Is life still interesting for a fifty-year-old couple?
While playing outside today, I overheard a 52-year-old sister talking to a 42-year-old beauty about the topic of married life.
My sister's husband is 56 years old and has been married for twenty-five years now.
Her husband is very good to her, he does all the housework, he does not smoke or drink, and the financial power of the family is also handed over to her sister.
His husband is very clingy, and the two don't quarrel and get angry.
A few years later, my sister was not feeling well at that time, and she went to the hospital to be diagnosed with adenomyosis. But she didn't dare to tell her husband.
She wanted to discuss with her husband that she wanted to sleep in separate beds, but her husband disagreed.
Her husband said that life is not only about sex, but also about love. Love takes precedence over sex. Love is a kind of responsibility, love family, love children.
Her husband used to be a teacher, so he is more mature in his thinking and can see these things.
At first, my sister also had confidence in her husband, but later she told her husband about her disease, and the doctor said that it was recommended to remove the uterus.
Her husband was shocked when he heard this, and he realized that a woman's uterus would have a great impact on her body, but he had no choice but to go to the hospital to cut it.
At the beginning, my hair was not gray before the uterus was cut, and my complexion was good, but my hair was almost gray after the operation, and my complexion was much older.
The doctor said that maybe she was under a lot of pressure and was in an anxious mood for a long time, so it would cause her to age faster.
At that time, she was very unconfident, and she had very little married life with her husband, mainly because she was particularly resistant to this aspect, and she didn't feel like before. I have low self-esteem in front of my husband, and I have been rejected several times when I want to sleep in separate beds.
In order not to disappoint her husband, my sister always shows that she is in good shape.
But how often did his husband come back late for various reasons, and people who had never smoked also started smoking.
The two often quarrel after saying less than a few words, and her husband, who used to be very good to her, has now become impatient and often speaks ill of her outside.
Once overheard his husband talking to others about the problem of married life, his husband actually disliked her younger than himself and her body was not as good as a 60-year-old woman.
My sister felt very uncomfortable, but she knew that her body was really bad, so she could only endure it silently.
In the past, the two of them would sleep in their arms in a bed, and my sister said that her husband had not diminished in the past few years.
Last time, my sister went outside and came back late, and his husband was actually angry and said that he wanted to sleep in separate beds.
My sister thought that she didn't seem to have this psychological need, and she was even disgusted, so she agreed to share the bed.
The two have less communication because of this incident, and there are many contradictions when they stay together. My sister said that her husband often gets angry for no reason, and now he rarely helps with housework.
My sister told the beauty next to her that if she was not feeling well, she should go to recuperate as soon as possible, and don't wait until the impact is serious.
She and her husband are now living like an old man and an old lady in her seventies and eighties.
Hearing this, I feel that it is not easy for a woman to take care of her family and make money, and she also has to take care of her husband's feelings, but fortunately, my husband has always been a reasonable person.
A colleague I know was also tortured by adenomyosis for several years, and finally had her uterus removed, but her husband did not dislike her, her husband never gave up taking care of her, and the two lived happily together.
So do you think it's so important to live as a couple after the age of 50?
It's just that the woman is not sick, and the husband's attitude is like this, is this husband and wife living an interesting life?