Recently, Wu Qianyu and the rich third generation Shi Boxiong got engaged, and the Hong Kong media called him the second Deng Wendi.
Wu Qianyu's love story, the wonderful thing is that she was born in an ordinary family,
can make the two wealthy boyfriends willing to be low-minded (today we will analyze why).
Wu Qianyu and Shi Boxiong held a marriage ceremony in Hong Kong.
What made Wu Qianyu out of the circle was her ex-boyfriend Lin Feng,
I spoiled her so much that she said seven "good hobbies and love a thousand words BB" to the camera in one breath.
Lin Feng is a rich second generation, and during that time, he was either filming or on the way to buy Hermes for Qianyu BB.
After the breakup, Wu Qianyu fell in love with Shi Boxiong, the third generation of the Hong Kong wang family.
His family is an old-school billionaire in Hong Kong, engaged in business and politics, and the status of the wealthy family is comparable to that of the Huo Qigang family.
Grandfather Shi Ziqing is a veteran of Hong Kong politics.
is such a son-in-law, and Qianyu has been in love for five years,
In the show, he is either incarnated as a wife stone, or he sticks his wife and is coquettish.
also threw down such crazy remarks as "the will has been written long ago and belongs to a thousand words",
It makes people feel like they are reading a boss novel.
In the world of marriage and love, this sister is a strange woman, especially if she was born in an ordinary family, she feels that it is more worthy of our research and research.
After looking at her various materials, I came to a conclusion:
Wu Qianyu is a person with particularly high physical and mental energy,
This kind of person is often born with the life of a wealthy family.
Even if you don't marry into a wealthy family, you can live a good life.
And there is one detail that impresses me the most,
It's that she can make people confident and emotionally stable,
This is also the key to her being able to marry into a wealthy family.
You must know that before Shi Boxiong met Wu Qianyu,
Communication with family members is always unhappy, grumpy, unhappy to close the door and leave.
After being with her, I gradually learned to manage my emotions.
The relationship with his family has also been eased, and it is precisely because he has seen these changes in Shi Boxiong,
The Shi family was willing to go from not accepting it at the beginning to slowly recognizing Wu Qianyu.
It is actually very, very difficult to make Brother Gongzi have this kind of positive change.
This also shows how powerful Wu Qianyu's own energy is.
Shi Boxiong thanked Wu Qianyu many times on Weibo for making him feel better
It's really interesting, because wealth itself is an energy.
But compared with Wu Qianyu, as a rich third-generation Shi Boxiong, he will actually be weaker in terms of energy.
In this relationship, he is the one who is led and influenced.
However, this also shows that if we cultivate our body and mind well, there is actually a great possibility to lead people who are higher than us.
Especially now that the economic environment is not good, in fact, many people are in a state of relatively low energy.
People with high energy and high vitality will become more and more popular in the future, whether in career or relationship.
So how do you cultivate physical and mental energy? Let's take Wu Qianyu as an example.
Physical and mental energy is divided into physical energy + psychological energy, physical energy is well understood, that is, to exercise more and pay attention to diet,
Wu Qianyu himself is an athlete,
Mountaineering, skiing, and surfing ♀️ are all her hobbies.
Get moving, sisters
Of course, it is more difficult to improve mental energy than physical energy.
We need to have a very strong spiritual core, so what is a strong spiritual core?
The most important thing is to have a set of standards for your own understanding of the world.
This standard is not defined by society, not given by elders, and not by everyone.
It's about experiencing life by yourself, thinking by yourself, summarizing by yourself, and really approving in your heart.
In this way, we will not be confused, internally strife, and overwhelmed because of the turmoil in the outside world.
If you look closely, the higher the energy of the people around you, they tend to be very self-consistent.
has its own set of principles for doing things, and will not doubt yourself because of others.
So even if the other party is a wealthy family, Wu Qianyu will never feel that he is inferior, and he will feel unworthy.
did not look at her intimate relationship from a secular perspective, but made her full of freedom and charm.
In the relationship between the sexes, it is actually very paradoxical, the more you flatter, the less attractive you are.
In addition, people with a stable kernel, even if they encounter right and wrong, will not be in a hurry to prove themselves and mess up.
Because my understanding of myself is clear and solid, I will not really doubt myself and enter a meaningless cycle of self-proof just because you say that I am not good.
For example, after the breakup, Lin Feng took his wife Zhang Xinyue to the show to connote his ex, revealing that he had been PUA to inferiority.
His wife Zhang Xinyue is also on Weibo, and she is pointing at Wu Qianyu openly and secretly.
But Wu Qianyu never paid attention to it, nor did he say a word about Lin Feng's wrongness.
But in the show, with the sentence "I haven't talked about a scumbag", it can be regarded as affirming him in disguise.
Compared with the two, the pattern is superior, but it makes Wu Qianyu win the favor of the audience.
When I saw her, I thought of Yishu's sentence:
"It doesn't matter if you win or lose, but the most important thing is to be a person. ”
Including since he fell in love with Shi Boxiong, he has been criticized, it doesn't matter.
Because she has something in her heart that she feels is more important.
Establishing our own multiple perceptions of the world and not living with a single value standard will untie our lives a lot.
I myself think this is a good medicine to make our state better in the economic downturn.
Everyone is different, and the topics of the trip to this world are also different.
As soon as possible, break the single value orientation of only pursuing "good grades, good jobs, good marriages, good houses and good cars".
Only then will we really usher in the relaxation and enjoyment of life.
This is back to the topic I just said, think about the unique value order in your heart,
Xi to block out the noise of the outside world, not people and clouds, the inner energy will be higher and higher, and people will become more and more attractive!
Okay, let's talk so much about today, and other points about how to improve inner energy, we will continue to talk about it in the article later~
Finally, to add that marrying into a wealthy family is by no means the end of Wu Qianyu,
A person with a strong energy field like her will suck the energy of a wealthy family into herself.
Even if she gets divorced in the future, a lot of resources, talking points, and the goodwill built up by the personality will make her get better and better.
She has never stopped on the road of making herself better. #实话实说#