"Thirty Only":
Zhong Xiaoqin's parents never know that the "only daughter" who holds 1.5 million manuscript fees and owns 1 million homestays is not as assertive as Wang Manni, who eats 8 yuan box lunches every day?
When it comes to the family of origin, the first thing that comes to most people's minds is the impact of the family of origin on their offspring, and interestingly, the impact in people's mouths is often negative.
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There are two characters in the TV series "Thirty Only" who are very close to the public, and many women can see their shadows from them, and they can see their former and current selves, they are Zhong Xiaoqin and Wang Manni respectively.
I once saw a vote like this: If you were to choose, would you choose Zhong Xiaoqin, a native of Shanghai, or Wang Manni, a "Shanghai drifter"? The voting results are surprising, most people chose Wang Manni, why is this?
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First of all, let's talk about Zhong Xiaoqin, Zhong Xiaoqin is a native of Shanghai, she has a rich and happy family, the family is a standard loving father and strict mother education, whether it is going to school, working or getting married, Zhong Xiaoqin is doing what her mother said, under her mother's arrangement, Zhong Xiaoqin and the affordable man Chen Yu got married, and spent three years of married life.
Zhong Xiaoqin rarely cooks after marriage, she and Chen Yu only eat dinner together three times a day, Zhong Xiaoqin's mother is responsible for the dinner of the two, she leaves after she gets married, and after getting married, she has to let her mother come to cook at home, which seems unreasonable, and it is no wonder that Zhong Xiaoqin will be said by Chen Yu to be "a child who has not grown up".
Due to the different three views, the Xi habits of life are different (Chen Yu likes fish, Zhong Xiaoqin likes cats, Chen Yu likes to be lively, Zhong Xiaoqin likes to be quiet, Chen Yu likes to snore, Zhong Xiaoqin likes to be quiet...... This, combined with their usual lack of communication, led to a rift in this stable marriage.
After the divorce, Zhong Xiaoqin fell in love with writing novels, after the novel was listed, she got a manuscript fee of 1.5 million, and after remarrying Chen Yu, she bought a homestay worth 1 million out of her own pocket.
Next, let's take a look at Wang Manni
Wang Manni is not from Shanghai, in order to be able to take root in Shanghai, with a monthly salary of 17,000, she squeezes the subway every day to eat a box lunch of 8 yuan, in order to live a delicate life, Wang Manni is not even willing to buy a 100 yuan water dispenser.
Wang Manni's emotional experience is richer than Zhong Xiaoqin's, and over the years in Shanghai, she has met Liang Zhengxian, Zhang Zhi and Mr. Wei, but unfortunately, Wang Manni didn't catch anyone in the end.
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It stands to reason that Zhong Xiaoqin, who has a good personality and a strong family background, should be the object of envy of everyone, but why did everyone choose Wang Manni, who was not so lucky, in the end?
Zhong Xiaoqin is good, but compared with Wang Manni, she obviously lacks assertiveness, but this has nothing to do with Zhong Xiaoqin herself, the reason why she has such a character is related to the education of her parents since childhood, strong parents will inevitably cause weak children, Zhong Xiaoqin has lived under her mother's arrangement since she was a child, and she obeys everything and complies with everything, which also leads to her having a pleasing personality.
At home, Chen Yu doesn't change the door lock, she never changes.
In the company, with a monthly salary of 8500, he has to do the work of 3 people, and he is still happy to be called.
In the circle of friends, everything is compliant, resulting in me not being able to eat at night and always giving barbecue to others.
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Instead of being a good person, it is better to be a "villain" who knows how to refuse.