family's best efforts to stop her, the woman decided to follow her boyfriend away. After leaving, she broke down emotionally, crying into her boyfriend's arms, and choked up: "Don't let me down, I'm homeless now".
This scene shows her absolute commitment to love and her sense of uncertainty about the future.
From the girl's cry, it can actually be imagined that this time, she really made a lot of determination to bet her future fate on this man. But the boyfriend's next actions and expressions caused controversy.
Faced with such an affectionate outpouring of his girlfriend, the man's reaction was surprisingly indifferent. Not only did he not show a look of emotion on his face
Instead, he held his emotional girlfriend in one hand and picked up his mobile phone in the other to take a selfie, and the expression on his face seemed to reveal an indescribable pride.
So much so that some netizens said: The boy knows that the girl has lost when he shoots the video
In fact, it's no wonder that netizens think so. In the face of his girlfriend's affectionate dedication and sacrifice, the man's indifference and selfie behavior may reflect his lack of emotional investment and responsibility.
Just imagine, let's not talk about the relationship between girlfriends, even if a friend encounters a sad thing, or there is a situation at home, should you also comfort her with words, even if it is to lend your shoulder to the other party, to be a support, and to protect silently.
But this boyfriend is good, his girlfriend gave up everything and eloped with him, but he recorded this moment as a show-off, which is really chilling.
Netizens talked a lot
Some netizens said that if there are no two people living in the future, they may encounter many difficulties, and they hope that boys can cherish them
There are also many netizens who analyze from the "probability" that a marriage without the blessing of parents will most likely not be happy, some people say more than 95%, and some people say 99%, although there is no basis, it can be seen that this probability is not low.
Whether or not marriage requires parental consent is a complex and multifaceted issue
In traditional cultures, parents play an important role in their children's choice of marriage.
The family's opinions and decisions are seen as crucial, often based on consideration for the future well-being of the child and the preservation of the family's reputation and social status. In this context, girls' choice to marry often requires parental consent and support.
From a legal point of view, adults have the right to decide on their own marriage and do not need legal parental consent.
But in practice, family opinion and support are still very important to many people, especially in cultures that value family harmony and respect for elders.
From a psychological point of view, a mature and stable relationship should be based on mutual understanding, respect and equality between both parties.
A person's dedication and sacrifice in a relationship needs to be responded to and supported by their partner. This interaction is not only the basis for emotional communication, but also the key to maintaining long-term stability.
In fact, if you look at the comments and experiences of some netizens, you will find that although in modern life, personal wishes and choices are very important, but for the vast majority of families, the current opposition of parents may really be for the sake of their children. Once you make a mistake, it may be too late.
From the parents' point of view, their opposition to their daughter's marriage is essentially motivated by love for their children and concern for their future well-being. Parents often try to provide the best guidance and advice to their children based on their own life experiences and understanding of society.
Of course, this does not mean that the parents' views are necessarily correct or that the children's choices are necessarily wrong. What really matters is that both parties are able to communicate openly and honestly, respecting each other's perspectives and choices, and working together to find the best solution for our daughter's future well-being.
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