This is not just the difference in the living Xi habits of the two generations, but the daughter-in-law marries into your family, she herself is very strange, and in addition to the Xi habits and rules of your family, some daughters-in-law can not accept it, in this case, some daughters-in-law feel that living with their parents-in-law is too awkward, too casual, and has no sense of home, in this case, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get along with the contradictions, and sometimes the contradictions will become bigger and bigger. Some young couples themselves do not have much conflict, because their parents-in-law and mother-in-law stir up in the middle, and finally lead to discord between the young couple.
Under normal circumstances, young couples live alone in their own homes and have a very harmonious relationship, once they live with their parents-in-law, there will be more and more family conflicts, and some couples are because they live with their parents-in-law, live together, and finally have conflicts that lead to divorce. The reason is that the daughter-in-law marries into your family, she is not Xi to the life of your family, she feels that she is an outsider in this family, they are a family, it is difficult for her to integrate into her husband's original family, especially after the child is born, when serving the child, She will look very tired, and she is not skilled in serving children at the beginning, at this time, some mothers-in-law will let her daughter-in-law learn her to serve children in accordance with the way she served children, but how can modern people serve children like the older generation, so some daughters-in-law do not want to serve children in the way that mother-in-law serves children, in this case the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also be contradictory.
Therefore, after the son gets married, it is best to let the son and daughter-in-law live alone, as a father-in-law and mother-in-law, it is best not to live with the daughter-in-law, because the daughter-in-law marries into your family she has a strange feeling, your son and you have lived for a long time, you are all Xi to it, but the daughter-in-law marries into your family, how can she Xi your family's lifestyle and living Xi habits? Once she can't adapt to your family's lifestyle and Xi habits, it will be difficult for her to integrate into your family, and if you force her to integrate into your family, you will have conflicts. Therefore, as a smart parent, after the son gets married, he must let the son and daughter-in-law live alone, and do not live together, so as not to cause conflicts between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which will lead to conflicts between the son and the daughter-in-law, and finally lead to the divorce of the younger couple.
There are many such cases in real life, the life of the young couple is very harmonious and happy, once the parents-in-law come to her house and live together, the harmony of the little couple will be broken, and even under the involvement of the parents-in-law, the relationship between the young couple will break down, and finally go to divorce.
You can imagine how casual you live in your own home, and how casual you live in other people's homes? Therefore, when parents remember that after their son gets married, let their son and daughter-in-law live alone, and never mix the two generations together, so as not to mix up the daughter-in-law and divorce, and your son will no longer be able to marry a daughter-in-law, and he will be beaten as a single.
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