My mother often told me that a healthy body is managed out, and it is difficult to manage these points well, and it is difficult to think about being healthy. But I always don't think so, I always feel that I am sick, and then I say, why do I care so much. It wasn't until that day that I completely changed my mind.
That day, I was sitting in my study at home doing my homework when I suddenly heard a quarrel outside. I thought to myself, it must be my father and mother who are arguing over trivial matters again. I rubbed my temples and stood up helplessly, ready to go outside to persuade them. When I got to the door, I saw my father and mother arguing fiercely, both of them blushing.
"Why are you so short-sighted, you say you do this and that. Mom pointed angrily at Dad, her mouth kept counting.
"Don't think you're great, you look at the things you've done. Not to be outdone, Dad was full of anger in his words.
Such arguments are not uncommon in my family, and they always annoy me. Mom and Dad are always arguing over small things, which fills the whole house with tension. I know they're for the good of the family, but I really don't like the atmosphere.
I tried to talk to them, but they always felt that there was something wrong with the other person and never backed down. I had to endure this in silence, and a shadow was cast on my heart.
It wasn't until that time when my mother was sick and hospitalized that I realized how correct my mother was. My mother was lying in a hospital bed, her face was pale and she looked much thinner. The doctor said that her illness was caused by long-term arguments and stress, and that it would get worse if not properly managed.
Standing in front of my mother's hospital bed, I burst into tears. I've learned that a healthy body really comes out of tubes. If the quarrels and tensions at home continue, even if you don't get sick, it can be devastating.
During the time my mother was in the hospital, my father began to reflect on his behavior. He took the initiative to take care of his mother, and he no longer quarreled with his mother. I saw the change in my dad and I was proud of him.
On the day my mother was discharged from the hospital, we sat together as a family and enjoyed a rare warm time. Dad took Mom's favorite fruit and handed it to Mom with a smile. Mom took the fruit and smiled happily.
"In the future, our family will be more united and stop arguing over small things. Dad said.
"Yes, in the future, we should cherish each other more and make the family full of love and warmth. Mom said with a smile.
I was also very happy to hear them say that. Family harmony is the most important thing. I looked at the scene in front of me, and my heart was full of happiness.
That day, I understood that a healthy body is really managed. The most important thing is to manage the harmony of the family and stop arguing over small things. I made up my mind that I would care more about my family in the future and create a warm and harmonious family together.
The happy days didn't last long, though. About a month later, my parents and I got into a new conflict.
That day, I came home from school and saw that the atmosphere at home was extremely tense. I heard my dad and mom arguing in the living room, and the sound of the argument came to my ears.
I walked into the living room and saw my father and mother facing each other with angry faces. I muttered to myself, what is the reason for this time?
"Look at what you're doing! it's so unbelievable!" Mom pointed angrily at Dad.
"It's not my fault at all, why are you always so vexatious!" Dad was visibly furious.
I was confused, I didn't know why. I stepped forward and cautiously asked, "What happened?"
Dad looked at me, sighed, and said, "Your mother had a big fight with me again because I broke the vase she liked." ”
"I'm not being vexatious, that's my favorite vase!" Mom said angrily.
I listened to it and my heart tightened, this vase was a souvenir that my mother had collected many years ago, and she cherished it as a cherished collection. She said that it was the first dowry that her grandfather bought for her grandmother, and it was extremely precious to her. I don't think Dad can be so destructive, although it may just be an accident, but it's enough to make Mom sad.
I tried to go up and persuade my mother that such an argument would not end well, but my mother looked at me with tears in her eyes and said, "Your father has gone too far this time, and I am really angry." ”
My heart sank, and looking at my father's expression, he seemed to feel a little guilty. I know he accidentally broke it, but I can understand my mother's feelings.
The atmosphere in the house became extremely heavy for a while, and I felt a sense of powerlessness. I didn't know how to deal with this conflict, and I didn't know what to do to relieve the tension.
I hope that the warmth and harmony of the family can be restored, but now, it seems to be back to the past, and there are many contradictions that cannot be resolved. Some things, maybe once they happen, they can't be undone.
Just as our family was getting on track, another incident happened that made the family nervous again.
One day, when I came home, I was about to go to the study to do my homework, when I heard the sound of my father and grandfather arguing in the house. My heart tightened, and I hurriedly walked in, only to see my father and grandfather standing there, their faces full of anger.
"You old thing, why don't you even understand the truth of educating children?!" Dad pointed angrily at Grandpa, his voice quite annoyed.
"You kid, it's obviously your fault, and you dare to blame me!" Grandpa didn't show weakness either, muttering in his mouth.
I hurriedly stepped forward to play a round and tried to persuade me, but my father and grandfather didn't seem to take me seriously and continued to quarrel. The atmosphere around them instantly became tense and depressing.
This conflict stemmed from a small incident between me and my father. It turned out that in my school math homework, I didn't understand something, so I went to ask my grandfather. My grandfather had always been very good at math, and he patiently explained it to me, which made me pause. Who knew that when I came home, my father lost his temper with me, saying that family members should trust each other and should not communicate family affairs with outsiders. Grandpa was silent at home for a while, but he didn't get angry.
This time the conflict spread rapidly, and the whole family was shrouded in a tense atmosphere. I looked at everything in front of me and had mixed feelings. The conflicts in the family are always so unpredictable, and it makes me anxious.
Conflicts are everywhere in the family, although I am very anxious, but I also understand that no matter how conflicting the family is, it is always closely related to love. I decided to communicate well so that this conflict would not affect the whole family.
In any case, Mom's recovery has made the atmosphere in our home lighter and more enjoyable. Dad also became more attentive and considerate, often cooking some side dishes for Mom, and then the family enjoyed dinner.
However, the conflicts in the family do not seem to have completely disappeared. Lately, I've noticed that Mom always seems to be extraordinarily unhappy with some of Dad's little actions. Sometimes it's because Dad works late, and sometimes it's because he forgets to do something at home. Dad was also a little impatient with Mom's nagging, and I could feel his growing dissatisfaction.
"Why are you coming home late again, there are so many things waiting for you at home!" said Mom to Dad a little angrily.
"I'm busy with work, can't you not understand?" Dad replied impatiently.
All of this always makes me feel irritable. I often try to persuade them, but they seem to be increasingly reluctant to put themselves in each other's shoes. Gradually, the family returned to the previous embarrassing situation.
In such an atmosphere, I often feel anxious. I want everyone in my family to be happy with each other, after all, family harmony is the most important thing. But the reality is not always as it should be, and I feel a little overwhelmed.
I looked at my father and mother who were about to fall into another conflict at home, and my heart was full of helplessness. What can I do to restore warmth and harmony to our home?
Soon some time passed, and the relationship between dad and mom seemed to start to conflict again. On this day, I was concentrating on my homework in the study, when I suddenly heard the voices of my father and mother in the living room, and I seemed to be quite excited. Somewhat worried that they would argue again, I walked out of the study to see what was going on.
When I walked to the door of the living room, I happened to hear their arguing.
"It's obviously your problem this time, why don't you admit it?" Mom asked Dad angrily.
Dad replied with a straight face and gritted his teeth: "I have already said it, I am not wrong! Why don't you believe it?"
I watched them arguing, and my heart felt powerless. I don't want them to get into such a conflict again, because the previous argument has already made me very tired. I decided to talk to them in the hope of easing the tension.
I walked up to them and whispered, "Mom and Dad, can you all calm down? What's wrong? Can I help?"
Mom and Dad stopped arguing at the same time and looked at me with a look of guilt.
"Child, leave this alone and go about your business. Mom said a little unbearably.
"No, I can't sit idly by any longer. The atmosphere at home is tense enough, and I don't want to see you guys arguing over small things anymore. I tried to make my voice firm, "Mom and Dad, you can try to put down some and communicate calmly, maybe it will have a different outcome." ”
They were silent for a moment, then nodded, and Dad walked up to Mom, reached out and gently took Mom's hand. Mom looked at Dad, and the anger in her eyes seemed to gradually dissipate.
"I'm sorry, I shouldn't have been so impulsive. Dad said.
"Perhaps...... Maybe I'm getting a little too anxious. Mom also calmed down, her eyes full of mixed emotions.
Seeing their expressions, my heart warmed and I was relieved. Perhaps, as long as you communicate attentively, the conflicts and disputes in the family can be channeled and resolved.
However, not long after, another relative in our family, my grandmother, suddenly became seriously ill. This makes everyone anxious and worried. And at this particular moment, all kinds of discord and estrangement seem to become more obvious. Disputes and dissatisfaction arose between grandpa and dad over some family matters, and disputes often arose between mom and grandma over the details of taking care of grandma.
I feel a little heavy in my heart. The atmosphere in the home became more and more oppressive, and it seemed to be filled with contradictions and quarrels. I know that every family will have conflicts and frictions, but I don't want our family to be immersed in an atmosphere of quarrels. I hope everything will work out, I prayed to myself.
Silently recalling these events in the past, a pastime suddenly struck. Unconsciously, I've always been convinced of the idea that love always takes time. In the family, everyone has their own way of life and concept of doing things, so friction is inevitable. However, family understanding and tolerance are key to reconciling family relationships. Perhaps, I will write about this theme again, because the struggle and reconciliation of family and affection has always been one of the themes that resonates most with readers.