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After freshening up, I saw myself in the mirror and couldn't help but sigh. This life has lasted for half a year, and every day seems like an endless torment. And today, maybe it's a little different.
"Good morning, why do you feel like you haven't slept well?" said her ex-husband's voice from the room.
I turned my head and saw him sitting on the bed, looking at ease. He usually wakes up early and gets busy early in the morning, while I always sleep in. I have never changed this Xi.
"It's nothing, it's just a little sleepy. I muttered, picked up my toothbrush and started brushing my teeth.
"Look, it's your old toothbrush, I bought you a new one and put it on the sink. He gestured to the sink.
I looked over and sure enough, I saw a brand new toothbrush, holding it in my hand, and the fresh mint smell came to my nose.
"Thank you. I bowed my head and replied.
He smiled and said, "That's as it should be, you're my friend, I hope you're doing well." ”
Hearing his words, my heart warmed, and it seemed that there was less indifference and alienation. Although we are divorced, his care and consideration for me has not changed.
"Actually, I hope we can have a better life. I squeezed out a smile and walked out of the bathroom.
For the past six months, our relationship has been in a delicate state. In the beginning, the atmosphere between us was very awkward, and every day seemed to be hiding in each other's shadows. But slowly, we gradually got used to this way of getting along. Although there is no constraint of marriage, we still maintain an intimate relationship, caring for each other, cooperating with each other, and taking care of each other.
"Where are you going?" he came out of the bedroom and saw me carrying my bag.
"I'm going to go out for a walk, what about you?" I looked back at him.
"I'm going out too, but I'll be back in the evening. He picked up his bag. "You alone should be careful, feel free to contact me. ”
I nodded to him, opened the door and walked out of the house.
Suddenly, a sense of foreboding came over me. Maybe we really can't live like this anymore. I couldn't help but feel a little flustered, I didn't know why.
Walking down the street, I casually walked around, bought some groceries, then sat in the coffee shop and ordered a cup of coffee. The empty coffee shop is exactly what I was in at this time.
"How is life after the divorce?" a familiar voice suddenly sounded.
I subconsciously turned around and saw a man in a bright shirt sitting next to me.
"Prince?" I looked at him with some surprise.
"It's me. He smiled slightly, "I also have a business here, by the way, take a look at you." ”
This man named Prince is a good friend of mine and my ex-husband, and he is also our confidant after our divorce. He always gave us a lot of help and care when we were divorced, and we are really grateful to him.
"Life after the divorce is okay, it's just a little boring. But it's okay. I smiled and motioned for him to sit down.
"Do you still live together?" said the prince, looking at me, with concern.
"Yes, we still live together. But something seems to be wrong lately, he seems to have a new plan, and I don't know what to do. I muttered, as if I had found someone to talk to.
"I understand. Your feelings have always been complicated, and there are no untied knots between you. The prince looked at me deeply, "You should think about your own life and pursue your own happiness." ”
"But I can't seem to get away from him. There are so many connections, so many emotions and memories between us. I lowered my head and said with some confusion.
This kind of emotion needs to be discarded. Maybe that's the only way you can start a new life. The prince patted my hand gently.
Listening to his words, I felt a little hopeful in my heart. Maybe I really need to make some changes in order to pursue my own happiness.
"Thank you, Prince. Thank you for your continued care and care for us. I'll think about what you say and hopefully find a new direction. I looked at him gratefully.
"You're welcome, you're good friends of mine, and I naturally want you to have a better life. He smiled and stood up and patted me on the shoulder, "Okay, I have to go, feel free to come to me if you need help." ”
I looked at his back, and a lot of emotion welled up in my heart. After the divorce, I was haunted by memories of the past and didn't know how to face my future. But now, perhaps, it's time for something to change.
When I got home, I saw that my ex-husband had come back and was sitting in the living room watching TV. He looked up, saw me coming in, and smiled.
"You're back, how are you, having some fun outside?" he asked, seeming concerned.
"Well, I went out for a walk, and I ran into the prince. We chatted a bit and he gave me some perspectives. I took a deep breath.
"Prince, what did he say?" he looked at me, his expression a little serious.
"He reminded me that we might need to make some changes in order to pursue our own happiness. I looked at him, trying to clear my thoughts.
He looked at me deeply, then smiled.
"Perhaps, you do need to make some changes. I also hope that you can live a better life and pursue your own happiness. He slowly stood up and came to my side, "No matter what, I will support you." ”
I froze for a moment, then threw myself into his arms. Perhaps, I really need to make some changes in order to pursue my own happiness, and perhaps, there can be some new transformation in our relationship.
Life after divorce may not be dark. Possibly, you can pick yourself up again and start your own life again. All of this requires a fresh start.
Just as I was touched by his words, he suddenly pushed me away.
"I'm sorry, I shouldn't have been. He said seriously.
I looked at him with some surprise. "What's wrong with you all of a sudden?"
"I can't go on like this. We're divorced, and I shouldn't interfere in your life. His expression was a little complicated, and his eyes were full of contradictions.
"You mean...... You...... Don't you want to live together anymore?" my voice trembled.
He nodded. "Yes, I'm moving out. I feel like we all need some fresh starts. ”
My heart sank, and I felt a little lost. "Are you sure? We can try again, maybe we can improve the current situation. ”
He sighed, "The problem between us is not so easy to solve. If we continue like this, it will only make us more and more miserable. I also hope you can have a better space and life. ”
I was silent, and I knew he was right. Maybe we really need such a change.
"I'm going to miss you. I whispered.
"I will too. He looked at me tenderly, "But, it's all for ourselves." ”
I nodded, watched him pack his bags, and slowly left the house.
In the days that followed, I struggled to adjust to my new life. He found his new house, and I started to tidy up my space. Every time I saw his room getting emptier and emptyer, I felt a pang of sadness. But I know that this is exactly the change we need.
After you left, I started living alone. Sometimes it's a little lonely, but there's also more freedom and the right to take control of your own life.
When I was most lonely, he would always be there for me. Although he has moved out, he always shows up whenever I need him.
"Are you alright?" he asked with concern.
"I'm fine, Xi to living alone. I smiled and nodded.
"If anything, don't hesitate to contact me. He looked at me tenderly.
"Okay, thank you for your continued concern. I looked at him gratefully.
After the divorce, we seem to have found a new way to get along. We are no longer husbands and wives, but we have become our closest friends. Every time I needed him, he was always there for me through the most difficult moments.
Slowly, I began to re-examine my life. I found a new job, made new friends, and tried a new hobby. I also found that I was so independent and strong.
"You look so much different. He looked at me and smiled.
"Really?" I smiled and nodded, "it's all thanks to you, and your departure has made me more determined and independent." ”
"I just want to give you a better life," he said.
My heart moved slightly, maybe this was his intention. His departure is not the end, but the beginning of my own new life.
Since then, I have worked hard to pursue my dreams and happiness. Although we are divorced and have changed from husband and wife to friends, our emotions have not diminished. He became the most important supporter in my life and accompanied me through all the hardships and bumps.
Maybe that's the best ending, we're no longer each other's lovers, but our best friends. We stand side by side and strive for our own happiness. All of this is the result of our joint efforts.
But even as I try to get better, I still think about the divorce from time to time. Sometimes a person sits quietly with a lot of thoughts. Those former happiness and pain are still deeply engraved in my heart.
Once, he called, "How are you? I'm nearby, would you like to have a meal together?"
We chose a familiar restaurant to sit in. In this environment, we asked each other about each other's lives and talked about some things at work.
"You look really good and you're doing a good job. He looked at me with concern.
"Thank you, and so are you. I was grateful.
We paused and fell silent. This silence is not awkward, but rather has a relaxed atmosphere, as if we have rediscovered some tacit understanding with each other.
"How are you doing, are you a little lonely?" he asked with concern.
I smiled slightly, "There is loneliness, but I try to fill my life." What about you?"
He sighed, "Me too, sometimes I feel lonely. But we're all trying, aren't we?"
I nodded, "yes, I feel like we're all moving forward." ”
In that moment, I felt a sense of relief. Although we are divorced, our emotions have not diminished.
After dinner, we walked together on the way home.
"Thank you for accompanying me to dinner today. He said suddenly.
"You're welcome, it's actually quite pleasant. I replied with a smile.
"Hopefully we'll be able to meet and chat like this in the future. He said softly.
A warm feeling welled up in my heart, "Of course. ”
After that meeting, we started to see each other more often, eating together, watching movies, and even going out together. Our relationship became closer, but not love, but a deep friendship. We know and care for each other's lives, and we have become each other's most trustworthy people.
In my most difficult moments, he always lends a hand. And when he also encounters difficulties, I will also be by his side silently support. We taste life and taste the ups and downs of life.
Life after divorce is like a new journey. There are many challenges and uncertainties, but there is also more novelty and hope. I realized that even if we lose one role, we gain another kind of freedom and growth.
From then on, I no longer felt lost because he was always there for me. We've been up and down together, we've grown together, we've built new relationships together, and all of this makes me feel very grounded.
Perhaps this relationship is the chance we passed by, and it is also the best ending after our divorce. We are no longer lovers, but we have become the best friends, supporting each other and getting through every difficult time in life together. This may be the happiness we deserve, imperfect, but sincere. And everything is better because of his departure.
One day a long time later, he said to me, "I know a girl who is very nice. ”
I looked at him, and an inexplicable emotion welled up in my heart. Our divorce represents a new start for each other.
"Then you're having a great time together, aren't you?" I tried to keep my voice as calm as I could.
"Yes, I think there's something special about the two of us. She also accepts your presence. His tone was apologetic.
I was silent for a moment, "It's okay, just be happy." "My voice was a little stiff.
I haven't heard from him since the day I left. And my life began to slowly return to being alone.
Sometimes I silently tell myself in my heart that divorce is right and that he has found his own happiness. But occasionally, I still feel a little lost. Our relationship has changed subtly.
By chance, we met.
"Hello, long time no see. He walked up to me.
"yes, a long, long time. I smiled a little reluctantly.
"I don't want to go on like this, I want to talk to you. "He looked at me deeply.
"About what?" I asked, somewhat detached.
"About our relationship. His voice was calm and firm.
"Perhaps we need to clarify that our relationship is not just about friends. He said.
"Are you serious?" my voice trembled.
"Yes, I've been thinking about you all the time. When I was with that girl, I kept thinking back to our past and found that our relationship was so sincere and deep. He said frankly.
My heart was surging, "I haven't forgotten you either." "I also responded bravely.
From that day on, we took a fresh look at each other's lives. We understand the importance of each other, just like the lovesickness that reflects each other in the poem.
We slowly began to rebuild our relationship, this time no longer as friends, but as each other's partners. We found each other again and understood that we could only move forward together in this journey of life.
And this experience also gave me inspiration, and made me more convinced that our reunion was arranged by God, a kind of fate. No more regrets, only gratitude.
I try to appreciate our reunion and cherish every moment we have together. Like those good days, "After you left, I found a better version of myself." And after we reunited, we found the most authentic each other. "That's the power of us together.
Life after the divorce is so good. Every day is full of love and hope, and with him, my life has become more colorful.
Once, we sat by the sea and watched the stunning sunset.
"I feel like it's a new beginning and we're going to be together forever. He said softly.
I was immediately moved by his words, "Yes, I feel that way too." "My heart is full of gratitude.
We have experienced many challenges and difficulties together during this journey. But every time we have difficulties, we have learned to understand and take care of each other more.
"I thank Heaven for allowing us to meet again, and thank you for always being with us. He looked at me with emotion.
I smiled and replied, "I have also spent time in despair, but your presence has made me regain hope." ”
Our story is like one of the most beautiful poems in life. We have gone through the darkest days of our lives together, and we have also ushered in a better tomorrow together. We shine a light on each other and make each other successful.
"I love you. He said affectionately.
"I love you too. "My heart was beating faster and faster because I really felt the love that was so strong.
Since then, our lives have become more complete and happy. Everything we go through together, whether it's sadness or joy, makes us stronger and more mature. We use each other's love to open up the deeper meaning of life and make our life better.
With him by my side, I firmly believe that our tomorrow will be even better. He changed my life and made my life happen. He gave me a new beginning, a future I never thought about.
I am grateful for this reunion and for our encounter. After the divorce, life finally ushered in true happiness. We have the purest and most sincere love. All this is hard-won and worth cherishing.